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Remained friends even though she has a boyfriend, but she still hurt me
Q. Hi Everyone, I’ve been aware of DearCupid for a couple of months now but this is my first question. Well, it’s not really a question. I guess I need a place to vent and hopefully find some sense in my confusion. I apologize if it sounds too lo...
A. 28 June 2011: sorry it's been like forever since i've been online, but i'm glad to hear that you gave her another chance. i really hope everything works out the way you want it to. 3 good luck...again..lol ... (read in full...)
Remained friends even though she has a boyfriend, but she still hurt me
Q. Hi Everyone, I’ve been aware of DearCupid for a couple of months now but this is my first question. Well, it’s not really a question. I guess I need a place to vent and hopefully find some sense in my confusion. I apologize if it sounds too lo...
A. 31 May 2011: well, i don't know your religion, but if you are a man of God, he says you should forgive 1 person 490 times. (70 x 7) but i understand that you dont want to get hurt, and it may sound to me that she might be trying to figure out what she really ... (read in full...)
Remained friends even though she has a boyfriend, but she still hurt me
Q. Hi Everyone, I’ve been aware of DearCupid for a couple of months now but this is my first question. Well, it’s not really a question. I guess I need a place to vent and hopefully find some sense in my confusion. I apologize if it sounds too lo...
A. 29 May 2011: i support you 100%. you are not being childish, but i think that maybe you should keep a journal, if you don't want to keep doing this, lol. but i beleive that her boyfriend is too controlling, and it sounds like a bad relationship. i think that she ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend breaks up with me, then says she misses me. What does she want???
Q. Ok I'm in need of help... Heres the long story short. I was with my girl friend for about a year. She is two years older then me and she and I have both been thru a lot in past relationships. She and I both agree that what we shared together was ...
A. 21 May 2011: if she told you that she felt lost because she hasn't gotten your sweet texts, then she obviously didnt know what a good thing she had when she had it. that should show her a lesson, and she does want you back. i predict that next time, she will ... (read in full...)
He is great so why I am scared and hesitant??
Q. Hi Dear Cupid I work with a guy who likes me a lot. We are both in our 20s. I am scared of embarking on anything. I don't want anything serious right now and he's the type of guy where a serious relationship is probable. There's things I wa...
A. 28 April 2011: well maybe you're hesitant because you have been let down in the past. it happens to a lot of people. but this guy does seem to be a wonderful guy. i think you should give him a chance. i'm not saying to throw your heart at him, but just take it ... (read in full...)
How can I get with my old friend? I am starting horse riding lessons again just to see her!
Q. I'm trying to go back to horse-riding lessons, even though I don't need them anymore in a vain hope to meet up with an old friend, and perhaps see if I ever get anywhere with her. Any tips?...
A. 19 April 2011: be yourself, if you don't need the lessons, you shouldnt take them, that won't impress her if she finds that out. you could always just go to the lesson, and show up just to talk to her, then don't take the lesson, and make plans with her to see ... (read in full...)
What if you feel he's meant for you, but has a girlfriend?
Q. I'm not 100% sure how I feel, but just suppose... just SUPPOSE that you meet someone, get to know him, and realize that he's meant for you. Suppose he means a lot to you, no one will ever mean as much to you, and you've been searching for someone ...
A. 19 April 2011: ok, so your english is wonderful. and i was in a similar situation with the guy that i'm with now. i think that if you just show him that you will alwyas be there for him, he might come to realize that he may love you too. but no matter what you do, ... (read in full...)
With my dream girl, I don't want to get hurt again.
Q. Hi, i'm just here for some advice on a relationship i've just entered, though were not officially together yet, were basically seeing eachother. i've liked this girl for years and we've always been quite flirty with eachother but i had a girlfrie...
A. 7 April 2011: well, this girl kind of reminds me of my best friend. i think it would help a lot if you were to surprise her someday, bydoing something spontaneous. like tell her that you are going out of town when you're really not. and then after she thinks you ... (read in full...)
How do I repay him for all he's done for me?
Q. hey, right now i am sick. i have the flu and i've never been this sick before in my life. my bf is being soo sweet, like he's here everyday checking on me, and bringing me my school assignments. he makes me feel like a princess even when i ...
A. 7 April 2011: thanks guys for your advise..it helps a lot!!... (read in full...)
Can't tell if he likes me or he's just messing around. Should I push it?
Q. Hello, so i kind of like this boy at school, but i didnt used to, i only like him now because of how nice i realised he is, but he can be quite complicated. He always texts me we talk about everything! I won't admit to anyone that i like him only to ...
A. 6 April 2011: well, if he's open with you when he texts you, he is obviously more comfortble expressing himself that way. my guess would be that he does like you. and when he says he loves you, you should tell him you love him too, (if you really do) and in ... (read in full...)
My life is upside down and my parents don't treat me fairly.
Q. I'm an 18 years old male in south Africa. my problem is my parents treat me less important that my other two brothers, they don't want to accept my girlfriend and they say I'm taking drugs. I'm also repeating grade 11 and they keep saying I'm ...
A. 6 April 2011: well, if i were you i would confront my parents and tell them exactly how i feel. then again, my mother hasnt really talked to me in about a year. if that doesnt work, i would talk to a close friend about moving in with them, to just get away from ... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend says its ok for him to have sex with call girls since its just "meaningless sex"
Q. Hi Me and my bf are in LDR for the past 6 months. I'll be going back within 3-4 months. My bf wants to have sex with some callgirls, since there was no sex for the past 6 months. I dont like the idea, when i said even i didnt have any sex for 6 mo...
A. 29 March 2011: wow, i beleive that if he can't respect you enough to only give himself to you that he probably doesn't deserve you. and if he wants to have meaningless sex with some other girl, how do you knw that what you two have isn't just "meaningless sex"?... (read in full...)
I have a bad pattern of falling for guys close to me
Q. i think i may have feelings for my close guy friend. i find that i can always tell him anything, or he can figure it out even before i open my mouth. he also tells me things that i know he doesn't share with anyone else, but that could just be him ...
A. 7 March 2011: well you never know, unless you make yourself known. and if you figure out that he does have feelings for you, then you've wasted all this time worrying. so, express yourself and hope for the best. ... (read in full...)
I want to go out with him again. How do I make it happen?
Q. So basically, two years ago I dated this boy- we broke up after two months because my friends didnt like him and they were making up rumours and I stupidly listened to them. Apparently when I broke up with him he was 'heartbroken'. But although...
A. 27 February 2011: well, i think you should say that you're going to go for a walk sometime, and ask him if he wants to come. if he says no, he might not be too interested, but if he goes with you, there is a chance. then, when you are walking, bring up how you guys ... (read in full...)
I still think of him all the time, how do I get over him?
Q. There was this guy. He was my friend's neighbor so I met him through my friend. One day, I had an art project with my friend. Since then, we started hanging out like cycling around the housing area. With a few more people, of course. After a while, ...
A. 24 February 2011: wow, well i think your first mistake was not texting him back. but you already know that. well, i think that you should find somebody else to add to your life to try to make life so much more full. thats what i would do...... (read in full...)
Is this real, or am I hallucinating?
Q. This may be the strangest question in terms of love, but I really would like help! I've gone to my parents, to the counselor, and even my neighbor. They don't believe me! Okay, so let me set the scene; I'm 15, as it should already say on the post. ...
A. 19 February 2011: Wow, that is soo cool, like the things you only hear in books. The sad thing is, I wish it had happened to me. lol I know, the whole "you don't know what your asking for" thing, but, still, it sounds really cool. ... (read in full...)
So maybe I should give him some space??? Advice needed!
Q. Well okay, so there's this guy. I'm pretty sure he likes me. Just by the way he talks to me and how he wants me to hang out with him, and also he said i was cool and awesome. But last night i was waiting for my friend at and there was a talent show. ...
A. 18 February 2011: so, this guy was probably just mad because of his car, but i dont think he should have taken it out on you like that. if it were me, i would still be there for him now, and dont back off too much. but you also need to make sure he isnt going to get ... (read in full...)
Guy 'best friend' for a woman?
Q. Is it possible to have a best friend of the opposite sex? It always seems to go south for me, but I really don't like how catty women can be. Most recent example: I had this guy "best friend" for 10 years, he surprises me by suddenly hitting ...
A. 18 February 2011: well, i think(hope) that guy friends are possible. i mean, i have a lot of guy friends, and i can always talk to them about everything, maybe this guy had just changed over the years. he's probably not the same guy you once knew..im sorry. i hope ... (read in full...)
What do you think of the poem and should I send it?
Q. Im in a relationship for about 4 months. We have never fought, we just had miscommunicate sometimes. My Girlfriend got really upset about a text message which I sent to her. It was 8pm and I was very drunk and mad, because we had plans for ...
A. 18 February 2011: soo, hey, i LOVE the poem. really, i think u shuld send it to her, it wuld mean a lot to me, if ever it got sent to me, so i assume she will love it too. good luck with your girl :)
~kryssy~... (read in full...)
Did her hug or the way we hit it off mean anything?
Q. Hi, my band just played at a open mic night at a local bar, and there was this girl that i went to school for a year with. I dont actually know much about her... I started realising how gorgeous this girl was so i tested the waters, for example, i ...
A. 18 February 2011: well, i definatley think she was either in the mood and wanted someone to "love" or, she really did like you...so keep in contact with her either way, good luck :)... (read in full...)
Should I just leave well alone... or does he like me?
Q. The week before valentine day my school was selling suckers to give to your bf or gf or secret admirer on valentines day . I got one and it like just had to me from this person last name on it. So come to find out this guy had his brother buy it ...
A. 18 February 2011: well, i think you should just keep up the flirting for a little while. if he doesnt show any more intrest i the next 2 weeks or so maybe hes not interested, but if he does, and just doesnt ask you out or something, maybe hes too shy, and you should ... (read in full...)
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