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22 January 2011: When your in a relationship, either married or dating I think it is safe to say that equality in that relationship is a very good thing. I'm interested in seeing what everyone can come up with for equality points in a relationship. I'm not really ...
Lost puppy effect.
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7 September 2010: With a friend of mine going through a break up at the moment I have noticed the common behavior of her bf which I want to call the lost puppy effect. Some back ground on the situation is that she broke up with him and is moving on and going through ...
To break up or not to break up? That is the question.
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23 February 2010: This article is inspired by two friends of mine who are together in a relationship and its for all those men and women who think that they want to end their realationship but don't quite know yet. All relationships hit rocky patches where you have...
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Thinking too much of this other girl..help!
Q. dear cupid, i have been with my partner for nearly two years now. i met her just before and fell in love with her straight away but recently a girl that has been missing from my life for 7 years now, because i moved home, has started to contact ...
A. 6 January 2010: If you think that you will fall for her and don't want to leave your gf then it might be best to not see this other girl. Neither choice will be easy since even then you won't stop thinking about the other girl. There is a chance that it could get ... (read in full...)
Any first date tips?
Q. ok people i need helppp!! i am going on a first date with a guy i've liked for sooooo long, and i am sooooooooooo nervous!! i'm just out a 5 year relationship, we never really done the whole dating thing, anyway what do i say, what do i wear? what ...
A. 5 January 2010: Don't have too much to drink because you still want to have a good conversation with him. Wear something not too reveiling but still sexy as if you were teasing him. The last thing is just be yourself, see if he`s has any common interests and go ... (read in full...)
Question for the male aunts!!!
Q. A question for guys... do you prefer to make the first move or do you like the girl to do it?...
A. 5 January 2010: I would have to say that it is really hot when the girl makes the first move. That way the guy knows your interested which is important if you are pursuing a shy guy. ... (read in full...)
Help!!! I'm scared!
Q. what if my bf had a small amount of visible cum on his fingers and then fingered me? it has been 11 days since my period ended. would it be likely that i am pregnant? please help!!! im scareddd! ...
A. 5 January 2010: There is a small but unlikely chance of pregnancy. My girlfriend studies this sort of thing and there are actually very few days you can actually get pregnant and there is not much of a chance that that small amount of sperm would make it. Go out ... (read in full...)
Do men get bored of their girlfriend's bodies once they've slept with them?
Q. hi im 19, me an my boyfriend have been together for a year now and we've been sleeping together for about 3 months. im a bit worried though because of rumours ive heard that men get bored of their girlfriends bodies really quickly once they've sle...
A. 5 January 2010: If he is in love with you he won't get bored but its never a bad idea to try and keep thing interesting. Try wearing sexy outfits for him and also you can be adventerous with new positions. You can find many guides online and almost all guys would ... (read in full...)
Help! How can I get to know him better?
Q. I know this guy through ONLY text and online, but he is a mutual friend.. I here that he is a really great guy and he's super funny, good looking and so nice! I text him a lot and he actually recently just got dumped by his girlfriend.. He seems ...
A. 5 January 2010: If you can, get a group of friends together (and this boy) for some sort of social activity. This way you can spend time with him getting to know if he's interested in you without the preasure of dating so soon. Flirt when your out with him and if ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to date anymore..so what do I do now?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend a little over a month, and we were doing great. But last night he told me he had lost interest in a relationship, that he didn't feel the same anymore... He said he just didn't want a relationship at this time. He sa...
A. 5 January 2010: I hate to be the bad guy but I don't think he is interested or will become interested in you. Guys take along time to mature and may have been scared by committment talk. I think you should move on, there will be other guys. Then you can find ... (read in full...)
Thinking too much of this other girl..help!
Q. dear cupid, i have been with my partner for nearly two years now. i met her just before and fell in love with her straight away but recently a girl that has been missing from my life for 7 years now, because i moved home, has started to contact ...
A. 5 January 2010: You don't have to block this girl out of your as long as it doesn't not interfere with your relationship with your girlfriend. Chances are this won't be the first time something like this will happen and its ok. This other girl must of had a big ... (read in full...)
Question about fertility testing...any advice?
Q. Ok, I am a 21 year old male. I am in a good secure job etc and in the next year or so me and my partner want to start a family as we've been together for a while and love each other. I have quite small testicles and am often tired, for this reason ...
A. 5 January 2010: Ask your GP and they will refer you to the nearest fertility clinic where there tests are quite accurate. If you go there and there happens to be any complications (I hope there are none) then they will be able to provide you with all the options ... (read in full...)
Should I fly out there and surprise her? What do you all think?
Q. My girlfriend had to move back home (thousands of miles away from me) we were OK for a few months then she said it was to hard and we couldn't be together and broke up with me. We still talk every couple weeks and in emails she still says she ...
A. 5 January 2010: Drop some under the radar quetions about her being in a new relationship with someone else and about your past with her. If she's single and misses you as much as you say I think she would love the surprise. Even if it does not work out the way you ... (read in full...)
Lost interest in him..how do I break up with him
Q. So I've been dating my best guy friend for 2 months now and he's in love with me but I'm tired of him. He's the best guy just not for me and I don't know how or if to brake up with him. Help?...
A. 5 January 2010: When its this early on in the relationship you don't need a long break up speach. Let him know that the feelings just aren't there and that it would be unfair to him to let it go any farther. Be honest, he will get over it and realize it was for the ... (read in full...)
Any advice on breaking it off cleanly with my bf..who has anger issues, in his past
Q. Hello! I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I was truly in love with him but we had several problems during the relationship. He'd get incredibly angry for any reason, specially when he drank too much, and for 2 years he was addicted to cocai...
A. 5 January 2010: This won't be easy to do but you have to cut him out completely. You should never fear someone that close to you and his problems are not ones you can over come for him. If he truely cares about you he will get help (there is lots out there) and ... (read in full...)
Will the relationship become just about the Sex?
Q. Hey everyone! I've been with my boyfriend for one month now. We are both virgins. I feel really comfortable with him and I think I'm ready to loose my virginity. We've played around alot. The only problem I have is that I'm scared if we have sex s...
A. 4 January 2010: Take your time with him so you are 100% sure its what you want. In the beginning it will seem that that is the main focus of the relationship because its so new and exciting but as time goes on every thing will balance out as long as the love is ... (read in full...)
How to raise money fast?
Q. I'm 18 and in grade 12. I want to go to Queen's for commerce next year, but my family des't have money to pay for the progam. I'm tryingt find a way to get money so i can go tere. Does anyone know fast (and legal :P)ways to come up withabout $12K ...
A. 4 January 2010: If you have the time I reccomend going into construction. The days can be way over eight hours which means 1 1/2 pay. It won't be easy and its hard to have a life while doing this but if you're serious it will work. Don't forget about student loans ... (read in full...)
Any good dating sites??
Q. HELP!!!Im am looking for a real inline dating site i have been searching for a while and tried a few sites but i always end up getting a girl whos always asks for money she then says a really sad story, but i just want a normal girl one who is not ...
A. 4 January 2010: A friend of mine found his now wife on the site called e harmony. It is one of the best at matching personalty as discussed by my personality psychology prof. It takes some time to get set up but its worth it. Hope this helps and good luck.
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My cousin blows hot and cold with me... is he using me or does he really have feelings for me?
Q. my cousin and i had sex last summer but i was drunk and he wasn't. well long story short, i love him so much and i think he feels the same. then about 4 weeks ago, we had sex again, and it was better than before!! well, he avoids me, and when it's ...
A. 3 January 2010: I would have to agree with ForeverDawn. As for the other reply the legal age for consent is far lower then eighteen and if you two are in love and the state laws permit this which generally means you two are not first cousins then follow your heart ... (read in full...)
How do I be...just friends?
Q. I've been friends with a guy for awhile now, he had a girlfriend of 7 months. (hes 22 I'm 20 and shes 18) we were just friends and stuff but developed feelings for each other and ended up fooling around before they broke up. (they did shortly after) ...
A. 3 January 2010: Its hard to just be his friend. Don't let him forget that your interested (if you still are), but also i don't reccomend waiting around for too long. It sounds like he broke up with her to be with you which means he should not need tons of time to ... (read in full...)
I want to date again but just can't seem to!
Q. I've been having trouble getting back into dating. My previous girlfriend and I (I am a lesbian, if it wasn't clear) had been together for nearly a year and we were really happy together. I was even sure that I loved her. Unfortunately, this August ...
A. 3 January 2010: Its best just to take your time since the break up was sad one and I'm sorry to here that. It sounds like you did love her so it may take up to a year or more to get over this. When the right girl comes around the feeling will past. I think you want ... (read in full...)
I really think he's changed. How can I get my friends to like him more?
Q. I have been talking to a boy i met at a party a couple of years ago and he seems really nice so we have met up a lot these past few months, i have really started to like him but my friends dont, i dont see what their problem is as they have never ...
A. 3 January 2010: You can always ask him but then his answer will depend on how much you trust that he has changed. As for your friends, if they are truely your friends they will be happy with him as long as he makes you happy. They will however be quick to critisize ... (read in full...)
I'm really confused as to whether he likes me... or not...
Q. i met a boy a while back (who is a bit older than me)but never spoke then recently i went to a party and we got talking, he asked me lots of questions about me and seemed genuinly interested and always seemed to direct the questions at me. he was ...
A. 3 January 2010: To be painfully honest the guy might just have been trying to get with you at this party. Its sad but thats what alot of guys do. Your best bet is to ask him on a date, some one on one time in a neutral environment and you'll be able to tell then if ... (read in full...)
Help! Her past is freaking me out!!!
Q. Hello dear cupid, here I am again. Yesterday I had the strangest day of my life. With my Gf we are together for 7 months, and we really love and live together in same appartement.May be in future she will be my wife who knows. So yesterday she was ...
A. 3 January 2010: Everyone has their own dark secrets of the past. If she needs someone to comfort her I hope you can be that guy, it would mean the world to her. As stated earlier profesional is a good idea but it can not be forced apon anyone. If you are there for ... (read in full...)
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