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*utterflyfly
writes:Has this ever happened to you: I recently met at work this girl who is sooo like me, personality wise, sense of humour that I GET, and we clicked like that from the first day, and had such a laugh together and at the moment we're at the stage of declaring complete love to each other. In a friendly way, not a sexual one or somehting else. But this girl has the gift of staring someone to Death, I mean I catch her looking at me and it sends shivers down my spine her gaze is so intense, once jokingly I held it too but that was like, wow, too much evergy and it made me feel really weird after. Could it be that she fancies me? We've been out together and the time just flies, we end up spending 6 hours at a time just chatting and not doing anything else only declaring absolute happiness at spending the evening together and at the end of it she told me twice thanks for the date. I took it as a joke; I don't know if I'm interested in anyting else and I'm not worried about it, what may come may come, but I would like to hear your opinions...
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reader, Butterflyfly +, writes (25 July 2007):
Butterflyfly is verified as being by the original poster of the question hah thinking abou tthis i just remembered she told me she likes to go to gay places cos people there are so friendly and cool, and we should go together for her to show me and to have a laugh.
she just texted me (i'm on holiday away atm) to tell me she's gonna leave this job to get one more related to her uni work :( and to confirm us keeping in touch no matter what lol i can't wait to see what's gonna beeeeee
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (23 July 2007):
 I really think that she does you know! :) Aww, i would say go for it! If shes said that twice, i agree, she really does think its a date.Awww i hope it works out. Good luckkk xxxx :)
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reader, Butterflyfly +, writes (20 July 2007):
Butterflyfly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe're always havin a good b++tchin session about men and we resolved in OUR next 'date' together we should really shave our legs lol
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reader, Butterflyfly +, writes (20 July 2007):
Butterflyfly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAHHHHH thank you guys I thought so too...!! ;-). Gosh I'm in fits with giggles now I mean I think she is great. we're texting eachother now cosim on holiday and cant wait to catch up when i go back. THose stares are just great, in a harmless way, i mean the energy!! By feelign weird I meant feelign a bit ruffled but in a goooood way/ omg i should stop .Thanks for your feedback!!
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reader, mary-lee  +, writes (20 July 2007):
 well you are either developing a very good friendship or relationship. and if thats what you want, go with it! i think it would be a good idea if the two of you talked about how you are feeling and see how she is feeling. i think this might be a start to a great relationship! good luck!Love always Marylee!
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reader, Wild Thaing  +, writes (20 July 2007):
 She thanked you TWICE? Girl, in her mind it was a date.
It's a great feeling to connect with someone like you have with your co-worker. At some time in the future (can't say when), you might want to gauge her expectations of this relationship. A straight up discussion would be in order, when the time is right. If there is a disconnect in expectations it's best to get it out in the open and resolve it, regardless of the consequences.
In the meantime enjoy... good luck and take care.
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reader, Manya  +, writes (20 July 2007):
It sounds to me that you two may be falling in love. Definitely you should keep
going out together, and just take things as they come!
Her intensity may mean it's the real thing, but if it makes you feel weird, then
keep a little distance till you figure it out. Best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): I think I understand what your feeling..it's great eh? I've been dating this guy for a while and thats pretty much how it started for us. the only difference was the fact that it was while I was playing basketball and he would be in the gym. i could like FEEL him watching me and when I'd turn to look back our eyes would meet and we could like feel the attraction/energy between us. It was great and still is. But yea I think there could very well be an attraction there. Best of luck.
have fun
be safe
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