Could it be my social anxiety or am I right to feel left out?
Q. Hey guys I need your help with something. About a month ago I went out with my boyfriend and a few of his friends, two of them being a girl and her boyfriend. My boyfriend still has a big friend group from when he was at school (girls and guys)...
A. 22 December 2017: Apologies to you all for coming across as such a nasty person, but I do have my own friends and family whom I am very much loved by, and yes when I'm around people whom I am comfortable with I am too a social butterfly hence why I click with my ... (read in full...)
I got back with my ex but I am struggling!
Q. Hi everyone! Would I please able to get some opinions on my situation. I was with my ex boyfriend for almost a year we got on very well and had a pretty good relationship. Although towards the end we began arguing and bickering over differen...
A. 17 August 2017: To the most recent post..thank you that is what I thought too suppose we will just have to see how it plays out, but I definitely think I will end things if he takes the mess this time because last time my feelings didn't seem to matter. You are ... (read in full...)
He seems to be taking it slow, but I worry he might be messing me around!
Q. Hi I this will be a pretty long winded post so please bare with me. :) I have been seeing a guy for the past 4 months now. This is the longest I have been involved with a guy since my first ever boyfriend I was with for almost 2 years. The guy ...
A. 12 June 2016: I know you're right, my friends have said I need to ask him they've been saying it ever since I started seeing him. I just have no idea what to say or how to bring it up. This has kind of happened to me before with a guy I'd been seeing on and of... (read in full...)
He seems to be taking it slow, but I worry he might be messing me around!
Q. Hi I this will be a pretty long winded post so please bare with me. :) I have been seeing a guy for the past 4 months now. This is the longest I have been involved with a guy since my first ever boyfriend I was with for almost 2 years. The guy ...
A. 10 June 2016: (An) is the one I like the most he is the one I want, but I don't to give my all to someone if he isn't willing to give me the same and at the same time turn down others who would be willing to give me their all. ... (read in full...)
He's not hit me. But could the other things he does be called abuse? what should I do?
Q. To be blunt and simple, when my year long boyfriend and i argue, he pushes me around. He'll grab me and squeeze my face, throw me down, he'll push me in front of almost anyone.. All throughout the year, he's never hit me though. He will punch...
A. 13 March 2016: This is for sure abuse! My first ever boyfriend did this to me. He raised his fist to me once but never actually hit me. Get rid asap it will only escalate.
Best of luck x... (read in full...)
I'm 20 years old and my overprotective parents are driving me crazy!
Q. Hello everyone, I'm really needing some help right now. I'm 20 years old and still have to tell my parents where I'm going who I'm going with what I'm doing and if they think I'm lying they will check up on me and ask my friends if I'm there. I...
A. 13 March 2016: Thank you. :) I did think it was a little bit over the top. I'm not an only child, my mum and dad split up when I was 4, my mum then had another child to another man when I was 8 and my dad had another child to another woman when I was 11. I hav... (read in full...)
Why would my ex add me on Facebook only to delete me again?
Q. Hi guys I have a situation, Ive posted about this before. My last serious ex gaa got back in touch, I'm finding it strange. I'll tell what happened breifly. Everything was hunky dory he went to mqgaluf for his 21sr came back and apparently had ...
A. 9 June 2015: AN UPDATE..
He's messaged again this morning saying 'sorry I fell asleep x'
I'm really weary I dont know how to act. I thought he'd made it pretty clear he wanted nothing to do with me.
I'm really confused ... (read in full...)
Should I be allowed a lock on my door?
Q. Hello, opinions on my situation please. I currently live with my step mum dad and little sister. My little sister is my half sister my step mum is her mum. Ive only lived with them for a few months. I used to live with my mum other sister, I was ve...
A. 28 May 2015: I'm glad to see others agree with me. Personally I dont think a footlocker would be enough. I honestly think it was my step mum that didn't want the lock so she and mh sister could snoop.I've made the decision to live back with my mum and other si... (read in full...)
Should I be allowed a lock on my door?
Q. Hello, opinions on my situation please. I currently live with my step mum dad and little sister. My little sister is my half sister my step mum is her mum. Ive only lived with them for a few months. I used to live with my mum other sister, I was ve...
A. 26 May 2015: I'm at uni. I've had multiple jobs but right now most of my time is spent on assingmemts. Originally I wanted to live in student accommodation however seen as my house was only down the road my dad told me to stop being silly and I should live ... (read in full...)
Should I be allowed a lock on my door?
Q. Hello, opinions on my situation please. I currently live with my step mum dad and little sister. My little sister is my half sister my step mum is her mum. Ive only lived with them for a few months. I used to live with my mum other sister, I was ve...
A. 26 May 2015: Well I'm at uni at the minute I can't really afford to get a job.
Plus I'm 19. There isn't many 19 year olds that have their own place. My cousin is 22 she lives with her boyfriend and his parents. All my friends live at home and they're all olde... (read in full...)
My step-mother seems to think what's mine is hers
Q. Hi I need some advice. Ive recently moved in with my dad, he has redecorated the small bedroom for me while he has been redecorating I have been sharing a room with mu little sister and all of my belongings haven't had a place and have been scattere...
A. 12 February 2015: I understand my stuff has been all over the house since I moved in, but ive had nowhere to put it. Ive been sharing a room with my sister and that room is full of her stuff there's no space for mine. ... (read in full...)
We had a good date, kissed goodnight, but this morning I am blocked!
Q. Hi, hopefully going to be a short question! If not forgive me. So I started talking to this guy a few weeks ago. I know him through my ex but they aren't good friends they jusy know eachother. He asked when he could take me out we chose frida...
A. 22 December 2014: Thank you for all the advice everyone, really appreciate it. Makes me feel loads better :) x... (read in full...)
We had a good date, kissed goodnight, but this morning I am blocked!
Q. Hi, hopefully going to be a short question! If not forgive me. So I started talking to this guy a few weeks ago. I know him through my ex but they aren't good friends they jusy know eachother. He asked when he could take me out we chose frida...
A. 21 December 2014: That did cross my mind that the story about him needing to pick his friend up was bs, but he said it as soon as I got in the car, surely he couldn't have made his mind up that fast? All he ever kept saying in our messages was how well he thought we ... (read in full...)
We had a good date, kissed goodnight, but this morning I am blocked!
Q. Hi, hopefully going to be a short question! If not forgive me. So I started talking to this guy a few weeks ago. I know him through my ex but they aren't good friends they jusy know eachother. He asked when he could take me out we chose frida...
A. 20 December 2014: Thank you everyone. This makes me feel a little better.
I dont have a clue what it was. Ive analysed every thing I did. Was it because I didn't pay or offer?
Is it something to do with the fact he knows my ex? Is it something to do with the othe... (read in full...)
Am I falling for my boss when I swore blind I never would?
Q. Hi, Ive recently got a new job, my boss fancies me. I knew him before I got the job but not very well. Never have I looked at him like that never thought I would he's not what I look for In a man. Obviously since ive been in the job ive gotten t...
A. 28 August 2014: He's not married he's single and hes 30 ... (read in full...)
He came back from a holiday and ended the relationship
Q. I really need some advice. I'm having a hard time getting over my ex. We were seeing each other for about a month before we became official, when we were just seeing eachother he said he didn't want me seeing anyone else. He was pretty paranoid...
A. 2 July 2014: Thank you for your help! I thinknhe cheated and couldn't deal with the guilt. I did tell him while he was on holiday he seemed different, he just told me I was being paranoid. I cut contact 2 days after the split, he sent me a text asking if in was ... (read in full...)
He seemed genuine in his texts but when we met up he only wanted one thing!
Q. Hello, so confused. I've been talking to this guy for about a week, the conversation was going good andhe kept asking if we could meet up normally I dont meet them straight away I l like to talk to them for a couple of weeks first. However he seeme...
A. 1 February 2014: He text me this morning, and I replied saying "I wasn't expecting you to text me because I'm frigid" then he replied saying "haha I was joking you'll get used to my immature ways" I suppose that's a good a sign isn't it? ... (read in full...)
I feel let down by my friend! Am I out of order?
Q. Hello, this may be quite a long question so please bare with me. My birthday is coming up, one of my plans for it was to go around town at the weekend of my birthday. Another was a surprise which my mum had planned for me which was a spa day the ...
A. 13 January 2014: Thank you for your advice. I think you could be right about her being mad at me for something she is normally very reilable, and we are usually pretty close we've never fallen out. Ive only just recently become friends with L through college after ... (read in full...)
I feel like he should have told me he was talking to his ex
Q. I found out that within the past few weeks or so, my boyfriend has skyped/video chatted with his ex girlfriend a few times. I'm not upset that he did, what I am upset about is the fact that he didn't tell me. He is usually open with me and neve...
A. 7 December 2013: I can see where you're coming from. If it was me i would be the same. He should have told you, shouldn't be hiding things in a relationship. ... (read in full...)
Should I cut contact with the girls I used to flirt with and focus on the one I really like?
Q. I feel bad about this whole situation, okay there is this amazing girl whom my eyes were always attracted to and I've kept my eye on this chick for months I never made a move, I never even talked to her before and last Monday I was flirting with a ...
A. 7 December 2013: Yes cut contact with these other girls, if you genuinely like this girl. Honestly i wouldn't want to even think about starting to date someone who was flirting with loads of other girls. Females want to feel special, if she knows you're telling ... (read in full...)
Happy to be on my own -- is it because my standards have risen?
Q. I'm quite confused at the moment. 5 months ago my long term relationship ended. It was an abusive relationship (not extremely abusive, but definitely, some verbal abuse, emotional, and a bit of physical abuse). After the relationship i did turn to a ...
A. 6 September 2013: thank you! :)... (read in full...)
Happy to be on my own -- is it because my standards have risen?
Q. I'm quite confused at the moment. 5 months ago my long term relationship ended. It was an abusive relationship (not extremely abusive, but definitely, some verbal abuse, emotional, and a bit of physical abuse). After the relationship i did turn to a ...
A. 4 September 2013: yes you both are probably right thank you!... (read in full...)
Do I want to be alone because my ex was so abusive?
Q. Hi there, Back again for some advice! I wrote here before about my ex he found the question and also found out I was sexually abused and a whole bunch of stuff about my abusive past I had never told him. He couldn't get past it and dumped me in...
A. 4 September 2013: I can relate to this so much!
I was in a bad relationship for a year and a half, it ended 5 months ago, and he was abusive, it ended with him cheating on me.
Unfortunately i did go straight to a rebound, which only lasted for a month, and now ... (read in full...)
BF is upset that his EX is being chatted up by his best friend?
Q. just a small question. My last relationship ended because i found him cheating on me so ended things because once a cheater alwayas a cheater. I don't want to be cheated on again, obviously. Ive just entered a new relationship but im a little ...
A. 9 April 2013: Thankyou :)... (read in full...)
IS this modeling agency on the up and up? They asked me do do some rather risque things?
Q. hi, im really stuck! i need help. i have been contacted by a modeling agency asking if im interested in modeling. i am and i always have been i would love to be a model. The only thing is she told me i had to do my audition on skype on a web cam in ...
A. 5 March 2013: ive heard they are a scam ive just done a lot of research, they are called models direct. ive looked on the internet and there are lots of stories about how people have been scammed for their money. I hope thats all they are after and they haven't ... (read in full...)
IS this modeling agency on the up and up? They asked me do do some rather risque things?
Q. hi, im really stuck! i need help. i have been contacted by a modeling agency asking if im interested in modeling. i am and i always have been i would love to be a model. The only thing is she told me i had to do my audition on skype on a web cam in ...
A. 5 March 2013: thankyou im really worried now :/... (read in full...)
Friend who can't think for herself!!!
Q. Hi, im soo annoyed right now. Where to start? A couple of months ago i fell out with people i used to call my 'best friends' long story not going into detail about why we fell out. While i was friends with one of the particular 'friends' she co...
A. 20 November 2012: Thank you both of you that was very helpful, and yes I did my old 'friends' were part of the reason for that, along with everything else but what happened with them was just the last straw... (read in full...)
I'm not the bad one here am I?
Q. Hello, please help me! I'm in a relationship I can't get out of and depressing me so much I don't want this relationship anymore. Ill start from the beginning, me and my bf have been together nearly a year, weve known eachother from being little. He ...
A. 28 September 2012: Thankyou, I've left sixth form, and starting at a different one so of I leave him I won't be alone... (read in full...)
I'm breaking up with my boyfriend because I found him on dating websites
Q. hi, not going to be a long question but, i found out my boyfriend of nearly a year has been going on dating websites. He knows i know now and i told him im leaving him, but hes begging me not to saying he loves me and all that waffle, honestly im ...
A. 27 September 2012: Well I got into his account finally and there isn't anything on them no messages or anythig and he let me change his password he said he set it up out of anger when we split up.... (read in full...)
Why does he get an iPad? It's not fair!
Q. Today I came home from school and found my little brother with a brand-new iPad. I am so freakin jealous of him! My parents said its only "because he needs a certain app for social skills." (he has aspergers so he needs help) I still don't ...
A. 25 September 2012: Woah seriously, there's no need to get would up because of this! When I was younger I used to be jealous of my sister at times, not like this tho! Most siblings these days are jealous of eachother because they think the other is loved more than the... (read in full...)
This picture pops up on Facebook of my boyfriend and this girl looking like a couple....is it reasonable for me to have a problem with this photo?
Q. Hi, so my boyfriend just came back off holiday, we've been quite rocky for a while but since he came back we've been really happy havnt argued once until this photo was uploaded on facebook. I just want advice on whether I'm being in reasonable with ...
A. 23 September 2012: Thankyou and no it's not the same girl if it was I would have gone mad ... (read in full...)
This picture pops up on Facebook of my boyfriend and this girl looking like a couple....is it reasonable for me to have a problem with this photo?
Q. Hi, so my boyfriend just came back off holiday, we've been quite rocky for a while but since he came back we've been really happy havnt argued once until this photo was uploaded on facebook. I just want advice on whether I'm being in reasonable with ...
A. 21 September 2012: Ok Thankyou, but what can i do stop it ad make sure this pattern stops?... (read in full...)
This picture pops up on Facebook of my boyfriend and this girl looking like a couple....is it reasonable for me to have a problem with this photo?
Q. Hi, so my boyfriend just came back off holiday, we've been quite rocky for a while but since he came back we've been really happy havnt argued once until this photo was uploaded on facebook. I just want advice on whether I'm being in reasonable with ...
A. 20 September 2012: We've been together almost a year, they did ask If I wanted to go with them but I couldn't. He's 18 and she's 23 id that makes any difference I have asked him ask them to remove It but he win he said it will cause to much trouble, so what do I do ... (read in full...)
This picture pops up on Facebook of my boyfriend and this girl looking like a couple....is it reasonable for me to have a problem with this photo?
Q. Hi, so my boyfriend just came back off holiday, we've been quite rocky for a while but since he came back we've been really happy havnt argued once until this photo was uploaded on facebook. I just want advice on whether I'm being in reasonable with ...
A. 20 September 2012: He's 18 and she's 23 I don't know if that makes any difference? So I'm not being un reasonable, I did ask him about it and I said of you were clothed or stood facing forwards and not in wards it would be different, but they wernt. When I asked him ... (read in full...)
How do you cope with a controlling friend?
Q. hey, so my question is how do you cope with a controlling friend? Me and my boyfriend had an argument, nothing major, but i thougth our relationship was over i felt tlike he didnt care, but he proved wrong, he begged for me back i kept saying n...
A. 1 August 2012: i know shes very insecure because when we were friends she always used to coppy how i dressed how i did my hair make up etc. Thankyou i thought thats what it was ... (read in full...)
Suggestions for prom make-up?
Q. Hello everyone, this is not a relationship question but I'm so stuck I dont know who to ask! Ok so it's my prom night in less than a week now, and I'm so stuck on what make up to use, I have a red fishtail dress which has a lot of detail on my le...
A. 24 June 2012: Thankyou :)... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable in this situation?
Q. Hi everyone, need some opinions on wether I am being unreasonable in this situation or not. Ok so I live at home with my mum step dad and younger sister, I go to my dads who lives at the other side of town once to twice a week. There is my dad step ...
A. 11 June 2012: Thankyou I'm just sick of being tret like something on the bottom of his shoe ... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable in this situation?
Q. Hi everyone, need some opinions on wether I am being unreasonable in this situation or not. Ok so I live at home with my mum step dad and younger sister, I go to my dads who lives at the other side of town once to twice a week. There is my dad step ...
A. 10 June 2012: Thankyou i will also update this question, I slept at my friends house yesterday, and my boyfriend came to meet me on my way home, anyway to get his own back on me for going out with my friends, he decided to make arrangements to go out with his ... (read in full...)
I'm scard to be kissed!
Q. I am dateing a guy a few weeks now and he asked me if he can kiss me it was on mxit he asked me if he can kiss me and I said "yea sure I don't mind" then the saturday he visited me and tried to kiss me I turned my head so he can't kiss me cause I'm ...
A. 10 June 2012: Dont worry we all go through this stage when we're young I went through it and do will every one else just take it as it comes if your both happy with it go with the flow. But don't let anyone force you into something you do no want to do. It ... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable in this situation?
Q. Hi everyone, need some opinions on wether I am being unreasonable in this situation or not. Ok so I live at home with my mum step dad and younger sister, I go to my dads who lives at the other side of town once to twice a week. There is my dad step ...
A. 9 June 2012: Thankyou ... (read in full...)
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