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writes:Im a 23 year old gay male living in UK.I have been openly gay for 3 years.Recently I have fell for 2 guys. Both have told me that they are very interested in me.One is 19 and the other 17.At the moment i haven't even kissed either of them because i really don't want to mess either around, coz they r both such great guys.Both make me laugh and feel happy when Im around them.Part of me wants to go with the 19yold because the age gap is less and due to that a relationship would likely be easier. But it just is not that easy.How do i decide who i like?Help... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): Think about which one you can se yourself with, spend time with them both then take it from there
gd luck,
Matt
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): jeez when i have a problem like this i just bake me up a tray of my home made cookies, and have a good long think. afterwards i just know what the answer is!hope you find that helpfull
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 If you can't decide on who you want to be with in a relationship, then you're not ready for a relationship with either of them. Just date and have fun.
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (19 July 2007):
 spend more time with both of them i have never seen age as an issue but if you do than, see what happens. your right to not to kiss either of them as it will mess you and them. i have never been in this situration but i would spnd time with both of them, write down the bad and the good like raychell said, compare and see which one you feel comfortable and maybe enjoy sometime with. hope you make the right choice for you. xxx
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reader, raychell +, writes (19 July 2007):
 This is probably one fof the hardest things to decide lol. What I would do is compare the two. Make a list of whats good and bad about both of them. I do understand that you want to go with the 19 year old because the age gap is less but that doesnt mean that a relationship is going to be easier. If anything you have to work harder at it. My bf is 27 and im 16 turning 17. Age gaos have nothing to do with anything its what the person is like on the inside that really matters. Be sure that who ever you decide feels the exact same way about you as you do for them and always be honest with the both of them. Let me no how it goes.
Good Luck
Rachel
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