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36-40,
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writes:I am deeply in love with a guy I know but he doesn't like me back and instead we 'hook' up a lot. What should I do? Continue with the hook ups or try to make him love me back? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): What you have to remember here is that you can't force someone to love you back, no matter how much you want them to love you. If you can still be involved with someone who doesn't have feelings for you then go for it otherwise stay out of it.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 Ok Im gonna get tough and tell it like it is girly. You cannot ever make a guy love you in that way, when he has had so much 'hooking up' privaledges with you already. If he has stated he doesn't like (or you assume this from how he treats you) Then he is using you BIG TIME. Sex is sex and love is love.They are not the same thing and only love first may lead to sex, not usually the other way round.
I know you say you love this guy but I am telling you, there are better more loving and genuinely caring men out there just waiting for the right girl to come along. By sticking with this guy, you are missing out on any possibility of a two way, mutual loving thing.
RUN my darling, save yourself!!!!!
Aunty Em xxx
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