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Came on this site because I needed an aswer to a question...how original. But now that I have realized that many people need answers, I spend most of my time while on this site answering questions instead of posting them.

My friends say that I give excellent advise so I figured that I'd help anyone that wanted to listen.

Good luck to all of you and your relationships.

How do I shave without leaving stubble?

Q.   How do i shave my pubic area? My boyfriend has recently asked my to completely shave my vagina, but when i did it with a razor, it just turned stubbly so wasn't very attractive. How do i shave without leaving stuble for a more sexy look?...

A.   17 December 2010: Some people just have more sensitive skin than others. The best thing u can do is make sure the area is moisturized, heated up before shaving and done with a brand new razor. I personally trim it then use an electric razor thing (one that is meant ... (read in full...)

Got a boyfriend but like someone else...

Q.   So, as of right now i have a boyfriend and we tried dating before but i always had started making the converstaions so we broke up but then after about a month and a half we began talking and i started liking him again. Last night we had went to ...

A.   5 December 2010: it's always nice to have someone there for you to be with. I think that you are trying with this guy, but still have your options open. Don't miss out on something just for a guy that you don't have true feelings with. See what else is out ther... (read in full...)

I want to forget about him and move on, but I can't!

Q.   It's only a few months before everyone goes away to college, and I feel like if I don't do something now that this guy will be out of my life forever. We were friends, but my stupid social anxiety and awkwardness is getting in the way of me talking ...

A.   5 December 2010: Try going to some graduation parties that he might be at and start a conversation there. You will never know if you don't try. Facebook is also a plus in situations like these. See if you can find him on there. If you are having set backs abou... (read in full...)

She has a Boyfriend and likes me

Q.   Hello everyone. I am 21 and I go to college. I have a friend who already has a boyfriend, she is average good looking, I just want to kiss and have fun with her. So i said that i have a crush on her but if she wud have been single then i wud had ...

A.   23 November 2010: Dude, this is a bad situation. How pissed off would you be if someone you were dating did this to you? This is why people have trust issues these days. You say that you want her physically but you however left out if you actually want to be with ... (read in full...)

Should I be worried he wants me to be his girlfriend after our second date?

Q.   I recently met a gentleman @ a local gym where I work. He gave me his email - I replied - we went on our first date saturday night, but the second date (monday) he already wanted for me to be his girlfriend. He's 48 never been married no children. ...

A.   23 November 2010: Its about what you want and if the chemistry is there. It could just be because you make him feel at ease causing him to let go of the macho man image that guys feel they have to present. I am only 21 but had this issue present itself a couple t... (read in full...)

Would you cheat on a guy you were falling for just to have some "closure sex?"

Q.   I'm curious what goes on in a woman's mind when she is dating a guy she claims to love, but still has feelings for a former lover whom she only had sex with and maybe a slight friendship. I've had several relationships where I found out some time ...

A.   23 November 2010: A woman that truely loves you would NOT have sex with someone else. A girl that is in lust and ignorantly is selfish will say she is having sex one last time so that she can be more devoted. Women are not that different than men in some cases. ... (read in full...)

Why is my period late if I haven't had sex?

Q.   Okay I need some help, I'm 15 and my period has been 10 days late I am still a Virgin so I haven't had sex. I don't understand why its late my boyfriend fingered me the day my period was supposed to come and now its really late. I don't know why the ...

A.   23 November 2010: I am 21 and still have an irregular period schedule. Sometimes it can be two weeks late (and I do have sex so its pretty scary!) I would suggest having a word with your mom (I know, seems like a painful embarassing conversation) just tell her your... (read in full...)

What did his text message mean?

Q.   Hiya. I need some help. Basically, my ex sent me a text yesterday, simply saying my name. This made my heart skip, somersult etc. I should explain, this guy was the first ever guy I loved. I thought I had gotten over him, but I'm started to doubt ...

A.   23 November 2010: That is one sticky situation. Someone once told me that a person typically never loses feelings for an ex significant other. If you loved him and know him better than most you will always feel connected to him on a deeper level than anyone else. ... (read in full...)

I kissed a guy when I was drunk, told my boyfriend and now I don't know what to do!

Q.   As background, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years and were quite happy together. We were near engagement, so it's a very serious relationship. I went to a going away party this weekend and got blackout drunk at the end of the ...

A.   22 November 2010: I am glad that you know that alcohol is not an excuse. That is what i was going to say originally, but I also wanted to add that someone who knows what they want in a relationship and is 100% committed would not put themselves in a position like ... (read in full...)

Why won't my husband watch porn with me?

Q.   Ok, I have been with my husband for years,married 7 mons. ago. We have a great relationship except this 1 thing...He has always liked porn,mostly "barely legal"teen girls(or so they say)and I guess im at a loss cause I have said hey!why dont we ...

A.   21 November 2010: Guys like this in my opinion are VERY disrespectful. What you are feeling is not a trust issue, it seems like you do trust him, and you should make sure he knows that. But also make him aware that this is a RESPECT thing. Is there a double ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend dumped me over a lie, help!

Q.   My girlfriend was hospitalized due to a mental illness. Seeing as we had a very important class together, I informed the professor she would be gone for a while due to being in the hospital. I did not tell anyone why, just that she was. I made sure ...

A.   20 November 2010: Sounds like u r doing(and did) all the right things. Friends have a huge impact on how someone feels about their significant other...unfortunatly. it takes a strong individual to actually think for thereself. Could be two things that are infu... (read in full...)

Did I blow my one chance with this girl?

Q.   I met this girl in my program on a week long field trip last month. I met her formally the first night when a few of us went to watch the movie but really hit it off with her the 2nd night at a bar with everyone on the trip. We broke away to another ...

A.   20 November 2010: I had a guy crushing on me in a college class. I had no idea until he emailed me and asked me out to a baseball game. I didn't think it was creepy at all and was flattered that he went to find my email through the school system instead of putting ... (read in full...)

Why can my ex talk about our past but I can't?

Q.   I don't get this, why can my ex bluntly talk about our past together by saying, remember when I did this with you? Or I gave this to you, but when I talk to her about our past together or to tell her how I felt about something she had been asking me ...

A.   20 November 2010: This is odd. She is your ex girlfriend, why is she bringing up the past? Seems like she is playing a mind game with you! She wants to rise up emotions and be testy to keep stringing you along. It is a power trip thing. It's weird how some... (read in full...)

Online man I like is same age as my mom!

Q.   I have been speaking with a man for five months now. I'm 18 and he lives in North Carolina. I have an aunt there and my mother has been saying she will move there during the next fall. He mentioned he was thinking of going back to college to study ...

A.   19 November 2010: Meeting someone online is always iffy. I've done it a couple times when I was your age to find that most of the guys were a bit off. There r many things that could be up with this 40 year old...ever married? Kids? Criminal background? Talked to ... (read in full...)

Is he just putting me off?

Q.   i was in relation fr 8mnths but wen i asked my boyfriend to get married he was like u hav to wait for 4yrs now he m not standing on my foot.so i m confused dat wheathr d guy is giving xcuses or he realy loved me n wants to get married to me afta ...

A.   19 November 2010: I didn't understand the part where he is 'standing on your foot'? Do you mean that you feel that you are not on the same page anymore? All I know is that marraige isn't something a person should jump into. I let my boyfriend bring up marraige ... (read in full...)

He inquired about me, does that mean he's interested?

Q.   There is a guy in my class who I think is really, really cute. I have thought this from day 1 (When the year started). Now, I don't have the best self esteem so I didn't even bother talking to him or anything as I didn't think I had a chance in ...

A.   18 November 2010: Asking about you is always a good sign, but you're right, he could have just been curious. I say that you should try to keep talking to him, maybe even ask him out to coffee sometime. That would drop a hint and also be friendly enough. If u r in ... (read in full...)

I just want her to come home but I cant contact her! What should I do?

Q.   my live in partner of 6 years walked out on me early hours of sat morning. basically i have just found out i have a son that happened in my previous relationship and as requested by my present partner, him and his mum came to stay as she wouldnt let ...

A.   18 November 2010: This is a tuff one. It is good that you are being responcible and bonding with your son, he should always come first. The issue is the ex living with you guys. I am sure you could get around this legally. Your current partner probably feels very ... (read in full...)

My friend's boyfriend is going to dump her, he may ask me out next!

Q.   Hey Guys! Okay so my friend has been going out with this guy for a little more than 4moths. Me and my friend aren't really that close we have 1 class together. We talk but where not that close so yesterday there was a sub for my social studies class ...

A.   16 November 2010: So let's look at the facts: while dating someone he was flirting with you mentally and physically. Do you think this is someone you should date? It is quite possible that this flirty guy with flirt his way throughout his remaining years of ... (read in full...)

I agreed that my boyfriend can have a stripper at his birthday party, now I regret my decision!

Q.   Should I allow this? My boyfriend turns 18 in 2 weeks' time, and he's having a party at a local pub. all sounds great, all his friends and family will be there. HOWEVER, there's one small hitch, I'v just got an e-mail from one of his friends ...

A.   16 November 2010: You allowing this to happen makes it seem like it will be okay for something like this to happen again. Then in the future he may use the argument "well why didn't you have a problem with it before? What changed about you and me?" I would be VERY ... (read in full...)

Should I have tried to work it out with her?

Q.   I broke up with her to do the right thing, but it hurts more than I thought. After a year and a half, I decided to break it off with my girlfriend because I tend to get bored in relationships. She was different, though. I think I actually found s...

A.   16 November 2010: I've been with my boyfriend for the same amount of time. Does she know that you cheated on her before? If i knew my boyfriend had done that to me i would have broken up with him. It would have killed me to do so, but when you think about it, do ... (read in full...)

Back to the future.

Q.   i was seeing this guy, we went out a couple of times and ive never felt so in tune with someone. even though we where different, it was a way that we could complealty compleament each other. well he moved away. but we decided to remain friends. ...

A.   16 November 2010: I felt this way before. I met a guy at the beach while i was with my family. We spent the week together and i can't even explain how much chemistry was there when we would kiss. He lives 12 hours away. We said that we would roadtrip to see each ... (read in full...)

Husband is making me out to be a bad wife!

Q.   Hello, My husband has always been jealous, not allowing me to talk to the opposite sex and we have been together since high school and in high school it is hard to avoid talking to just a bunch of people. Anyway, of course he has been upset about me ...

A.   16 November 2010: Sounds like a rut in the relationship. But you know what, marrages, relationships, anything with a significant other is going to be overloaded with emotion. When things are good, they are amazing, when things go under the weather, well crap hits ... (read in full...)

I can't date because I'm hung up on a married man!

Q.   I'm in a confusing situation. A 21 year old guy has been texting me and we hung out once (I am 18). I feel like I could possibly like him, but I don't know. It's like my mind won't let me like him, because I am hung up on a married man. This guy ...

A.   16 November 2010: A lot of things are left out of this, does he have children? How long has he been married? Has he been divorced before? I say that this is a bad situation that you should not get into. You are 18 and have your whole life ahead of you, don't let ... (read in full...)

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