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writes:Im 14, I need help. Theres a boy in my school who I love and have been out with(as in girlfriend+boyfriend)in the past and after that we have done things together since we split up and thats has been on and off for the past 2 years. (we havn't had sex, just oral+foreplay) Now he has said he doesn't fancy me + he used to f*ck me off after things like the next week he woudnt do anything with me that sort of thing. when ive asked he's said he hasnt but hes said he has used me now. He may be saying it to make me think he doesn't like me anymore. im not sure. But were really close friends always with each other laugh and never leave eachothers side really. Now he has got a new girlfriend (supposably one of my friends)Who i told everything to about him and me, bad things and good. She has liked him for ages but she told me she didn't anymore. She liked him when he asked me out 2 years ago and I said yes but its completly different now because of everything ive been through and done with him, but she still goes out with him. Before he was with her he said to me that she would be quick and easy and one night stand and when ive asked him why did he use me, he said ur thick like _____ (the girl who he is now with). He is going to have sex with her tomorrow and possibly using her. Hes said he doesnt fancy her when I asked him once .. before he was with her. He has said many things like that and has used excuses when shes asked him in the past. He has said he doesn't fancy her but would have sex with her(this was before they was together). I really want to tell her because I dont want this happening I really love him and for him to loose his virginity to her :( Its not her im botherd about because she isnt a close friend I coudn't care if we are friends or not. I dont really like her much. shes getting in the way of our friendship. I would tell her but im afraid the boy will fall out with me plus if I did tell her he would find a way out of it. and thats the last thing I want. Its really bad when we fall out. it feels like ive lost everything. People have told me not to tell her and leave them to it. What should I do? Should I leave them to do what they want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): Well that anonymous answer wasn't helpful at all really was it? I agree with eyeswideopen, he sounds slimy. Even if you are "good mates" he has definately been using you and now someone else has come along (your FRIEND no less) and hes just ditched you so he can use her for sex instead. I say you move on from both of them. there are better people in the world, friends that won't get with your exes and boys who won't dump you and then use you for sexual favours. move on! it feels bad now but they deserve each other and you deserve better. just my opinion. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): You're only 14 years old! You shouldn't be having foreplay or oral. You're a kid for God's sake! If your friends means a lot to you, tell her to stay away from him. And stop messing around with your ex-boyfriend. He isn't worth it. He is just using you!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 You need a new boyfriend I wouldn't have anything to do with this loser ever ever. I felt slimy just reading about him. YUCK.
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