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writes:My girlfriend is on a trip all summer. She used to call me every day. It's been more than a week since she has called and today she messaged me talking about a cute guy she met but that I shouldn't be jealous. I said I was jelous and she said "you shouldn't be" so I said I trusted her.Does this mean we are going to break up soon?
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reader, sxcbabiegal  +, writes (20 July 2007):
 i don't think your girlfriend has any right to tell you that another guy is "cute" she may be only telling you this to make you jealous but if this how it starts just remember it may not stop! tell her that you have a right to be jealous and maybe play her at her own game and see how she reacts if it doesn't make her change then leave her you deserve better
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reader, LauraE +, writes (20 July 2007):
Hi,
I can’t see why she had to tell you that he was ‘cute’. If he is just a mate then his looks are irrelevant. I agree with others that have replied to you. Either she wants to make you jealous, or she is interested in him and can’t resist talking about him. I think it’s probably both, but I don’t know her of course. I think the idea of mentioning a cute girl that you have just met might be worth trying. Maybe you should go out and really meet some cute girls, then it won’t be a white lie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): I would tell her that I've been hanging out with a really cute girl that I just met and she what her reaction is.
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reader, mary-lee  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 there are three possibilities here. 1, your g/f could be just telling you this to make you jealous, and to make you show her that you really love her, and getting attention out of you. 2, she could have meet this guy and be hooking up with him. Or 3, she might not be hooking up with him, the good thing you need to take out of this is that she told you about him, she might not have anything to hide. it would be alot worse if she didn't tell you, then she might have something to hide. you need to ask your self if you trust her or not, then go from there. but dude your only young, there will be other girls that catch your attention, maybe more than your g/f does.
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reader, HisWifey07 +, writes (19 July 2007):
wow i cant really give you advice on that area but what i can tell you if she tells you about another guy and how she looked then you should ask your self does she really love me and satisfied for what she has or does she just want to tick me off and make me jealous, your call. you decide because believe me if i was in that situation i would really question our relationship especially if my man got talking a bunch junk about how another girl carry her self because that just mean well hey maybe you should go with him and leave me the hell alone for all i care.
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reader, Lovelymac +, writes (19 July 2007):
Ok to be bluntly honest she is probably hooking up with this guy or at least wanting to. She want's you to be jealous because it makes her feel good. Im a girl that has done the same thing to one of my boyfriends. If I were you I would ask her if she is intrested in this guy and if your lucky and she's honest she will tell you the truth. You should tell her that your ok with her hanging with this guy and that you actually started hanging with a girl that you like "but she shouldn't be jealous" :-) Then just have fun. If she is going to be that way she is just trying to get a reaction out of you.
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