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i would like to think that i am helping people on this site as i think everyone here has the power to help, whether young or old.
the young can give advice to the old and the old can give advice to the young."i was once that age" "i am the age you once were" people forget sometimes what it is like being the different ages we get to in life and this site is wonderful for getting the diverse, young and old to help you figure out what to do.
so what qualifies me? well by being the age i am and having the knwledge i do i can give people an answer from a different side. thats why we come here to get a perspective that we havnt heard in hopes that is the one that will matter the most.
we aunts and uncles on this site come from all parts of the world, some of us show our real country and some show the country they would like to have come from, me im from New Zealand and thats not a lie, the small country of new zealand is diverse and beautiful like the wonderfull people on here.
tick, tick, tick..what makes me tick? what makes the world tick? what makes you tick? it will be different from any other person. thats what makes people different, that is what makes life worth living. i tick in a way that makes me interested in netball, touch, football, basekball....eg
i love to learn and would hate to stop. i love being at school and one day i want to be a lawyer, helping people fight what they believe to be true.
hmm how many people say what their relationship status is? alot? not many? a small collection? some people wish they were single, some people are in a bad realtionship, some people are in love. i am i a loving realtionship and have been for 3 years.
want you see is what you get with me, you dont like me? i dont care. if you can teach me, i will listen. i you have an opinion, i will hear it. if your not prepared to hear mine? dont exspect for me to hear yours. thats how it goes. karma.
now thank you if you have reached this far. it lovely to be interested in someone elses life, to learn how they tick. i want to know how you tick thats why im here.
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Want him back... my ex!
Q. Hi, My partner of 9 months recently broke up with me. I lived out of home and he stayed every night from the day we started seeing each other then he moved in we decided to move somewhere else together so we did then we got engaged. all of ...
A. 10 February 2011: i think the best thing to do here is act calm. your not with him at the moment so dont over do it when he might just be coming back into your life. go meet him, be nice me friendly. talk just be your self. he will like that better than you freaking ... (read in full...)
Astrological signs compatibility?
Q. Hello would this be a good match? Female Sun - LEO Moon - Pisces Venus - Virgo Mars - Leo Male Sun-GEMINI Moon- Cancer Venus - Taurus Mars - Taurus Thank you...
A. 9 February 2011: i love reading into that sort of stuff, but dont take it to seriously, dont base your life on it. if you meet someone you fall in love, get married and have kids, you have been married for 20 years and then you find your not compatible? would you ... (read in full...)
What do I write in his valentine's card?
Q. So I'd love some hints and tips on what to write in my bf's valentine's card please :) We've been together 5 months, and have told each other we love each other. He's great, kind, thoughtful, gorgeous, sexy, funny, smart...I feel so happy when i'm ...
A. 7 February 2011: you know i was just wondering the same thing! as you do i googled it! lol and i found some funny, cool things to write... 1)Neither a lofty degree of intelligence nor imagination nor both together go to the making of genius. Love, love, love... (read in full...)
Why don't I get pleasure from sex?
Q. Well me and my boyfriend have been having sex and I'm just wondering why I don't get pleasure from it. He's on the big side and when he takes it out it feels great but I can never come and I don't want him to feel bad about it. So what positions ...
A. 7 February 2011: ok the reason some people dont get direct pleasure form sex is because it doesnt normally stimulate your clit.
what you could do to make it better is maybe rud yourself while he goes inside?
or maybe try doggy style because thats suppossed to hit y... (read in full...)
How did my boyfriend know that I was having my period?
Q. this is a really awkward question to ask, but my boyfriend today asked me if i was on my period.. when i asked why he just said answer, my first day was today so i said yess??? and he said i knew it! I was like oh was i being moody? and he said oh ...
A. 7 February 2011: haha wow, have you been with your bf for very long? sometimes if you know someone very well they just know you and can guess that kind of thing. my bf can iv been with him for 3 years.
if he said it wasnt because you were acting modody i could be h... (read in full...)
I have having the lights on while having sex
Q. I wont let my Fiance keep the lights on during sex and he loves me and never complains but i am too insecure because of my body because i am fat and big is beautiful but i have like cottage cheese looking fat, oh anyways TMI sorry my Q is how can i ...
A. 7 February 2011: you know when i first started going out with my bf i really was bothered by what i thought he would be thinking when we had sex with the lights on. i think the main thing to do her is know that he loves you for what you are and how you look, ot... (read in full...)
No sex and worried my girlfriend wants to cheat on me
Q. Hi guys and gals. alright so where to start.Ive been in a relationship for a lil over 4 years now, it used to be great but now i have a few concerns/issues i was hoping to get some feedback for. *facts* me and my gf have had sex before. i...
A. 7 February 2011: you sound like a really nice guy and i definately doesn't sound like you are pressuring her into anything she doesn't want. you say you used to have sex all the time? was that with or without her being on birth control? you say you take her out to... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to him and he doesn't remember a thing!
Q. There is a guy I have been really interested in for a while, who I wasn't completely sure if he felt the same about me. That is, until last night-I think. He and I were hanging out as friends do, and whilst drinking a bit at a bar, he basically ...
A. 6 February 2011: you have ruined nothing, you could be with this guy all you need to do id talk to him.
im really sorry about you losing your virginity when you didnt feel ready but i think its more of a motive to try make a relationship work with this guy, that... (read in full...)
Trouble having sex! I don't want him to quit trying!
Q. Ive been trying to have sex with my boyfriend a few times know but everytime we do he cant seem to get is penis inside me, he says I am quite tight but ive had sex in the past before with my ex boyfriend and he managed to get inside me all the ...
A. 6 February 2011: ok well i would like to say that sometimes it takes a bit for my bf to go inside me aswell.
i think the possible causes could be that maybe your to dry? or maybe hes just very big? :)
to help this try using some lubricant, that would help make it... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but he wants to wait to have a baby!
Q. I'm 24 yrs old I've been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and we are still going strong however I got pregnant and he doesn't want me to have it atm he wants to wait a few more years till he's out of med school ...
A. 6 February 2011: ok well hes not being unfair here, it really probably would be better to wait untill a baby could have to parents there for it and both parents ready to have it. ok but your already pregnant so together you need to talk about the option of abortion... (read in full...)
Husband got another woman pregnant and says its a mistake!
Q. my husband of two years (bf for 4 years) he got another woman pregnant he told me it was a mistake and he still loves me what should i do?...
A. 5 February 2011: really? it just kind of happened? sure, sure, sure., keep talking. ok well in my opinion that kind of thing doesnt just happen. 1) he cheated on you with another women. 2) he got her pregnant 3) he obviously didnt wear protection. 4) H... (read in full...)
Should I be ok with my girlfriend sleeping in another guy's bed?
Q. My girlfriend went to a sleepover with her guy friend, since he supposedly dosent have a guest room, she has to sleep on the same bed as him, should I be fine with that?...
A. 5 February 2011: ok er you said that its just going to be the two of them at the house? and that its just for fun?...
she by all means doesnt have to sleep in his bed..you know they invented things called sofas and the floor and well anywhere but the bed.
i wou... (read in full...)
Why most Women are attracted to Bad Men
Q. Every woman on the planet that has ever been involved with a man that was not worthy of her has asked of herself these questions..."Why can't I find a decent guy, Why do I always meet the wrong men and When will I find a man who really loves me?" ...
A. 4 February 2011: a really good article! there is just one thing i have to say and that is i have had very bad relationships in the past and well somehow now i have found a perfect one.
ok well my dad was a very loving perfect dad, so no problems there, but i did ... (read in full...)
Is it too late to tell her I love her?
Q. Is it ever to late to tell the one you love you love them? She thinks I don't love her but I do. She has a girlfriend. I wonder if she loves her girlfriend the way she loved me? Does she still love me? Will she accept my apology for hurting her? ...
A. 4 February 2011: I think you need to be honest with yourself, and go for it. Tell her how you feel! Give it your best and if she doesn't take you back at least you know you gave it your all and left nothing behind! It's never to late to tell someone you love... (read in full...)
Honeymoon & Birth control
Q. My fiancé and I plan on not using protection on our honeymoon except for when she says it's time to start "being careful". That should be about the last few days of our week in Florida. She isn't okay with birth control so I will use a condom. Her ...
A. 4 February 2011: Ok well I would just like to add that no matter what time of her cycle she CAN get pregnant. It doesnt matter if you go by her most fertile day and her not so much days, she could still get pregnant. Is a baby what you want? It's not certain she ... (read in full...)
Still a virgin with fingering??
Q. Okayy so me nd my boyfriend have been goin out for a year now..we have done many things like oral sex nd foreplay...but we really havent got to sex nd we r both virgins..well last time he was fingering me..later on dat day i noticed that his fingers ...
A. 3 February 2011: ok well your only not a virgin when you have had penis in vagina sex. but sure i think it is possible that he may have broken your hymen with his fingers if he went deep enough.
but its ok that doesnt mean that you have lost your virginity and neit... (read in full...)
10 Things Guys really want in a woman...
Q. I received a message from a friend on my Facebook fan page and she had an idea for a post for my blog. She inquired if I could write about what men want in a woman. I thought that this might be interesting as well, so I responded to her message and ...
A. 3 February 2011: well this is just an amzing article, there are no other words for what you have written here. some people post thing that they no absolutly nothing about, but you havee taken the time to research and wow it really impressed me!! now im only 17, so ... (read in full...)
I doubted my boyfriend and now we're on a break...
Q. What can I say to my boyfriend?? I broke his heart:(? So my boyfriend told me something that happened with him and some girl that likes him.. Anyways I got it all wrong and thought he cheated on me with her..but it turns not to be true. I got re...
A. 3 February 2011: well i think the most important thing to tell him is that you misunderstood him and that you are truelly sorry for the nasy unfair things you said to h im.
he said he just wanted to be friends right? well maybe that was just because he needed time... (read in full...)
Want him back... my ex!
Q. Hi, My partner of 9 months recently broke up with me. I lived out of home and he stayed every night from the day we started seeing each other then he moved in we decided to move somewhere else together so we did then we got engaged. all of ...
A. 3 February 2011: ok, it might happen, you never know, right?
but the thing is how long do you wish to wait for him untill he relises he was with a great girl?
to love someone it seems takes away your choices (in a way)
so i can see how you dont want to let this ... (read in full...)
MY man called her baby!!!!
Q. I recently moved in with my bf were goin to have a baby girl in 2 months. I thought that we had a perfect relationShip and that he was faithful to me so I didn't think twice about moving in specially bcuz now were goin to have a daughter but I came ...
A. 2 February 2011: ok i know some guys throw around the word 'BABY' like its the word "sup" but i still dont think calling another girl baby allows him to get off guilt free.
diffinatly talk to hi about it because this has bothered you.no harm in smoothing this out.... (read in full...)
My craving to have a baby...
Q. Well I am 14 abd I am gonna be 15 in July. I have recentally been asked out and have been going out with this boy (I will call him toe) toe for just over two weeks and I have suddenly have a craving for a baby. Me and toe haven't talked about this ...
A. 2 February 2011: ok you are way too young to have a baby. at that age you are still exploring every thing and trust me you do not want to have a baby tying you down. you say that you have big plans for your future well if you have a baby now you can cancel all t... (read in full...)
Lie and lie again...
Q. I have this predicament.. I want to tell the whole story so everyone knows all sides.. I met this guy when i was 11 years old and we always flirted and we were good friends and then years later after him moving away and everything we got ahold of ...
A. 2 February 2011: oh dear, ok well, if you stil have strong feelings for your ex then the only fair thing to do would be leave your husband till you know what boy you want to be with. its not fair on either boys to keep them like this. but it sound like yo... (read in full...)
Want him back... my ex!
Q. Hi, My partner of 9 months recently broke up with me. I lived out of home and he stayed every night from the day we started seeing each other then he moved in we decided to move somewhere else together so we did then we got engaged. all of ...
A. 2 February 2011: ok your in a bit of a mess here. first of all he should have said thank you to you for leaving behind some stuff for him. you say you still love him and that he says the same to you but says he does not care? well to love someone it means to care... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want his pregnant ex to know we're dating?
Q. I have a boyfriend that I've been dating for now almost a year. I knew about his ex girlfriend, and well we didn't really like each other since that time. I had to leave the town for couple of months and by the time I got back it turned out to be ...
A. 1 February 2011: wow, what a mess. im sorry this happened to you! its such a horrible thing when your boyfriend cheats but even worse now that you find out it was with his ex and now shes pregnant! i understand that you love him but does he love you to? if he does ... (read in full...)
I love her but my brain wont let me stop thinking about it.
Q. I was wifes first kiss her one and only love but I broke her heart. She later went and had sex with another man for a minute and told him to stop because she knew it was wrong and it didnt feel right because she still loved me. The man did not ...
A. 1 February 2011: ok the reason you cant stop thinking about it is that, sex is sex. it doesnt matter that he was in her for a short amount of time, what matters is that another mans penis went in her. that counts her out as being a virgin. im sorry to put it that ... (read in full...)
In love with my principal...
Q. I am in high school and I'm in love with my principal. Over the past summer i started messaging him on fbook and after about 2 months of no replys i decided to tell him how i really felt. So the messages went from "hey hows it goin?" to "I Love ...
A. 31 January 2011: ok i think you need to get over this one very fast!!! its your principle!! my goodness he probably has a wife! and kids. what did you exspect him to say? "i love you to sweet heart, doesnt matter about my job, would you like to meet up somewhere?" ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my boyfriend... or not?
Q. Am I wanting to stay with my him(bf)? Every time that I he gets close to me. It just doesn't feel right. I don't even let him kiss, hug etc. No more. Sometimes I will let him kiss me b4 he go to work. Cause usaly that what would a couple would do ...
A. 31 January 2011: i think only you can know if your ready to leave him or not. are you trying to rekindle a flame that went out long ago? trying to hold onto something that has died? thats what is sounds like to me. i think maybe your love for him has died and its ... (read in full...)
Nearly 20 and never had a boyfriend!
Q. I will be turning 20 years old soon. And I have never had a boyfriend. I am kind of shy in showing my feelings towards guys, and I don't really have any guy friends. Actually, I have none at all. The first and only time I have ever made out with a g...
A. 31 January 2011: ok first of all there is nothing wrong with you! you just havent had a BF yet.
people on the outside would say this isnt a major problem, and i guess i am on the outside but the thing is i went through a period in my life that was just string of b... (read in full...)
Why am I so sore after sex?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and have a perfectly good sex lifem just recently tho after we finish sex, my vagina becomes very sore it last for a couple of hours and its sore when i go toilet as well. we had a check up last year and...
A. 31 January 2011: from my personal experience i have been sore after sex aswell and im sure it probably doesnt have to do with an infection if you both have been checked. this might sound strange but he might just be big down there so that when he goes down it ... (read in full...)
I want to please my boyfriend, but I don't like the taste of penis and cum! Any suggestions?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and we have a sexually active relationship. It's all good apart from one bit... he really likes head, but the problem is I really don't like the taste of penis and cum, and he keeps making R...
A. 31 January 2011: ok umm well im not going to judge how young you are because thats not what you are asking. ok well you say he really likes head right? maybe try sucking a minty or something while you do it? umm keep a glass of water or juice by the bed so you can ... (read in full...)
I don't want girls to run away because my pubic hair is all over the place?
Q. ok im quite embarrassed abart this but my pubic hair is really long around my genitals and on my bottom. every time i look down there or see my bottom in a mirror it looks very messy and horrible to look at. i don't want to get rid of it all i ...
A. 31 January 2011: well thats a reasonably easy question to answer, and its fair enough there are so many products out there to help famales control their "lady garden" but what about the man forest, :), well maybe try getting some scissors and just trimming what you ... (read in full...)
Receiving a blowjob from my girlfriend does not feel good to me! Why?
Q. Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been going out for three months. We have a history together and I love her with all of my heart. There's just one problem. To me, it doesn't feel good when she gives me head. She's gotten me off from her hand every ...
A. 31 January 2011: Ok well I'm sure not all men can get off with a blow job, but I think most will agree it feels better than using a hand. If you are both inexperienced then that might be the porblem. You are not defective!! So dont think that. If you can finish with ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating? And what should I do about our relationship?
Q. What should I do? Is he cheating? I love him so much:( I told my boyfriend to take a break from our relationship because I feel that he doesn't like the fact that we are always on the phone or texting. So yes I told him to take a break and he said...
A. 31 January 2011: Hey there, I think maybe you're thinking a bit much about this. You say your boyfriend says he's stressed? Well that might be the problem, don't just assume he's cheating on you because he cannot be with you and talking to you every second of the ... (read in full...)
Not 100% happy in 2 year long distance relationship. What should I do?
Q. Okay, well I am 17 (yeah kind of young, I know right...) and I am in a long-distance relationship. He lives in a place all the way across my country. I really want to be with him but it's hard. We have been together for 2 years. We are both too...
A. 31 January 2011: hi there, My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, we have been for 2 years so far so I know what your talking about. It's hard and sometimes you feel yourself wondering "whats the point", you just have to find the love and strengt... (read in full...)
Was naked with my ex...should I tell my girlfriend?
Q. So last night was my ex's 22nd birthday, so since we're still on good terms I went out with her and some of my old mutual friends. The night started off fairly well but as the night progressed I got more and more drunk (more so than I've gotten in ...
A. 30 January 2011: Well I think it's up to you if you decide to wait until after her exmas or to just tell her straight away. Weigh up the pros and cons of each side, but either way you need to tell her sometime. Otherwise, you will never be able to forgive yourself. ... (read in full...)
My husband always has the air conditioning on even though it bothers me and the baby
Q. i know some of guys may think it baby like but i dont have friends and this site helps me. my husband has a very high body temp. if it cold amd you touch him he will be hot. in the car he turns on the air con in the house he turns the fan. the ...
A. 30 January 2011: i think you need to sit him down and have a chat.
you and your baby should not be put in jeopardy because of him, but then you should not ignore what he is telling you either. calmly tell him that it is effecting both of you and that he needs to... (read in full...)
Was naked with my ex...should I tell my girlfriend?
Q. So last night was my ex's 22nd birthday, so since we're still on good terms I went out with her and some of my old mutual friends. The night started off fairly well but as the night progressed I got more and more drunk (more so than I've gotten in ...
A. 30 January 2011: hey,
ok so something happened that you regret right? well you have to move from it, while taking into consideration that what you did was extremely wrong. i know you say you were extremely drunk and things like that do happen but i agree with ten... (read in full...)
Girls, when you were 14 how would you want a guy to ask you out because I really don't know how to do this?
Q. First some Backround. There's this girl who is everything any guy could ask for. she is the smartest person in my school(and thats saying something) she is drop dead gorgeous, she is the funniest girl I know. She is also so nice and has a great ...
A. 30 January 2011: heya
lets see, when i was 14 all i ever wanted was guy to come up to me in person and ask me out, because when your little friend comes up and says "hey you know xyz, yeah he likes you and wants to go out with you" well when they say that, a ... (read in full...)
Time of the month she turns into someone else.
Q. Hey everybody, Really need your help so here goes. Thanks in advance. I've been dating this girl for a couple of months now and everything was going well up until a week ago. It's the time of the month and I don't want to sound like just a ...
A. 29 January 2011: hmm, a problem i see.
me being a women understand what its like for most woman at that time of the month. i get snappy at my own boyfriend and im sure he wonders what the hell is wrong with since i was fine and happy yesterday, but that the thin... (read in full...)
What's it like moving school?
Q. What's it like moving school? Like is it hard to fit in cause everybody has already got their friends. I'm having alot of problems at my school atm cause this rumour is going round bout me doing stuff with this guy and everybody thinks its true ...
A. 29 January 2011: dear a female,
rumors are nasty things even if they are true, but are you sure you need to move school because of it? normally rumors fade over time and as long as you dont give power to the one spreading the rumor then hopefully it should g... (read in full...)
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