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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I think i fancy my best friend, and shes a girl. she fancies me to but i have a boyfriend. also wen im around her she tries to kiss me etc and i sometimes feel uncomfortable, i dont want to wreck our friendship or my relationship with my boyfriend.
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reader, 88jane +, writes (20 July 2007):
If you feel uncomfortable with your friends advances and with her trying to kiss you then you have to tell her! if it makes you uncomfortable then she needs to stop but she cant do this unless she knows you dont like it! You wont wreck your friendship by telling her this if she is a real friend to you. If you fancy her and want to take things further then you need to think about the feelings of your boyfriend and end the relationship with him first. If you want to stay with your boyfriend then you have to remain just friends with your girl friend--kissing her would be considered cheating on your boyfriend and thats not fair. I think you need to think what you want, either your boyfriend or girl friend and then act accordingly! only you can decide which way you want to go.
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