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Should I fly out there and surprise her? What do you all think?

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Question - (4 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend had to move back home (thousands of miles away from me) we were OK for a few months then she said it was to hard and we couldn't be together and broke up with me. We still talk every couple weeks and in emails she still says she misses me. Now....I love this girl more than anything and I want to see her. So....this being either the smartest idea or the worst idea I've ever had I want to surprise her by flying to her home and bringing back some of her stuff that she left with me. I'm not expecting this trip to turn into a romantic comedy and for us to get right back together, far from that. I just want to talk to her face to face about us and figure out where we stand. I want to bounce this idea off you (people I don't know).

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010):

Sounds extreme. If your girlfriend is one of those hopeless romantic types who would see this sort of thing as cute, then I say go for it. Otherwise, you should come up with a Plan B. No offence, but what if she thinks it is odd? You could blow any chances you might have in the future. Ponder this a while before you decide.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (5 January 2010):

The Realist agony auntDrop some under the radar quetions about her being in a new relationship with someone else and about your past with her. If she's single and misses you as much as you say I think she would love the surprise. Even if it does not work out the way you wanted remember that the effort you put towards this won't be soon forgotten by her. If every thing is clear go for it. Good luck.

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