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30-35,
*il bug
writes:when i am at work i can't stop thinking about one of the team leaders. he dosen't even know i am alive, and i hardley know any thing about him. when i see him i get a funny feeling and i feel so happy. the other thing is that he is married and about 30 years older than me. can i be in love or is this a stupid crush, or am i going mad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): I would say its a mixture of a crush...and admiration! It doesn't hurt to feel like that, jus make sure you dont embarass yourself by thinking you're in love with him...and making it pretty obvious! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): ok so u don't know me but i used to have the same problem just tell him how u feel away from the wife and just talk about it. And do it some place where no one can hear or see you, if he feels the same way than work something out. when it was me we had and affair for 6 months but respect his choice and DON'T GET MAD!
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (19 July 2007):
 well the good thing is its just a crush and big huge crush. bless. and hopefully you may soon get over it. but i have to admit i love haing that feeling and than you feel stupid because you know you can never have him. but you seem to only happy and always smiling when his around and when his gone or stoped talking to you even if he just looks at you when you walk past him you go all jelly like. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): It is definetly just a crush. It is nothing that you can pursue either as he is married & 30 yrs. older than you. You probably just admire him because he is in a position of power at your work place. Don't worry, the feelings will fade with time.
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (19 July 2007):
 It sounds very much like just a crush, to me.
You don't know anything about him, and yet you get a lovely feeling every time he's close. On top of that, he's much older than you are. So yes, I'd defiantely say it's just a crush.
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