I don't find him attractive, but I cant stop thinking about him!
Q. so ive met this guy twice and hes sweet but totally not my type. ive only met him when ive had a drink and he has too. i wouldnt say he's good looking - lets put it that way - but the first time i met him he gave me a kiss goodbye. and then the ...
A. 1 February 2012: A part of me wants to say to give this guy a shot, however, the other half says that you may only be feeling this affection towards him because he gives you so much attention. You may be just attracted to the special attention you've recieved, and ... (read in full...)
I still love my B/f but I don't feel like I am "in love" with him any more. How do I break it off without causing him too much pain?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years since I was a senior in high school. Now that I am about to graduate from college. We have had a long distance relationship for most of the time we have been together. Over the past couple of months I've ...
A. 1 February 2012: 1. He will be hurt. You're essentially ending a 5 year relationship/friendship. There is nothing you can do to make it hurt less, especially when your excuse is "I just want to experience other things and have experiences with other guys while ... (read in full...)
After only 2 months of marriage the arguments are terrible and she is threatening to cheat! Why is she doing this and how do I sort this out?
Q. Great 2 months of unstable marriage. At first I was appreciated. We used to love each other prior to getting married but... In these 2 months, we have had epic arguments, I've been called idiot etc. We had an argument tonight and she went further to ...
A. 1 February 2012: You two need counseling. Please go see someone. On the side, however, look into what it would take to get a divorce lawyer (don't tell her about it and don't commit to actually getting the lawyer, but if worse comes to worse, you NEED to be ... (read in full...)
Is there a future with this married woman or am I just a fling?
Q. Greetings Aunts! I am in a place I never expected to be, which is that I am involved with a married woman and have been for almost three years now. She is in my class at grad school. The way that our school works, the grad students...
A. 30 January 2012: I can't be certain what the future looks like for you two, but remember this:
"If she'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you."
Don't be so deluded as to think the same thing that's happening to her husband won't happen to you someday.... (read in full...)
Why do I keep feeling so sick whenever I go out drinking?
Q. Hey I seem to have a bit of a problem that affects me going out and enjoying myself, not sure if anyone else has had the same problem but I've receieved comments about it. Everytime I go out drinking I get so far and feel the need to throw up, and...
A. 26 January 2012: When you say that it also happens with food, did you mean it happens with food while you are drinking? Or on a regular basis? If its just when drinking there are a few things that can cause one to feel nauseated: 1. The order you drink your a... (read in full...)
Do you think it would be a bad idea if we did get something going?
Q. dear cupid, soo, there's this guy. for security purposes, we'll just call him luke. we met about a week ago and have talked online and texted pretty much nonstop. we've also talked in person several times, and each time went really great. th...
A. 24 January 2012: It's always a tough position when you really like someone, but are afraid of unresolved factors arising between you and your ex. How long has it been since your last relationship?
Well, I guess I would say to go for it, for one main reason; ... (read in full...)
He flirts with me but loves another! Help!
Q. there is this boy, he is amazing and i think i'm in love with him but the only trouble is he's in love with his ex yet he still leads me on and flirts with me, i really don't know what to do......
A. 23 January 2012: If he's still not over his ex, this is no time for him to be in a relationship and you'd likely be leading yourself to get hurt later. Don't take the chance; wait until you know he has moved on before doing anything about your feelings.... (read in full...)
How will I face my boyfriend?
Q. Hi everyone, I need some advice on what to do. I feel guilty and am plagued with sin. A few days back my friend and I hung out together but as we were talking, he suddenly hugged me and even planted a kiss on me. Although I pushed him away but he ...
A. 20 January 2012: You should not feel guilty. Feel enraged that this guy violated your personal space, even after you pushed him away. Feel sad that he stooped to such levels to get close to you. Feel betrayed and disappointed that a good friend of yours would ... (read in full...)
I can't stand that my ex has a new girlfriend. What's happening to me?
Q. hello there... so i broke up with my bf 8 months ago and now, i found out he has a new gf. i was ok with not being with him... i'm doing fine! even though i'm not dating, i'm going out and having fun with my friends... i missed him, but not...
A. 20 January 2012: Sounds like the idea really stresses you out. This could mean several things, but I'll narrow it down to three possibilities:
1. You miss him more than you admit and still care for him on some level. I only suggest this because I've been the... (read in full...)
I'm a wall flower and everyone makes me feel weird about it!
Q. I'm not very sociable, and I find it very hard to connect with new people, I often feel very uncomfortable around strangers (and even acquaintances) because I just don't know how to make or follow conversation. I usually feel very comfortable about ...
A. 20 January 2012: You aren't weird or anything of that sort, and lots of people don't enjoy the typical party social gathering and would just rather have a calm night with a few close friends they know and trust. That being said, it really wouldn't hurt to try and ... (read in full...)
Do guys like it when u kiss them all over their body and tell them that u love every inch of them
Q. do guys enjoy the sensual loving touch of woman ? do they love to cuddle, snuggle with their girlfriend and hold them close?...
A. 20 January 2012: Its different for everyone. Personally, its very very sexy when a girl kisses my body, compliments me on, and is just, for lack of a better phrase, absolutely all over me. But I like that sort of attention, where other guys may not enjoy it or ... (read in full...)
Are there women and men that think (like me) that oral sex is not romantic ?
Q. u can`t feel the emotional connection with ur lover , i know that it feels good but not that good to me i`d rather have sex i`m talking about a loving,tender relathionship not a one night stand u can`t look in their eyes and feel the connect...
A. 19 January 2012: I respectfully disagree. I think that oral sex can be a romantic thing as it really comes down to a huge level of trust. You're basically making yourself 100% vulnerable to this person and that's something that really tests how comfortable you are ... (read in full...)
I cant orgasm during intercourse is it my fault or his?
Q. Im very physically and mentally attracted to my boyfriend, but when we had sex i NEVER orgasm, i only orgasm when he fingers me, when we have sex it lasts awhile, long enough to where i should have "gotten off" but i dont even though the sensation ...
A. 19 January 2012: Believe me when I say that this is no one's "fault." Its simply unique to your own biology, what you enjoy, what you're sensitive to, and the mood of the situation. Dozens of things can come into play during sex that can affect whether or not you ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my gf to have sex?
Q. So I want to have sex with my gf, and I don't know if she wants it or not. Both of us are 16, and we've been dating for a month and a half. and both of us are virgins. anyone got advice??...
A. 19 January 2012: Believe me when I say this is something you don't want to rush into. You are both really young and very early into your relationship. Sex really tends to complicate things and can be risky if you're not sure what you're doing.
That being sa... (read in full...)
The ex and her text
Q. I feel like I go crazy every single time I see my boyfriends ex commenting on his facebook status I just wish she was not there or even in his friends. Every time I ask him to delete her, he says he is afraid it will cause drama. My thought is she ...
A. 19 January 2012: Ex girlfriends aren't just something you can shamelessly delete from you life. For me personally, my ex girlfriends are all either friends or good aquaintences. I don't think there is bad blood between any of us and we're all much better off for ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to cry tears of joy or is it too much too soon?
Q. Ive been dating a guy for only a few months now, and i can honestly admit i love 100% everything about him and hes amazing and treats me with the most respect and supports me Sometimes i feel so happy when im alone, i cry in tears of happiness that ...
A. 19 January 2012: I'm happy you found someone who makes you feel that way! Enjoy every second of it and don't feel bad about the tears of happiness :) Just avoid making a scene in front of other people and you'll be okay; on your own, however is completely fine! ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend hearing things and assumes I'm cheating!
Q. Please I am need of desprate assistance Yesterday my girlfriend came over to my house to study she was already mad at me because she is thinking I cheated because Long story short I didn't cum the day before and I told her "I'm gonna cum ok" she ...
A. 18 January 2012: Advice: Run. Run far away from this one.
She clearly has issues that you can't even begin to explain and you too just aren't going to work (at least based on what information you've given me).
... (read in full...)
Should I warn my boyfriend about how different I look?
Q. I haven't seen my boyfriend in several months. Over that time, I've been sick and have lost a lot of weight. I have always been slender, but this is a noticeable difference from last time since my family and friends have been commenting and s...
A. 18 January 2012: It wouldn't hurt mentioning to him that you've been sick and its caused some changes to your body. Not for the sake of pleasing his curiosity, but more just in casual conversation.
I couldn't see it as being a problem and as long as you get on t... (read in full...)
Guys, is it a deal breaker for you if your girlfriend hates blow jobs?
Q. I tried giving blow jobs, it hurts, my jaws got irritated , i felt used (i knew i`m not gonna like them) and i felt bad about myself, i love sex though. so is it a deal breaker if a woman refuses to give it to her boyfriend? i never asked any men ...
A. 18 January 2012: Contrary to what you may think, most guys I've heard from do not mind going down on a girl at all, and in fact may enjoy it a lot. I know I enjoy it.
Its not a deal breaker, but it certainly limits the fun you can have in the bedroom, which co... (read in full...)
Why do guys act hot and cold? What's the point?
Q. I don't get why guys act hot and cold. What is the point of being like this? Is this not a form of mind games? Don't get me wrong, I know it's just not guys who act hot and cold but women do it too. I just get confused when this happens though :...
A. 18 January 2012: Like you said, its not just guys; plenty of women can be accused of doing this as well. Personalities differ based on the individual. Some, regardless of gender, are more frantic or non-commital when it comes to relationships and others are more ... (read in full...)
How do I make our friendship less awkward after my recent comments on Facebook?
Q. About 3 years ago, I went off to college and knowing nobody, I was pretty bummed out a lot since I'm not really a social butterfly. Then I met one of my best friends. As soon as we talked the first time, I knew we were meant to be more than friends. ...
A. 18 January 2012: Well its clear that to her your relationship doesn't exceed friendship. She has a boyfriend now, and if you DO want to still be her friend, you need to accept that and support her. If you were only friends with her because you wanted a shot at ... (read in full...)
I'm beginning to feel like an outsider because I haven't had sex or dated anyone!
Q. I really don't know where else to turn. I am a 19 year old guy, who has never had sex, had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. I despise this about me. Every one of my friends have had this experience before and I just feel like an outcast. Like, ...
A. 18 January 2012: Code Warrior hit everything on the head. Read his post twice.
On top of everything he said (I may be repeating some of it), being confident is not only important, but can be easily improved as well. Feeling good about yourself will only help you... (read in full...)
When he crashed out and went to sleep I kissed him, now I'm not sure if he even was asleep....what should I do?
Q. My best male friend and I have been friends for about 3 years, and we're very close. We're college sophomores and we talk about school, parties, sex, orgasms, etc. -- we're really open with one another, which is great...and it's nice to have a guy ...
A. 18 January 2012: You obviously have some strong repressed feelings for your friend that you need to address. I know that guys are sometimes oblivious, but I'm sure he has somewhat of an idea that you like him as more than a friend. Its hard to keep your feelings ... (read in full...)
We are poison together!
Q. I have been married to my husband for 7years, it was love at first sight for both us.- the dilemma we face is we are poison together. We both use drugs I've been doing them from the loliness that I've been feeling. By numbing them, how and when are ...
A. 17 January 2012: If you really want to stop, it all comes down to holding him and yourself accountable. If you're feeling really adament about stopping, actively seek clinical treatment that can help you get clean together. This likely isn't something you can do ... (read in full...)
Should I tell the truth about having sex with my exboyfriend before or after marriage?
Q. hii... i had sex with my ex bf...that was just the biggest mistake in my life... now im worried about my future relationships when i get married...is it right to tell the truth before mariage or after marriage?...
A. 17 January 2012: Always go with the truth. Even if things get rocky, you can keep your dignity knowing that you stayed honest.
My rule in dating someone new is that I give it about a month before I let all secrets out on the table; I'll let us enjoy our "honeymo... (read in full...)
I am in a serious relationship with a man I love and can't get enough of, and I am starting to fall for my friend.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years now. I am happy and complete and we are planning a life of marriage and kids. Things are perfect between us. He still gives me butterflies everytime I see him. We have an incredible ...
A. 17 January 2012: "He has told me he likes me but will never interfere so long as I am happy. He is a great guy and a real gentleman." I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but this guy has already interfered by admitting his feelings for you. He may not be as much o... (read in full...)
My ex wants to hang out with me but has a boyfriend!
Q. So my ex and I went out for 3 years and we broke up. Now a month after our break she started dating this other guy (ling distance) and after 4 months we started hanging out but I couldn't take the fact that she's dating someone else, so I stopped ...
A. 11 January 2012: Stay away, dude. I've been there. She's not interested in you, she's just clinging onto the good feelings she used to have around you without actually having to commit to you. Sorry, but she needs to know that it should be all or nothing; this is ... (read in full...)
What does it mean? My girlfriend wants sex without a condom
Q. gf wants sex without a condom, what does this mean? in all relationships i been in never had a girl ask to have sex without a condom, this is first time, bit wierd, does this mean she loves me or wants kids? ...
A. 30 December 2011: Ask her this directly. Make sure you're both STD free; get tested. And if you don't want an unplanned pregnancy, make sure she is on some other form of contraceptives.
But yes, generally sex without a condom is more pleasurable for her and you ... (read in full...)
Partner doesn't support my change of eating habits!
Q. I've decided to change my eating habits for health reasons and my partner is not helping because he does a lot of the cooking and won't prepare the healthier meals I want, and when I say I'll do my own food he gets offended. We also used to drink ...
A. 30 December 2011: Cerberus hit this one on the head. We need to know exactly what you mean when you say "get healthy" because honestly if your partner is cooking home cooked meals for you, you're most likely already eating healthy, since cooking fresh ingredients is ... (read in full...)
Swore I wouldn't fall for someone since I'm leaving for the military, but it happened anyway! What should I do?
Q. Hi - I am leaving for the military in just under 4 months. I am older (mid 20's) and have been working for this for years and am dead set on going. About eight months ago, I made the decision then and there not to date. I wasn't in a relationship, ...
A. 30 December 2011: LDR's are definitely possible; lots of people in the military go through them. However, the person you are dating has to be very stong and willing while you are away. That may be something that's hard to gauge in someone you just started to get to ... (read in full...)
Troubled relationship with mom...
Q. My mother is constantly having a go at me and I honestly don't know what to do. I feel like I can not cope any more. I am on the brink of breaking, I have my A levels coming up which are a constant battle to keep up with, i'm trying to fit in and ...
A. 30 December 2011: I agree with So Very Confused. You gave us a small few paragraphs of info to go on and claim that we don't understand the whole situation when we try and give what advice we can? As the other user said, if there is more to the situation, then ... (read in full...)
What really hurts a guy aside from breakups?
Q. This question is mainly directed to Men but feel free anyone to answer every little helps :) After a friend got dumped we went to her house to comfort her. She said she wanted to hurt her ex emotionally. I told her not to stoop to his level but my...
A. 29 December 2011: What makes you think guys aren't hurt by the same things that hurt women? Just because we may internalize it more and tend not to be too open when it comes to our feelings, doesn't mean they're not there.
Besides, people let things get to them ... (read in full...)
Troubled relationship with mom...
Q. My mother is constantly having a go at me and I honestly don't know what to do. I feel like I can not cope any more. I am on the brink of breaking, I have my A levels coming up which are a constant battle to keep up with, i'm trying to fit in and ...
A. 29 December 2011: "we dont have a relationship like other mums and daughters whom i am jealous of"
No one has these utopian relationships with their parents, even if they pretend they do. Everyone fights with their family, especially at your age. Its the age of i... (read in full...)
I am almost a beautiful 22 year old and never had a boyfriend
Q. Where will I find him? The right guy for me? I tried online dating, the only messages I get are from guys that I am not attracted to. They write me nice messages saying how I have beautiful eyes and smile. Its very nice of them to write me nice mes...
A. 29 December 2011: Sometimes you need to go on bad dates to figure out what you actually want in a significant other. I've gone on some "meh" dates and have had relationships that ended up in heartbreak (both me being the heartbroken and the heartbreaker), but I ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do I just can't seem to make the break.
Q. I have been having relationship problems for the past 15 months. It all started with me going away on a hen weekend. Upon my return i told my partner who i live with that i would like to take our relationship to the next level. His response was ...
A. 29 December 2011: This hot n cold stuff is never good. Don't fall for the "I don't know if I love you, but oh wait, maybe I do," bullshit. If the question is going through his mind then his focus is not on you and his change in attitude only confirms this. He's ... (read in full...)
I don't have any female friends to interpret this girl, so can you lot shine some light on this please..
Q. Hi all :) I have a friend who ive known for a good 5 years, although last 3 years we only meet every few months due to university. I went out with with her and few friends on a night out. When we got back home from the night out, i went into h...
A. 29 December 2011: Its not that all confusing: she wants you to take her out on a date, and is waiting for you to do so. If you think you like her as more than a friend, go ahead and do it! She's clearly dropping hints that she's waiting.
The only really confusin... (read in full...)
How do I get my family to show my boyfriend the same respect that the other men in the family get?
Q. When my boyfriend tried to help with some clearing up my mom was icredibly rude to him instead of just saying no thanks. My sister is also sort of rude and sarcastic when she speaks to him, and the attitude seems to have rubbed off on her husband ...
A. 29 December 2011: If your boyfriend is truly a good person and he makes you happy, it shouldn't matter what your family's opinion is. Most of the time, your family should have your best interest at heart, but in this case it sounds like they have little reason ... (read in full...)
I want to move out. Without him coming too. But how do I tell my BF this?
Q. Hi everyone here my problem my boyfriend and i been together for 4 years since we been together he hasn't worked. But i work 40 hours a week. we said from the start we.want to move in together but i'm thinking of moving into a studio alone for a wh...
A. 29 December 2011: The only thing you can do is tell him its too much for you to support the both of you when he doesn't have stable income and that to save money you need to move into your own place.
If the only reason you want to be on your own is money (as in i... (read in full...)
Should I go out with what I feel is a pity date?
Q. An acquaintance of mine from high school has asked to take me on a date. Thing is, through the 5 years I've known him, I'm really not attracted to him. It also seems as though he's trying too hard to impress me about himself by saying how he st...
A. 29 December 2011: If its honestly a pity date that you have no interest in going on, do not go. A roommate of mine a few years back was one of those guys who only got pity dates after pressing and pressing a girl until she finally gave him a shot. Each time, the ... (read in full...)
I'm skinny and eat unhealthily. What should I do? And guys, do you naturally prefer more well-rounded girls?
Q. Hey, I saw a similar question earlier and it got me thinking. I'm gonna be really blunt, I'm veery skinny. I weight around 100 lbs, I'm 5'9" and I'm 14. I eat rather unhealthily, I get my twiggyness from my mother. Also, I have many MANY other frie...
A. 28 December 2011: Personally, I prefer girls who have a little more shape, but certainly not to an unhealthy degree. But overall, you should not be so concerned with it at your age; instead your focus should be on simply eating healthy and maintaining a no... (read in full...)
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