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What is on his mind?
Q. Dear. Cupid Hi you all. I am here to ask you this. I dated this guy for about a month before getting together with him. We were getting along very well. Met up couple of times a week and always had a good fun. But after we got together,...
A. 7 December 2010: i think you should go and suss out. if he wants anything that you dont want tell him that. tell him straight up your only here to talk and hang out nothing else. if you feel pressured in anyway just get out straight away.. dont hang out alone. just ... (read in full...)
What is on his mind?
Q. Dear. Cupid Hi you all. I am here to ask you this. I dated this guy for about a month before getting together with him. We were getting along very well. Met up couple of times a week and always had a good fun. But after we got together,...
A. 7 December 2010: i think you should go and suss out. if he wants anything that you dont want tell him that. tell him straight up your only here to talk and hang out nothing else. if you feel pressured in anyway just get out straight away.. dont hang out alone. just ... (read in full...)
How can I show my new boyfriend he is not just a re-bound?
Q. im going out with a new boy and everyone is telling me that it was too quick and that they hope it isn't a re-bound from my ex who i was so in love with. and it absolutely isn't but he told me that he thought he might've been a rebound i don't kn...
A. 4 September 2010: thank you soooo much that helps alot!!!
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In love with my older cousin. Should I tell her? How?
Q. i'm 15 and for almost a year i have like my cousin, she makes me feel very turned on. she is about 21 and looks amazing . I want to tell her how feel about her but idk if she'll understand or mabye ill just make it worse My question is ho...
A. 25 August 2010: its a phase. you may not believe it but it really is. your 15 and its just your hormones. i wouldn't act on this feeling because it could definately lead to harming relationships and it wont change even though your feelings towards her will. its ... (read in full...)
To break up or not to break up? That is the question.
Q. This article is inspired by two friends of mine who are together in a relationship and its for all those men and women who think that they want to end their realationship but don't quite know yet. All relationships hit rocky patches where you have...
A. 25 August 2010: damn i wish my ex had read this before he sent me that message :'(
even after 3 flipping months im still crying every night about it and he's already moved on and asked a girl out
he told me he didn't do it face to face because he knew that i w... (read in full...)
Why do I like older guys?
Q. help. i like older guys. but not as old as like 40 just younger then that. im not sure if its because of my recent relationship just ending and im so upset about it still even though it was 3 months ago but i just love flirting with them and i love ...
A. 25 August 2010: im sure your very attractive at 40
why dont we move the age up to 50 then ;)
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The two loves of my teen life
Q. Am i stupid? i was in a relationship for a few months with this boy, and i completely fell head over heals for him. this was all new for me because i had never truely believed in love.well after about 5 months i decided it was time to prove to him i ...
A. 23 August 2010: he has no right to get angry about liking another guy...if this is your ex we're talking about getting angry he has no right because your not going out anymore and he can't have you by a string for the rest of your life. go out with friends. its not ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is going out A LOT. What can I do?
Q. Well my situation is as follows... I am 21 years old and my girlfriend is 20. We have been dating for a little over 4 1/2 years! I just recently bought my first house about 5 weeks ago and we have been living with each other since. We have a great ...
A. 23 August 2010: you need to sit down and talk CALMLY and communicate your worries and concerns. you love her clearly and you dont want to lose her. but you also have to trust her. 4 nights is alot and dont jump to conclusions she is cheating on you. tell her that ... (read in full...)
I don't want lust controlling my life, How can I stop masterbating
Q. MODS NOTE: Apologies to the OP, but your chosen title has already been used, So I had to tweak it a little to make it accepted. I'm addicted to masturbation but it feels wrong and I don't want my lust to continue to control my life. How can I st...
A. 23 August 2010: slowly reduce the amount of times you masterbate
if you stop all together it wont last long
and try and keep doing things all the time...instead of doing it go for a run or do something else. but reduce the amount of times slowly. if you do 5 tim... (read in full...)
Dumped her and now I want her!
Q. I dumped my girlfriend six month ago and now she's moved on but i want her back.What should i do?...
A. 22 August 2010: you cant do that to her im sorry that sounds mean. but you just cant
she has probably cried and cried herself to sleep for ages....and shes gotten up the courage to move on. you coming back and 'changing your mind' and wanting her back will crus... (read in full...)
Ways to move on from an ex and be happy?
Q. Hello, My name is Andrea I am 20 yrs old and currently feeling deppressed. Me and my ex boyfriend dated for almost 2yrs (On October) And recently broke up 3 weeks ago this is my story. We have been on and off. He is in Canada because of work, I'm in ...
A. 22 August 2010: no you don't.
he doesn't deserve you either. so you need to delete EVERYTHING you have of him...number, throw out pictures of you two, make memories where the old ones used to be, spend time with friends, try and not to be alone so much (but its ... (read in full...)
Why would anyone think this is okay?
Q. Why would anyone think that it is okay to start off a marriage with a huge lie regarding past betrayal??? I've been reading people's responses to questions regarding cheating, and am specifically perplexed that anyone would think that it is OK for ...
A. 22 August 2010: its not
and the person is definately going to get hurt later down the track...this could go way out of proportion and the person being lied to could end up with very low self-esteem and hurting themselves or others. if you know someone who is lyin... (read in full...)
Infatuated with my driving instructor...
Q. Hi everybody. I want to say thanks in advance for reading this. Anyway, onto my problem. I've been taking driving lessons for about a month now, and I'm seventeen. Recently, I've started to have feelings for my driving instructor. At first I thoug...
A. 22 August 2010: i think you need to realize that if anything happened between you two...his career could be sabotaged. it would be extremely unprofessional. i think you need to maybe get another driving instructor or try and focus on something else. your 17 and ... (read in full...)
I love her, but I hate her bestfriend!
Q. hi..the problem starts way early wid my ex....we were so great together....were no one was in our life....but suddenly her frnd comes and butts in...his actions and words show that he likes her...but she says he doesnt....we have had constant fights ...
A. 21 August 2010: you need to trust her mate. if she didn't wanna be with you...she wouldn't ok. (unless she's one of those kinda girls)... she clearly loves you and wants you to trust her. you can't get rid of her friends as much as you might want to...trust me i ... (read in full...)
Younger woman messing with my head!
Q. Ok here is the deal. I am older than this lady, yet I don't feel that way at all on the inside (and people tell me that I look younger than I am, and when I work out alot, I can easily pass for someone in their 20s). Ok, well, we have been friends, ...
A. 21 August 2010: are you sure she wants more? and maybe she is trying to play hard to get? if she is telling you it in a serious kinda tone then she is messed up...unless of course shes saying it in a 'playful' kinda tone...then shes probably trying to be a playful ... (read in full...)
Should I wait things out or remove myself from our friendship?
Q. I'm a woman in love with my male best friend. Which shouldn't be a bad thing. Because I know he loves me too. Our relationship was trite in college. He pusued me, I fell. He was still playing the field, so I moved on. We remained close friends for ...
A. 21 August 2010: he is sending extremely confused messages! i think you need to talk to him about why he won't leave his girlfriend...and if he really won't then treating you like this is actually quite mean. leading you on and thinking you two have a chance ... (read in full...)
Curious about penis size
Q. I've read a lot here about average penis size being about 5-7 inches. I have not been with many men, but they have all been at least 6 or so. About the same for my girlfriends, except for one, whos been with a guy who was huge. I'm just ...
A. 21 August 2010: bigger would hurt. but im not saying you mean this...but when you said 'i guess I'm just looking for pointers should I find men outside the average someday.'
you should NOT base your sex life around the size of the guys penis. i personally dont care... (read in full...)
I don't want my friend hurt over this girl!
Q. Like my guy friend E has been dating this girl C for two months....I got the guts to tell him HE'S obsessed! He only hangs with her and no one else! He even stops texting when theyre hanging and he only talks about her! But everyone knows he will ...
A. 21 August 2010: you need to talk to him about it. dont be forceful and accusing...sit and talk as a friend to him. if she is your friend you need to tell her what she is doing is very very wrong and hurtful and she will not only lose this guy she will end up losing ... (read in full...)
Why can't he give me a second chance?
Q. i'm in love with my ex but he has a new girlfriend and says that he is with her now and cant just leave her now and hurt her. and i asked if he loved me still and would give me a second chance because i was so deeply sorry about what i did....a...
A. 20 August 2010: yes i hurt him alot. but he said that he's carried my letters around with him everyday and he always reads them. he said that he still cares about me and really wants to remain friends. how can i get him back :(
he dumped me over text message caus... (read in full...)
Why has my friend stopped talking to me?
Q. okay well my friend and i talk about everything together but for some stupid reason hes ignoring me. For no reason wat so ever. It makes no sense whenever i trace my steps in the story. What is going on? well i have been talking to this guy he ...
A. 19 August 2010: probably thinks that you had more to your relationship beacuse you flirted with him and he started to like you and did you say you have a boyfriend? if so...you flirting with him (even if you weren't intentionally) and then you having a boyfriend or ... (read in full...)
Has my relationship ran it's course?
Q. Hi, my problem is I'm 25 years old and don't know how much more I can take of my relationship. I have been with this guy 6 and half yrs, he is good looking, got great job and aspirations, but that's it now, I don't really know what else there is. ...
A. 19 August 2010: it has most DEFINATELY ran its course. even at the begining of reading this i knew it. i cant believe you have put up with it for so long! he never ever trusted you and in a relationship that is what is most definately needed...you cannot be in a ... (read in full...)
My g/f doesn't know what turns her on ...
Q. my girlfriend doesent know what turns her on...whats some things i can try to help her get started?...
A. 19 August 2010: agreeeeed :)
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How do I find out if my father "touched me" when I was little or not?
Q. I oftend think i was touched by my father when i was little. Im always really worried somthing's going to happen to my 1yr old. I have flash backs of times that he may have done somthing to me. Around other people hes always been touchy, plays with ...
A. 19 August 2010: make sure you have someone with you and i think the best thing to do would be to ask him straight out. tell him you are worried and you don't feel comfortable with his kind of behaviour around your child. if your not comfortable.....VOICE it and ... (read in full...)
Help! I can't physically have sex!
Q. I really need some help/tips with this recent problem that I just discovered. Me and my boyfriend are both virgins and ready to have sex and we tried a couple of times already but he just can't enter me. It has nothing to do with me not being wet ...
A. 19 August 2010: finger. make sure its the right hole and RELAXXXXXXX. but god he must be big :P push ok seriously he needs to push if it hurts to much dont stop all together... use lube and relax and just feel everything kay. go with it. if it dont feel right dont ... (read in full...)
How do I help my kids though there father leaving?
Q. My kids are really having a hard time dealing with Daddy moving out. The hard part on finding advice is up until the day he moved out we were clueless that there was a problem. We were not fighting. Every morning he said I love you. I thought and ...
A. 19 August 2010: knowing that there mother is there for them and loves them with everything she has will make them feel loved and special. as for everything you need to talk to someone. if you can...spend some time together as a family...picnics are great and just ... (read in full...)
Okay so if he likes me... how can I get him to ask me out?
Q. I like my bestows older brother (of two years) . He likes ne too I think. I'll tell some stories to show why I think that. - Briana ( my bestie) , her brother , and I had our anual movie night. It was her brothers turn to pick the movie , so h...
A. 19 August 2010: stop being shy and get some guts cause thats what alot of guys like and are attracted to...a girl thats not afraid...what do you have to lose? if you never ask him you never know his answer. he might not ask you out because he's scared what you will ... (read in full...)
I think I NEED a boyfriend
Q. I just got out of a realtionship that lasted about 3mths. tho that may not seem long it was a big deal for me I almost...loved him. ANyways he cheated on me with a girl "erin". And now I feel like I HAVE TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND! Idk why but i just do... ...
A. 18 August 2010: please dont be at the stage where you NEED a boyfriend...because then you will go for any 'nice guy' that comes along and treats you like a princess...these guys are fake and they have you right from the word 'babe' or 'beautiful' you need to be ... (read in full...)
Can a have a boyfriend AND a friend with benfits on the side?
Q. So, my boyfriend and I broke up after 2 1/2 years because I transferred to a different school 2 1/2 hours from where we lived to obtain a better education. I asked him to come with and for some reason he said he didn't believe that I wanted him to ...
A. 18 August 2010: i would stop having sex with this guy...and dontttttttt become friends with benefits whatever you do. don't do that to yourself. its such a horrible thing to do. this guy doesn't care about you he just wants you to be there for fun and someone to ... (read in full...)
Is it odd that I can't remember the exact age I lost my virginity?
Q. Basically, I lost my virginity sometime between the age of 11-13 and I'm wondering if it's overly odd not to remember the exact age I was? No-one ever believes me when i say I can't really remember it at all. (No regrets, plenty of sex since but ...
A. 18 August 2010: no its not odd you dont remember the age...but i do hope you remember the person.
dont be so 'carefree' about sex but. it can lead to alot of name callings and alot of other things
be careful and take care of yourself... (read in full...)
I hurt everyone around me... help!
Q. Throughout my life so far, I've been pretty mellow but then, I realized, I have anger issues. I love my family very much, they're forgiving and we are all very close and we've been through a lot which is why I feel so ashamed, so guilty that I've ...
A. 18 August 2010: you really need to talk to someone. talk to someone you trust. you need to forgive yourself for whatever you've done. stop what your doing and next time you want to hurt yourself call up a person you trust. they have forgiven you so you need to ... (read in full...)
Okay so if he likes me... how can I get him to ask me out?
Q. I like my bestows older brother (of two years) . He likes ne too I think. I'll tell some stories to show why I think that. - Briana ( my bestie) , her brother , and I had our anual movie night. It was her brothers turn to pick the movie , so h...
A. 18 August 2010: ask himmmm out silly :P we aren't in the 'olden days' here
be daring and ask him out because alot of guys would prefer the girl to ask them out. :)
i did to my boyfriend :P
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Why has my friend stopped talking to me?
Q. okay well my friend and i talk about everything together but for some stupid reason hes ignoring me. For no reason wat so ever. It makes no sense whenever i trace my steps in the story. What is going on? well i have been talking to this guy he ...
A. 18 August 2010: it could be because he is jealous? have you asked him why and confronted him about it just as friends and calmly instead of accusing him? it may also be because something personal may be happening at home or that he does like you and he's jealous ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I think my boss is interested in me, what should I do?
Q. Hi there.. I have no idea why i'm asking but i'm a bit confused.. Ok, i'm 20 and i'm dating a guy thats 12 years older.. His away on business and will be away for another 4 weeks, and been away for 3 already.. The thing is, my boss a wonderful ...
A. 18 August 2010: your boss is being very innappropriate and unprofessional. it is wrong for him to be saying those things to you. you need to disregard what he is saying and if he trys to do anything you need to report it. i cant stress to you enough how wrong it is ... (read in full...)
Why did his parents react so badly when they found us chatting together?
Q. There's this guy i love more than anything else in the world. we're great friends and we each know there's something going in the other's mind. he;s younger than me by a year. only problem is: his parents saw us chatting together and got really mad ...
A. 18 August 2010: it could be their beliefs possibly? maybe that your a year older...some families don't believe an older girl (even one year) should go out with a younger boy. depends also upon how old you are and maybe the fact that he didn't tell his parents? you ... (read in full...)
I booked a 3-month trip to Jamaica while I was single. Now I'm in a relationship and I need advice. Help!
Q. I'll try to keep this short. Basically, thanks to America's lovely financial aid system loopholes I was able to spend my spring '10 semester--my 2nd semester of college--in Africa at no cost to me. In fact, I came back with $1500 more than what I ...
A. 18 August 2010: i personally think you answered your own question sweet-heart. you know that your not gonna be with this guy for the rest of your life. and i think you should maybe take a break whilst your away and if things get back together when your back then ... (read in full...)
Is having a crush on someone else, when you are already committed wrong?
Q. I have a boyfriend whom I really love. We are quite settled. But lately we have been living at different places so kinda like a long term relationship. Though we are constantly on the phone with each other, texting, mailing and stuff. But the thin...
A. 18 August 2010: its not necessarily wrong...you can look just don't touch. maybe the fact that your missing your boyfriend is contributing to the fact that your noticing other boys because you dont have him around so much. i think personally your just missing ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't respect me!
Q. I am 25 yrs old and my bf also 25, we always fighting,but i know that we love each other so much,but he doesnt respect me,he says what ever he want,we have been together for 3 yrs, if i tell him that he must change his behaviour,he wil tell me that ...
A. 18 August 2010: you need to be in a relationship where the man respects you. end of discussion. if he doesn't respect you then the relationship won't work. its going around and around in circles. you need to figure out what you want personally and go from there. ... (read in full...)
She dumped me by text to concentrate on work!
Q. I dated a girl 2 years ago for a couple of months but it didn't work out as she wasn't happy with herself. Fast forward 2 years and we started seeing each other again for the last 3months. We were crazy about one another could get enough of one ...
A. 18 August 2010: firstly...i think the reason that she did it over message was because she was scared that you would say something that would change her mind...my ex did that to me over text message as well...but i think you do need to give it time. talk about it. ... (read in full...)
Does "I don't know" , mean she doesn't want to be in a relationship?
Q. Okay, people of dearcupid, I have a question. I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 5 months now and all has been more than good in my eyes but I have a few questions on things that have came up to stress to you to possibly get your ...
A. 18 August 2010: i think she took the questions the wrong way personally. i think that you didn't ask her if you wanted to marry her you just asked her if you were going to have a future together. when me and my boyfriend were going out we were going to move in ... (read in full...)
I want my friend back but he doesn't trust me because I've lied!
Q. i had a good friend and he meant a lot to me, i lied to him a couple of times and he went bollistic :/. we argued for 7 months all because i couldnt let go, i just wanted my friend back, to prove myself to him i could be a better friend. but he ...
A. 17 August 2010: i know where your coming from.
i think you should tell him that you don't expect him to trust you straight away but you want to be friends again and slowly overtime you will build his trust back. it was take patience and alot of time but if your... (read in full...)
My g/f doesn't know what turns her on ...
Q. my girlfriend doesent know what turns her on...whats some things i can try to help her get started?...
A. 17 August 2010: i think she needs to definately experiment. look it up on the internet. research ways to turn girls on. she could masterbate...but i think you definately need to experiment different things. goodluck!... (read in full...)
Does "I don't know" , mean she doesn't want to be in a relationship?
Q. Okay, people of dearcupid, I have a question. I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 5 months now and all has been more than good in my eyes but I have a few questions on things that have came up to stress to you to possibly get your ...
A. 17 August 2010: dont worry. i dont think 3 months is to early to be saying 'i love you' because when i went out with my last boyfriend...we almost said it straight away because we knew what we felt. her saying 'i don't know' might be a way to cover her ... (read in full...)
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