Affair with married man....things are getting harder... I need advice!
Q. Ok- i need some advice. I have been dating a married man for about 9 months now. everything has been so much fun, we talk every day and have a great time together- and yes, we fight... more so lately. Let me start off by saying that his wife ...
A. 18 June 2011: OH no......it sounds like to me the worst possible thing has happened... you have fallen for this guy. This isn't good, if in fact the relationship you wanted with him was all supposed to be fun and games and then when it was over the two of you ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my family? They hate my guts!
Q. I can't stop crying. I feel so helpless. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. Tonight, while my sister was once again running me down to my parents, I came in and for the first time in a long while, and said that I had pulled my weight around t...
A. 17 June 2011: Here the way I see it. First off you need to understand that you do not have not the ability to change other people, and to recognize the fact they they are lashing out at you because they can. who is going to stop them? Clearly they have their own ... (read in full...)
Do I hold onto him just because I might have an issue with someone leaving me?
Q. I am 29 yrs old and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 years. He is 32, and since we met he has always lived with his mom. This year , he finally agreed that we should move in, after years of me trying to take our relationship to the next ...
A. 13 June 2011: It sounds to me like maybe the two of you are not so good together. Like you keep him around because perhaps you haven't found what you consider to be anyone better...but the fact that you are always looking should tell you something. And I don't ... (read in full...)
Should I go for the new guy or try to stick it out with my husband?
Q. I am 23 years old and have been with my husband since I was 18. At the start of our relationship everything was great, sex was amazing we did it everyday. Now I feel like we are growing farther and farther apart. He recently changed jobs and our ...
A. 13 June 2011: This is just my opinion, and I'm sorry that you are probably not going to like it but....... you got married and made vows and commitments that weren't about staying together as long as things were going well.. It was about for better or worse, you ... (read in full...)
He's making me feel guilty when I did nothing wrong. How do I get him to listen?
Q. This past weekend i was suppose to hang out with my boyfriend, but he had to work so instead i went to a party with a few of my girlfriends. when i got to the party, i noticed my daughter's father was there. Me and my friend had a few drinks and ...
A. 4 June 2011: OK first of all I want to tell you that trust is one of the most important things in any relationship. If one person feels they cannot trust the other, you are going to have a real problem. Why didn't you just tell him about your Daughter's Father ... (read in full...)
I saw my ex smile and kiss his new girl, and even though I have a new boyfriend now, my heart dropped. If they break up, I know he will come to cry on my shoulder....Help!
Q. me and my boyfriend split up a while ago now, and i am now with another boy that is treating me like I'm the only girl in his world! if he think I'm upset he'll ring me straight away, the biggest smile ever comes on his face when he sees me walking ...
A. 4 June 2011: Honey you don't know how lucky you are to have someone that adores you. That is something that is priceless. It always hurts to see that an ex has moved on and might be happy, but there is a good reason the two of you broke up in the first place. ... (read in full...)
He treated me bad when we were together so why can't I move on?
Q. It's been so long, over a year and his image still in my memory and my heart... Is this love? He's with someone else now, if you read my old posts you know how the story goes... I'm seeing someone new now too, and he's a great guy but gosh! ... I ...
A. 2 June 2011: You know it's kind of sick but we all seem to want what we know we can't have. Why is this? We know the guy is no good for us...he doesn't treat us how we want to be treated...there is almost always some other woman in his life...but yet we are ... (read in full...)
My relationships with men are abnormal, what is wrong with me?
Q. What the hell is wrong with me? I'm smart and pretty and I have confidence but when it comes to men i have some bad habits and I have no idea why. I crave male attention in an unhealthy way. I'm not slutty at all but I like to be noticed by ...
A. 2 June 2011: You go for the older men you say, because guys your age are immature. Guys your age (19) that are giving you the attention you want, are probably just trying to get laid and don't care if you know what their intentions are. Not to say that the ... (read in full...)
Casual Sex?...cont'd...
Q. Hello everyone. I asked a question on here awhile back about a casual relationship that I was just starting. Unfortunately, I'm just as lost on the subject now as I was in the beginning. A lot of the advice explained how two people are SUPPOSED ...
A. 2 June 2011: Well, I'm a little confused. It seems obvious that your boy wants more than casual sex...he even puts in print that he is looking for a serious and maybe even a long term relationship. You don't state what it is that you have sent him back in your ... (read in full...)
No longer attracted to my wife
Q. Im not attracted to my wife. i know it sounds shallow and i feel guilty as hell about it, but no matter how hard i try to look at her with the same affection i used to have for her, i just dont have it anymore. i dont like kissing her and i dont ...
A. 31 May 2011: Let me ask you this: Do you know of anything that she can do to make you attracted to her again? What would it take? Change her hair? Lose more weight? Act more naughty? Or would she need to Be someone else all together? If you really still ... (read in full...)
If a man loves you, would he call you a bitch?
Q. Is it ok for a man to call a woman who he says he loves a bitch? Can there be excuses? Expections? What If he's angry? Is it ok? Does that even make him a man? If u say u love a woman is that even possible to say to her face? All answers are greatly ...
A. 31 May 2011: You bitch!....Well I know you are but what am I? It sounds a little pointless and immature. Name calling is not a real good way to show someone that you love them. We all get angry, and there will be disagreements in every relationship, but it's ... (read in full...)
Husband left me for another woman. Is it just a rebound?
Q. My husband left me three months ago for a much younger woman (he is 32, she is 21). I am devastated, we have four children together and it is heartybreaking that every other weekend they are staying at her house. (he moved straight in with her!). He ...
A. 31 May 2011: You know, he doesn't sound like a very nice person. For whatever reason he decided to leave you, the two of you had children together and obviously at one time cared very much for each other. That he would be so selfish and hurtful to you while in ... (read in full...)
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