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If a guy is using you, would he actually add you on facebook?
Q. Ok,if this helps,we're both 23 and he's a uni student.I'm not sure it will but hey...Anyway,my question is if a guy is using you would he actually add you on facebook-I mean,what if his other girls are on his facebok too and I contacted one of ...
A. 6 March 2011: Often, Facebook entails a bevy of meaningless actions as well as those that have all sorts of underlying subtexts. Then, there are those that are meant to directly mean something. In short, it's hard to tell. Just like how someone is your "In Real... (read in full...)
How do I resist the urge to look up filth on the internet?
Q. Hi. It's me again. I have a psychological problem or maybe just a bad habit. I keep looking up pornography on the internet (sometimes vision of drunk women being taken advantage of) and I feel guilty about it later on. I once spoke to an expert ...
A. 3 March 2011: Unless you feel like your interest in porn is consuming your everyday existence (in other words, becoming an addiction), there's nothing "morally reprehensible" about what you're doing. I can understand it being a personal dilemma but really that'... (read in full...)
I'm straight...is this normal?
Q. I am 23 female and straight. But i'm only turned on by lesbian porn, is this normal???...
A. 28 February 2011: Sexuality is a very strange thing, and nothing illustrates that better than healthy* fetishes. While "preferences" (as in, what gender you are attracted to the most) are set in stone, sexual interest can actually vary a great deal. The reason... (read in full...)
Am I puritan for staying a virgin at 18?
Q. I am an 18 year old girl who is a virgin. All of my friends have had sexual relations prior to turning 18. They say I am a puritan and should be having sex at my age. I think I am right in that I want to wait until I am married. Am I wrong ?...
A. 27 February 2011: No one call tell you when you should have sex but you, yourself. I will say that any perceived notion that sex after marriage "safer," "more desirable," and "morally of good virtue," are completely discredited by evolutionary history, biologi... (read in full...)
Height Perception..what's a desirable height?
Q. On average, is a height of 5'8 an initial turnoff? I understand that women prefer taller guys, and that 5'8 is a bit below the average height of 5'10-6'. Am I at a general disadvantage in dealing with women? I mean my current girlfriend is 5'4 so ...
A. 27 February 2011: Height and "manliness" seem to be biological standards that attract a female, but considering our highly-complex social system (and doing the exact opposite of what our genes demand), the argument could be made (as it should) that it's inherently ... (read in full...)
I missed an opportunity before. How can I convey to my co-worker that I am attracted to her?
Q. around a year ago a co-worker and I both left our partners and began seeing other people. we began talking about our problems etc eventually going on a night out with friends during the night i got the vibe she was attracted to me but never acte...
A. 27 February 2011: Unfortunately, your scenario is made exceptionally complicated by the fact that you're currently dating someone. Sometimes, it's best to leave the past in the past. I often think back on my previous relationships and long for some of the memories ... (read in full...)
My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?
Q. Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love ...
A. 23 February 2011: What she's doing is a form of abuse. The reason you feel depressed is because your social life has been eradicated (more or less), and no matter how strong a relationship bond may be, we can't escape our need to socialize and just hang out.
Does ... (read in full...)
I want to talk to my mother about going on birth control pills. How do I ask her?
Q. I'll be turning 17 in just over a month, and I've stayed a virgin for the fact that I'm waiting for the right guy. The older I get, the more difficult I find it to keep my virginity. So, I'd much rather be safe than sorry if anything were to end up ...
A. 22 February 2011: Has your mom had a history of reacting negatively to questions about the human body that you may have had? If so, then she actually might not be the right person to confide in. It's rather unfortunate, because one would like to think that you c... (read in full...)
Is a cheater always a cheater?
Q. do u think once a cheater is always a cheater? thanks for ur comments in advance....
A. 22 February 2011: It's not a "genetic predisposition" to cheating (though there may very well be a gene that lends to that behavior), but the necessity of genes to spread out. In other words, genes run a lot of the show that is evolution. The more opportunities th... (read in full...)
How do I control my sexual urges?
Q. I have a bit of a problem... I am in my early twenties and well, I am a virgin, and have had next to zero experience with men... which I may add, is normal in my culture... in fact, more than acceptable, it's preferable... However, as far as I am ...
A. 20 February 2011: There's absolutely nothing wrong with casual sex and/or masturbation. Psychological dependencies on masturbation could become problematic for other aspects of your life, but that's easily maintained (like dropping caffeine cold-turkey).
Your ... (read in full...)
Is a cheater always a cheater?
Q. do u think once a cheater is always a cheater? thanks for ur comments in advance....
A. 19 February 2011: Yes, but that doesn't mean they can't control it. Monogamy and "faithfulness" are made-up constructs of human society. That may be an unpopular thing to say, but it's true. All species of animal (including ourselves) "cheat." Constantly. ... (read in full...)
I want to understand this. Could a guy get a girl pregnant even if he never put his penis inside her vagina?
Q. if a boy masturbates himself and gets his seminal fluid (cum) on his fingers and immediately afterwards performs cunnilingus on a girl, and puts his wet fingers in her vagina while he fingers her, could that pass on diseases or cause pregnancy? ...
A. 19 February 2011: It might be possible, but highly unlikely. Contrary to popular belief, it's actually quite difficult to get pregnant. The body may reject and kill off all the sperm before it even reaches anywhere beyond the cervix. Recent studies have suggested t... (read in full...)
Ideas please on everything I need to know on asking a girl out please?
Q. There is a girl I like. I need ideas on how I should ask her out? I don't know whether to get her alone or what? I need some ideas. Answers from girls are much appreciated especially if you are my age. I need I ideas on how, where and what to say, ...
A. 19 February 2011: Although I'm not female, nor anywhere near your age (25), I've experienced the same teenage feelings of interest and I know how rough it can be. Any guy could tell you that. You don't want to rush into anything and you're going to have to be prepa... (read in full...)
Is there any way that I can save this relationship? I've really messed up...
Q. I really messed up and I need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend a little over a year. We have a 2 month old son and are very much in love. I have never cheated on him or even thought about cheating on him since the day I met him. We had ...
A. 18 February 2011: He sounds like a jerk. I'm sorry to say, (well, not that sorry) but first he rags on you and attempts to emotionally demean you. Then he flips out over a picture that, had he not known was you, probably would have enjoyed, himself.
Obvio... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt the person who was so amazing to me for so many years. What should I do?
Q. hello i have this male friend for 5 years..... during those 5 years i lost both my best friend and my father for cancer.... he stood by me all the time and helped me a lot ....he pulled my hair back when i cried, slept over to stay with me to make ...
A. 18 February 2011: Don't think you have any other choice but to be honest with him. It's obvious he's misread your social cues and, well, the only true fix is a straight-forward explanation. It happens to the best of us, but mixed-signals are nothing to fret ... (read in full...)
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