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writes:I've been with my boyfriend a little over a month, and we were doing great.But last night he told me he had lost interest in a relationship, that he didn't feel the same anymore...He said he just didn't want a relationship at this time. He said he spends hours doing other things, and that it's not fair to me. I never once felt neglected or anything while we were together.He told me last night, and was really sorry and stuff. He said he never wanted to hurt me. He said he wasn't shutting me away, and that he still wants to be friends.But I believe he's my soulmate...we get along so well and have almost everything in common. I can talk to him more than anyone else and I can be myself with him 100%.I don't know what to do. I love him, and he knows I still do, and he knows I'll wait for him.I simply don't know what I actions I should take. I think I will wait for him, but...I just don't know. I want him back so badly. I'll do anything...I think when he became ready for a relationship again he would take me back...But again, I just don't know what to do.Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Dont be desperate to get back with him just except it there is so many people in the world and the one you feel like is meant for you most likely there is someone better for you its hard to believe but you can do it. He is most likely not your soulmate its always a hard thing to hear. There will be other people. And if he just got out of a relationship prior to being with you he is most likely rethinking being in a relationship because he is still in love with his ex (if this is the case) in any case he may just be breaking up with you lightly. If he doesnt feel the same anymore after that short about of time then he never really did feel anything. No one ever wants to hear they have to move on but its the best thing for you especially if his previous relationship is the case.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (5 January 2010):
 I hate to be the bad guy but I don't think he is interested or will become interested in you. Guys take along time to mature and may have been scared by committment talk. I think you should move on, there will be other guys. Then you can find someone willing to put as much feelings into the relationship as you are. In the end it is your choice and if you want to see what the future brings with him then stick around as his friend. This can sometimes bring more pain but again its up to you. One last thing is don't wait forever for him. You seem too sweet and caring to waste your time on someone who won't love you back.
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