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*xcbabiegal
writes:heya remember i said my bf was complimenting other girls well now i've just found out that he's been texting his ex girlfriend asking her for phone sex !!!!! i really love him but this is the 3rd time he's cheated on me with her what should i do ??? help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): Leave him, he doesn't deserve your love.
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reader, sxcbabiegal +, writes (20 July 2007):
sxcbabiegal is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks guys for all your help your all brillaint i've made up my mind and i may leave him but there is a problem i need 2 get round first and also i have found pictures of other girls NAKED on his computer so that made up my mind i have 2 figure something out first though
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reader, LauraE +, writes (20 July 2007):
He will keep doing it because you let him get away with it.
The way to stop this hurting is to leave him and find someone else. If you stay with him it will hurt worse and for longer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): i think that u should just ignore him and move on with your life. go out there and socialise, who knows, u might just meet one nice guy who will treat u ike a queen. cause if u go on with this cheating b/friend, it will only mean hanging on to a sinking ship which will only drown with u.
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (20 July 2007):
 you should just leave him you deserve much better after all you are 13-15 years old so you wont die if things don't work out between you two. look forward don't look back
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reader, Midge +, writes (20 July 2007):
 If you are asking other people what you should do after someone has just cheated on you, then you should have a word with yourself.
The fact that you say you love this person, doesnt mean that he can use you as a doormat! Dont let anyone do that especially the person that is supposed to love you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): Don't wait for a 4th time. He doesn't deserve you.. Let him get lost and you will find the right one that wants you and that will make YOU and ONLY YOU feel special!M.
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reader, butterfly809  +, writes (20 July 2007):
 i think that you dont need a loser like that...your a very young girl...it hurts to know that the guy that you lov is cheating...but just let him go...guys come and go..
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): Babes, its no good, who the hell is he? or thinks he is? guys like this cause trust issues,sometimes for life. And the worst thing is (altough its not right) play him at his own games!!!!!
If you dont actually want to cheat, get a girlfriend to text your mobile ect,and save under a guys name! and let him find the texts, make HIM paranoid, hurt and rejected!!! you gotta get tough now if you wanna be with him im afraid.DONT GET WALKED OVER!!!
I guarantee, this will put him in his place, and if he isnt bothered , walk away.
I strongly suggest this method. be strong. DO IT
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): Babes, its no good, who the hell is he? or thinks he is? guys like this cause trust issues,sometimes for life. And the worst thing is (altough its not right) play him at his own games!!!!!
If you dont actually want to cheat, get a girlfriend to text your mobile ect,and save under a guys name! and let him find the texts, make HIM paranoid, hurt and rejected!!! you gotta get tough now if you wanna be with him im afraid.DONT GET WALKED OVER!!!
I guarantee, this will put him in his place, and if he isnt bothered , walk away.
I strongly suggest this method. be strong. DO IT
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reader, mary-lee  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 SWEETY! You do not need this losser in your life! You are still so young, i promise you will find somebody else that will treat you much better! Trust me, the same thing happened to me! He obviously doesn't love you, and he doesn't deserve your love! The sooner you get rid of him the better! It's jerks like this that think it's ok to cheat! you have to teach him it's not!
Love Always - Marylee!
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (19 July 2007):
 Well if hes cheated on you before and is doing it again. You have to leave him NOW!!. You may love him, but he clearly doesnt love you. And has shown this through his actions.Your still young find someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): Hi Hunny,
darling your to young to be having idiots like this in your life, well no one wants this kind of behaviour from their b/friend.
GET RID OF HIM! Its not worth your breaking heart, if this is the way he is acting its not going to change.
You do the changing for him get the arse out your life and get a life yourself sweety, loads of nice guys out there that wouldnt treat you this way, YOUR WORTH MUCH MORE JUST REMEMBER THAT! TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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