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writes:my boyfriend of 8 years will be moving away to Africa for good before the end of the year. He thinks we should end our relationship now cause it will be easier for him but i want us be together until he leaves. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is moving to africa because of his religious beliefs and i don't share his beliefs.I told him that i would visit him but he wants me to stay.You see everyone from his family is already there but my entire family is here.
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reader, mary-lee  +, writes (20 July 2007):
 can i please ask why is he moving and your not? you have been together for 8 years and you just want to throw your relationship away because his moving? whats holding you back? and why is he moving in the first place? please email me if you want to talk about this further, i'm interested in your answers!
love always Mary-lee.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): well if he wants to end it now then why do you want to stick around?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): End the relationship before he moves to Africa. Long distance relationships are hard and whilst some people manage to succeed with them many people don't. You should break up with him because you are hardly going to see each other, a factor which can break up relationships.
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reader, _Edward_  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 I think you should brake up now, because if you brake up later it could be to hard to move on in life…infarct you’ll start missing him and may not want to brake up, it will lead you to a dead end…
Well…I hope every thing will work out for you… =D
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 I would break up now, it works in your favor. You're in control, you can try to move on with your life, and if you break up now, and he realizes he loves you before he leaves, he may change his mind and stay. Then it's you're decision if you want him back or not. What do you want?
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