A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I love 2 guys one is B who I have been with for over 2 years the other is CJ who I have known for almost a year. B has left for Bootcamp on July 4th and he is going to be in the army for 6 years, I am not old enough to marry him and not sure if I would. CJ has been here with me alot since B has left, I love B and I have for a long time and now I am in love with CJ who lives 1 hour away. I am not sure what to do, my mind is racing and I feel lost; almost every night I cry because I miss B but..... I donno please help. Which guy should I chose? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 July 2007):
 I think the reason you can't decide is because you are not ready for a commitment and that's exactly the way it should be at your age. Dating different people in your teenage years prepares you for adulthood. It lets you discover which personality traits that you like in a boyfriend and of course which ones you don't. Besides meeting different people is just plain fun. There is plenty of time to settle down with one guy but you only get to be a teenager for a few years. Enjoy those years, honey.
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