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... Send *Jay a private message | | | *Jay's profile:Hey. Just call me VJay. Im 19 and legal. Haha. Whats my relationship status? I can't tell. Got my own ups and downs. Living alone, parents separated. Its been hard though. But I can't complain. This is life, and life is never easy. |
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My girlfriend still shares a bed with her ex! What should I do?
Q. Hi. Well I got a problem. My girlfriend and I live miles away from each other. I live alone, and she lives with her 5 bestfriends. 3 of them are guys, one of them is her ex. I'm a really jealous kind of guy, and she knows that. I really dont like it ...
A. 4 December 2010: Hey thanks for the advices guys. Really appreciate it. She's not with me anymore. I cant stand her doing that to me anyway. But yeah, really. Thanks.... (read in full...)
Can upper classman date freshies?
Q. Okay so there is this really awsome, sweet, cute guy that I like alot. But there is one thing...he is a freshman. Im a sophomore. I know this may sound dumb, but when I asked my friends if they would date a freshman they alll said no...But I would, ...
A. 1 December 2010: I guess there's nothing wrong in dating a freshman. I mean if you really like him, I dont think you should pay attention to whether he's a freshman or not and your friends said no to freshmans, but you're the one who wants to date him, right. Not ... (read in full...)
It bothers me that she lost her virginity to her ex boyfriend
Q. hiii....iam in a relationship from past 1 year....my girlfriend told me a few months back that she has lost her verginity to his ex-boyfriend..they had a realtionship of 4 years..i love her a lott n cant think of my life without her.but at the same ...
A. 28 November 2010: Yeah. That happened in the past and now, she's with you. You two are together. Thats what important. If you really love her, you'll accept her just the way she is. You dont just leave her. No matter whether she's still a virgin or not. ... (read in full...)
I'm not ready for most things but I'm afraid he'll leave me
Q. hello i have a boyfriend and weve been going out for 3 weeks. weve already hugged and kissed goodbye. but he txts me saying we should hold hands and make out and have oral sex. im not ready, when im with him i feel akward even thoough i love him.i ...
A. 28 November 2010: Just 3 weeks, and he's already asking for those oral things. You're not ready, don't do it. Too early for that. He's with you and he likes your sister. He sounded like a pretty 'dangerous' guy. Sorry, but maybe he just wanna get you in bed with him. ... (read in full...)
How do I open up to him?
Q. I need advice. I'm 17-years-old. I've known this guy since I was in grade 7, and we kind of grew up together. We went out for awhile when I was younger, but we both had a lot of problems (family issues, etc). I love him, I would do anything for him, ...
A. 28 November 2010: well, you two have known each other for quite a long time. I guess you two must feel comfortable with each other. comfortable enough to tell each other secrets and stuff, right? So maybe you should tell him how you feel. like tell him there's no ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be, but I think I'm gay
Q. I am 15 and i think i am gay. I really dont want to be but i think i am. Everytime i think of boys my age i get aroused. But I have feelings for girls but i Never get aroused. It doesnt make sense. So am i gay bi or straight If you read this please ...
A. 27 November 2010: Well..In my opinion..You're just curious about your orientation. I think thats normal for a young guy like your age. That feeling will go away someday I guess, just try to go out with girls more often if you don't wanna be like that. Be strong, ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to trust guys again?
Q. I moved back here a couple months ago, and was able to meet my best friend's girlfriend. She was nice, funny, and incredibly cute. Right as she and my best friend were starting to get serious, he broke her heart by dumping her. She cried a lot ...
A. 27 November 2010: Well..I used to be in a position where my girlfriend doesnt trust me at all and cant trust me because guys used to break her heart. So I tried to convince her that Im not the same like the other guys she used to date. I was there when she needed ... (read in full...)
She gave me her number, what's the next step?
Q. I have started a course a couple of weeks ago and there is a girl on it who I really like. I want to ask her out but I'm shy to do that so what I did was I talked to her during the breaks on the course to get to know her and see what we have in ...
A. 27 November 2010: The next step? Well she gave you her number. So maybe she is expecting you to give her a call. Or maybe she likes you too and wants to go out with you. So it wouldnt hurt if you try to give her a call and ask her out.
Just give it a try. Good luc... (read in full...)
Is it true that honesty in a relationship is the only way to experience true love?
Q. People lie everyday believing that sometimes lies are necessary to protect someone's feelings. But do lies lead to an emotional disconnection with the person being lied to? Are lies barriers to true intimacy and growth within a relationship; even ...
A. 27 November 2010: My girlfriend used to tell me that relationship builts on honesty and trust. So if you really want a good relationship, be honest to your partner, dont keep anything between the two of you, if possible, no secrets should be kept from each other. In ... (read in full...)
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