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writes: dear cupid,i have been with my partner for nearly two years now. i met her just before and fell in love with her straight away but recently a girl that has been missing from my life for 7 years now, because i moved home, has started to contact me and now i cant stop thinking about her. when i used to speak to her i felt very strong about her as well.i love my partner and would never leave her for another but what can i do about the thoughts, the second girls too nice to block from my minduncle-b
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 So you've been with your partner since you were 15. You're falling for this girl you haven't seen since you were 10. You have a solicitor because you've committed armed robbery and you are falling for your solicitor's daughter as well.
My. My my my. What an interesting life you are leading. So fantastical, in every sense of that word.
I'd say that you should focus on preparing for prison and worry about your love life when you are released. Talk to your mum or dad if you can't seem to focus on reality.
Good luck.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 April 2010):
Is this the solicitor's daughter? My head is spinning. How old are you and your partner? Who is the solicitor? Who is this other woman? http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-in-love-with-my-solicitors-daughter.html
This is very confusing. Could you please clarify? Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): well if this girl you met before is so wonderful and you felt strongly you didnt stay in contact?
if your gf is the love of your life you wouldnt think like this,
block this girl out but not completely, if you want you relationship but i bet your gf knows
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (6 January 2010):
 If you think that you will fall for her and don't want to leave your gf then it might be best to not see this other girl. Neither choice will be easy since even then you won't stop thinking about the other girl. There is a chance that it could get worse if you drag this out for too long then your gf might get fed up. I know that you want a solution that makes them both happy but if just being this girl's friend will be too difficult then explain this to her that thats why you two can not see each other. With just you in mind I would say keep in touch with this girl but try not to bring it up with the gf too much. You sound like you may want to get together with this other girl and its ok if you leave your gf for this just don't do anything when your still with her. In the end its your happiness we're talking about. I'm sure you'll figure it out in time.
Follow this up with any more questions you may have, I'm happy to do my best to answer them. I was in a situation similar to this with an now ex gf and a friend who seemed to be the better choice at the time. I broke up with my girlfriend because I felt it was time but it turned out that the other girl was terrible for me, so really think this one over before you make a decision that can not be reversed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou 'The Realist' but i dont think its that easy, what if I fall for the second girl, we have been talking and shes the same girl as she was before. Can things only get worse ?
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reader, The Realist +, writes (5 January 2010):
You don't have to block this girl out of your as long as it doesn't not interfere with your relationship with your girlfriend. Chances are this won't be the first time something like this will happen and its ok. This other girl must of had a big impact on your life and can still be a very good friend of yours. If you start to doubt your relationship though then you may have to cut one of them out of your life.
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