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writes: Okay HelpMy boyfriend and I are fighting too much. But after the fights we are all hunky dory and cuddley. But the thing is were fighting TOO much every day. It's making me wory,I dont like it at all its unbarable. I love him too much to loose him. But hes so annoying when we fight cuz were too much alike. Please help me save the love of my life Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Basschick +, writes (19 July 2007):
Your both butting heads because you both want to lead. It can't be done 100% of the time. One of you must lead, the other must follow. Usually it's the man who feels the need to lead. This doesn't mean you have to kiss his ass all the time and act like your opinions don't count. But pick your battles. Give him the chance to be the man at times and perhaps he will learn the art of compromise. Good luck!
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reader, raychell +, writes (19 July 2007):
First of all every couple fight some more than others some not at all. Personally I dont think that you have anything to worry about mainly because of the fact that the arguments do stop and that after them he doesnt ignore you or is awkward with you, he cuddles you and is all lovey dovey. In my opinion I would say that that is his way of saying sorry for the argument you have had. Let me no how it goes.
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