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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 3 December 2010: I didn't know his wife was also around your age. I'm sorry you're going through this hard time. Have you considered spending your time volunteering around this season? You might even meet someone else who is doing the same that you might begin a ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 19 October 2010: I'm sorry you didn't get the job. Keep your head up. During my life, I've had times where I didn't get a position, then around the corner I end up getting one that ends up being better for me than the one I didn't get. You never know what's around ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 13 October 2010: Your welcome. Thank you for the new name, that's sweet. Keep us updated, and if you need anything else, just ask. Take care. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 11 October 2010: You may not think you do, but I assure you that God holds true to every reason you do. I believe you deserve every opportunity that best reflects who you are, and who (in every moment) you're developing to be.
I hope you get that job. :)... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 9 October 2010: You know, sometimes when hurt and broken, God renews and makes whole, but through new opportunities. I hope you get the job. :) Take care. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 14 September 2010: Glad to hear the update. That's exciting. I hope everything works out for you. Take care. ... (read in full...)
How do I break it to my husband that I want to leave?
Q. I am moving towards leaving my husband of 23 years. Though he is a good guy, I don't want to hurt him. The dagger that he will feel will hurt more than the years of irritation I have felt, but at least it will be quick. My therapist explai...
A. 25 August 2010: It's in the wording. You don't have to just come right out and say it. I'd say something like, "We don't talk, you're disconnected from me and the kid, and this is driving me to reconsidering if I want to remain in this marriage." Opening up ... (read in full...)
How do I break it to my husband that I want to leave?
Q. I am moving towards leaving my husband of 23 years. Though he is a good guy, I don't want to hurt him. The dagger that he will feel will hurt more than the years of irritation I have felt, but at least it will be quick. My therapist explai...
A. 25 August 2010: I would ask him..... It sounds like their is communication lacking, but not just from his side. You've accepted his disconnect as just being the way it is. Let him know what your plans are, instead of complaining about things not working out. Tell ... (read in full...)
After my husband cheated and I moved out I slept with another man, it feels so good to get revenge for what my husband did to me! Was I wrong to do this?
Q. After i realised that its not working out, we both agreed that i should move out and get a place of my own, i moved out and i was still angry at him for cheating and all the bad treatment i got from my mother in law.i have been staying alone for ...
A. 24 August 2010: I agree that two wrongs don't make a right. Get revenge on what? Are you two together? You said you moved out....who are you getting revenge on? If you two are together, you can't go on without telling him that you're sleeping with someone else. I'd ... (read in full...)
How do I break it to my husband that I want to leave?
Q. I am moving towards leaving my husband of 23 years. Though he is a good guy, I don't want to hurt him. The dagger that he will feel will hurt more than the years of irritation I have felt, but at least it will be quick. My therapist explai...
A. 24 August 2010: Are you sure it's not a midlife crisis? I'd have to agree with that question. Why the split? Is there any chance of seeking marital counseling to mend your marriage? Is the marriage in a rut? It happens to the best of them. Same ole, different day, ... (read in full...)
I suffer from extremely bad anxiety...how can I deal with this?
Q. I'm 17. I have really bad anxiety problems for example: I'll keep myself awake for hours at night, just thinking about what I'm going to wear tomorrow. I'm indecisive - It will take me twenty minutes to figure out what kind of chocolate bar I want ...
A. 24 August 2010: Good for you. Unlike many people who have something wrong, you noticed that you might and took the time to ask. That puts you so much ahead of so many others.
What are you really worried about? These symptoms are anxiety, but having a tumor fo... (read in full...)
Could she be lying about how many men she has slept with?
Q. I need help with a question that's been floating around in my mind. I'm very much in love with my girlfriend and we've been dating for about 1 1/2 years now. We recently got engaged. Here's the issue... My girlfriend/fiancé is from a very smal...
A. 24 August 2010: Who cares? Why are you getting married to her? Do you actually need to know how many of the 22 she slept with? Would that make a difference with how you feel about her, since whatever her past is, happened before you had any feelings about her. You ... (read in full...)
I don't want to ruin my marriage!
Q. Hi cupid,iv been in a relationship 4 a year now,before i joined this relationship my ex boyfriend had left me for another woman,i then found this man very attractive too so i fell in love with him too and we then get married.five months down the ...
A. 24 August 2010: Then you must (1) end it completely with the other guy (2) fess up to your husband, allowing him to make the decision if you two remain married and work on your issues, or if he decides to move on. You must remember, it is absolutely unfair to be ... (read in full...)
I'm so in love with a teacher it hurts...
Q. Hi, When I was in year 8 at school a new English teacher joined (Mr T) That year my English left so we had a new one which was (Mr T) that's when I realised I was in love. Something clicked one day I didn't care it's just a teacher the next day...
A. 24 August 2010: No, you shouldn't want the teacher, pupil relationship to ever happen, because of that consequence. Let me tell you something. If it's true love, sometimes you have to walk away, for their benefit, even if it hurts you to do so. You know what can ... (read in full...)
He called me a liar because he does not like to say no to his ex!
Q. hi everyone, please could you share your thoughts. . Do you think that this is fair: my boyfriend and i were tryin to plan a holiday we had agreed a week and he said yes bøok off with work. When he was told by ex when was having son over hols and ...
A. 24 August 2010: if he's going to allow his ex to manipulate his decisions, I wouldn't trust setting up any specific day in advance to plan a trip with him. Tell him that you two need to be honest with each other, or you're not going to end up working out in this ... (read in full...)
My partner keeps doing favours for his ex wife!
Q. I have been with my partner over 2 years. He has got 2 kids already. They r lovely boys and we get on very well. It's his ex wife who I can't stand. She still works for my partner, she hardly do anything and still gets paid very good money. When she ...
A. 24 August 2010: When I saw the title, I didn't see it as a big deal. I've helped my ex out. My fiance at the time was not happy about my doing so, but I have never been walked all over and disrespected as much as your partner is by his ex-wife.
She seemingl... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 23 August 2010: It's amazing when I hear how God directly works in lives. Congrats. You made the right choice and bettered yourself and your position by doing so. I'm glad to hear you're doing okay. Take care. ... (read in full...)
Bought the dress, picked the venue.. now he doesn't want t get married!
Q. after i picked out my dress, and we found a venue, my fiance broke up wit me. it was 2 days ago when it happened. he said we can live together n have kids together but he doesnt wanna get married. when i told him im not willing to shack up wit him, ...
A. 20 August 2010: no going off and killing anyone. it's his loss. wants to just shack up, and wants to ask you to be his girlfriend next year, as if you are there to wait for him, for when he's ready to accept you. That's wrong. You need to find someone who will ... (read in full...)
First time same-sex attraction, and we're not sure what to do about our feelings
Q. I'm curious about developing a romantic relationship with another woman I know. How do we proceed? Neither of us have experienced this attraction for another female and don't know what to do with our feelings. We've known each other for awhile, and ...
A. 19 August 2010: Looking at this from a different direct. People are so quick to assume that finding attraction means jumping into bed,or being an attraction that symbolizes a sexual experience. This is really where confusion arises. You may not be attracted to ... (read in full...)
I want him back...but I broke up with him!
Q. Broke up with my bf at the beginning of the summer ...then i realized how much i still love him and want to be with him, but i dont want 2 run into the same issues we were having when we broke up. I think we were on the verge of some significant ...
A. 19 August 2010: be true. Is it okay to be scared? To back off because of fear, and not knowing what would be coming around the corner. You wouldn't be human if it wasn't. We all experience fear when it comes to our relationships moving into a direction that is ... (read in full...)
Afraid that my ex-lover will become a stalker
Q. I am panicking now and i dont know what to do? I had an affair 3 years ago...it lasted 4 years..i finished it because i felt guilty and i realised that i loved my husband.Anyway my husband and i took our on holiday and we bumped into my ex ...
A. 19 August 2010: I find it interesting when you're married, but screwing another guy for four years, and you say that you don't want your actions blowing up in your face......I say, then you shouldn't have done the acts in the first place. I believe, out of your ... (read in full...)
Caught between my husband and the one.
Q. I dont really know how to start. I have been married for 10 years - seperated 1.5 years ago. This is because I found someone else. My marriage was fairly bland and bad, and I always found myself fantasizing about other men. I had married young and ...
A. 19 August 2010: Get divorced and be honest. He can't hold you to be single, in exchange for the divorce. That's not right, and it's not legal. I'm sure you've heard the saying, "you've made your bed", well that's what you did here, you made the decisions, while you ... (read in full...)
Caught between my husband and the one.
Q. I dont really know how to start. I have been married for 10 years - seperated 1.5 years ago. This is because I found someone else. My marriage was fairly bland and bad, and I always found myself fantasizing about other men. I had married young and ...
A. 18 August 2010: Be honest with him. The issue is not the direction you took, it's how you took it. Understand that either way someone is going to be hurt. This is where you guilt is from. Follow what you want to do, but remember as well that you are teaching your ... (read in full...)
He's completely flaked on our plans and even though he's still nice to me he's being a little weird...
Q. I'm freaking frustrated. I've been dating this guy for a month and 1/2. He calls daily/every other day (2x sometimes). He doesnt have a car or his own place. We saw each other a lot but i stopped goin as much cos it got expensive (he lives 35 min ...
A. 18 August 2010: I believe so, but this may be for reason as well. One and a half months, and already wanting to move it. Sex doesn't make a relationship, and living together it only means sex much more often. Do you think this relationship may have moved into fast ... (read in full...)
I devoted a year of my life to journalism, but now I'm not sure its what I want!
Q. Right - I topped my class in journalism, but I now desperately need some counselling! During that time, and consciously, I made journalism my LIFE. I treated it as a year-long interview and it affected my relationship with my boyfriend (which...
A. 18 August 2010: You're a writer....but does that mean you're writing and displaying your talent is best shown in a newsroom setting? I'd take a look at all your options. Freelance can pay well, so can being a book author, but are those areas that interest you? Make ... (read in full...)
My brother admitted to me he thought of me in a sexual way
Q. I am a single mother of 1 daughter. I am 20 and was living with my bf but we broke up. Since then about 2 months ago I've moved back home with my parents. I have a younger brother who is 18 and a sister who is 14. We were all having dinner last ...
A. 18 August 2010: It's good you two talked. You're family, treat each other as such, and not as a future Jerry Springer guest. You live, you learn, and this time you learned what could have been avoided. ... (read in full...)
My brother admitted to me he thought of me in a sexual way
Q. I am a single mother of 1 daughter. I am 20 and was living with my bf but we broke up. Since then about 2 months ago I've moved back home with my parents. I have a younger brother who is 18 and a sister who is 14. We were all having dinner last ...
A. 17 August 2010: It looks like you already did it. It can't be taken back. The only thing now is figure if you'd plan on doing it again? If not, let him know, and be firm, you got caught up in that night, and that you are not planning on doing something like that ... (read in full...)
His reply was another bulk email -- what does it mean?
Q. I met my ex almost 4 years ago(we were friends at first ) Since back then I have randomly received emails(forwards) from him that were addressed to me and a ton of other girls. Back then ( in lust, naive and not thinking clearly and so very eager ...
A. 17 August 2010: Most people send bulk emails to everyone they have as friends, acquaintances, parents, teachers, or whoever else they list on their friends list. I don't think a bulk email is to rub anything in your face about his association with other girls. I ... (read in full...)
Help needed! How do I trust him?
Q. Hi I have been on and off with my partner for 8 years at first when we met I thought it was just a fling, he was in the country for 6 months, but we were in separable. I later found out before he left he was married with a daughter and had...
A. 17 August 2010: Let me ask you this. How does flirting or even having an affair going to change what's going on with this relationship? Has he given you reason to believe he is having affairs on you? I would say to always be cautious when you're with someone who ... (read in full...)
The abuse in my past left me associating sex with pain and fear
Q. Hi everyone - I have a bit of an awkward and very personal question...sorry if some of this is just TMI... I was sexually abused as a young child and raped on two different occassions when I was young. Now, I feel like I am completely ruine...
A. 17 August 2010: What exactly makes you believe you're ruined? "but I associate sex with pain and fear." Giving up entirely, isn't that saying you're allowing your abuser to win? That you can't be happy or sexually satisfied because of what someone else caused you? ... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis?
Q. I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...
A. 16 August 2010: Just like any other recovery, it takes time. Be proud of what you're doing. It's rare to see someone who knows they need to change, and who actually takes action in doing it. I remember, I told my dad, who had anger issues, that his anger wasn't who ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 16 August 2010: Okay, it's past August 12. How are you doing? I hope okay. ... (read in full...)
Do I dream of him because he is on my mind so much?
Q. Hey. I've fancied someone for a while now and I've been having lots of dreams about him because of this. I know this is normal because I think about him so much during the day. He (apparently) seems likes me too and it's become obvious to others ...
A. 5 August 2010: What I want to know is why are you not acting on these feelings? That's what you need to be doing, and not dreaming all of the time. You two like each other, tell him. You're driving yourself insane. You could be meeting him lips to lips and not ... (read in full...)
How can I prove to her that I can be friendly and extroverted?
Q. Ok, in a nut shell, my girlfriend broke up with me and went to study abroad. On her return i went to her and told her how much i loved her and how i really felt. She had it in her mind that she was going to say no but now she is unsure. She still ...
A. 5 August 2010: In general, how is your personality? Are you introverted or extroverted? What you need to watch out for is what I call wearing the mask, which is to put yourself off as someone you're not. That's because it's not fair to her, or to you if you do. ... (read in full...)
ADHD and need relationship advice
Q. I am 26 years old, and am in a relationship for the first time. I recently was diagnosed with ADHD, and am currently on medication for this condition. Largely because I have ADHD, and have no previous relationship experience, I am very, very naive. ...
A. 2 August 2010: First you need to not treat yourself as if ADHD is an abnormality. We are wired differently, in our scattered brain thinking and in how we do things. We might do differently, but the same end result is reached.
You should tell her. Even with thi... (read in full...)
Any suggestions as to how we rekindle our love??
Q. Hi, My girlfriend and I are at a point in our 3 year relationship where it is make or break. Things have been going slowly down hill for a while and the situation has come to a head. She is not sure of the extent of her feelings for me an...
A. 2 August 2010: Get back to the basics. You live together, but can't you two date as well? I'd recommend scheduling weekly time, away from the house, bills, work, life, and just focus on each other. I like date nights. You set it up one week, she does the next, and ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 2 August 2010: I know it's going to take time. Remember, I'm going through what you are, but from the opposite side. She was younger, I proposed, she accepted, then decided I'm not going to be part of her future goals. Trust me, I know exactly what you're going ... (read in full...)
Do you tell your husband when you have cheated?
Q. I had an affair 3 years ago with a man I thought I loved. I was so messed up from it I slept with another man just to get over the man I was in love with. I have been married to my husband for over 20 years and have not slept with anyone else! It ...
A. 2 August 2010: Telling your husband is would generally be the right thing to do. You do this because it releases guilt, and it allows for forgiveness and healing.
Under the circumstances, I'd say your husbands life is more important than this need for forgiven... (read in full...)
Guy keeps trying to contact my girlfriend
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title: Hey people, So me and my gf been back together for almost 2 months after a breakup and things are so far going okay. But the guy she was talking to during the breakup still from time to time tries to call and text her. An...
A. 30 July 2010: Okay, when she says it's stopped, but the it has not, and you bring it up again, does she say it's stopped then as well? I would actually wonder if they are still communicating, not to say that her intent is the same as his, but if that ... (read in full...)
Enjyong sex but not squirting like rest of girls
Q. OP's own title: hi, i do sex even i enjoyed it a lot we both satisfy each other but the thing is i never squirt like the way i saw on different videos n clips i want too squirt like that n even i do masturbate my self but never had that sort of lots...
A. 30 July 2010: Do you think these video's are reality? Don't place your expectations in comparison with porn. I don't know how squirting happens. I do know that when I give a girl an orgasm, no matter how intense it may be, I've never experienced one squirting ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 30 July 2010: I know what you're going through. I was with someone who was also younger than I was. You put your faith and trust in someone, but you also have to realize that with the difference in your age, was he looking for what you were looking for. It seems ... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis?
Q. I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...
A. 13 July 2010: Sounds like you're on the right track. Congrats on the improvements you have made. I'm beginning to learn to "live in the now." This means that in every moment of right now, you can choose how you feel and what you think. If your thought doesn't ... (read in full...)
I'm scared that I'm either going to go crazy or just die from a broken heart!
Q. I'm so lost I don't even know what to ask. I am about to go crazy because I've been so sad for so long. Loneliness, feelings of worthlessness, and sadness are destroying me and I don't have anyone to talk to. I don't want to burden my friends and ...
A. 21 June 2010: You need to first stop this negative self talk. You are not unworthy. Part of our make up is the desire to be loved, and the ability to love. It's our nature, and that nature did not skip your development. What will keep you from it, is belief that ... (read in full...)
We broke up, we keep in touch as I insisted but he treats me badly. Any help?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me 1 month and a half ago. We were both pretty new to dating (he was virgin, not me though because I was engaged before but I rarely saw the guy and the relationship was very abusive) I loved him dearly but I did some stu...
A. 20 June 2010: Congrats on earning your masters. That's quite an accomplishment.
Some view the behavior you don't want to be judged for, as playing games. Do you think his playing games may be as a payback for when you two were together before? I don't believe ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is great, except for her past
Q. I know other people have had similar issues so I'm hoping maybe someone can help and suggest ways to deal with it. My fiancee and I have been together almost a year, she means everything to me and I truly do love her. Anyway, she is the first person ...
A. 20 June 2010: Realizing that she had a life before the two of you got together. Focus on what the two of you have, not her past. Think of it this way. She was depressed, and used "attention" from sexual acts to cover or mask her feelings. You're depressed because ... (read in full...)
I'm lost and destroyed by the lies of our post baby life, but still love her..what would you do?
Q. I am lost. The past two months have been the worst in my life. For these two months my wife and i have not lived at the same place. It was forced upon us. About a week after i was gone my wife just put her fiendness in full throttle. Now times have ...
A. 20 June 2010: You two need to open up dialogue. Let her know that you two need to talk. Things need to change. Your relationship cannot continue the way it is going. Set a time for this talk. Have her bring a list of things she feels need changed, and you do the ... (read in full...)
She kissed another guy
Q. my gf and i have been dating for 16 months and she met his guy a few days ago a her summer theatre thing an now he wont stop bgging her about a kiss and a couple days ago he stared tuching her like on the waist and butt and this pissed me off. i ...
A. 20 June 2010: I won't say if you should leave or not. Her behavior, kissing someone so they will remain friends? What if he wanted more than just a kiss for friendship? I really don't buy the excuse allowing to remain friends. That just doesn't sound realistic. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is abusive and has raped me more than once! How do I get myself and my children out?
Q. For those that dont judge...rape...i was just raped by my boyfriend of 3 years. We have 2 sons together. One that is 6 years old and another who is 2 and a half. We had a few drinks (him a lot and myself a few). He wasnt okay with me saying no to ...
A. 19 June 2010: You need to be firm with yourself that (1) You DO NOT deserve to be abused, (2) Your kids DO NOT deserve to be raised in an abusive environment. You keep going back, so what's so different now? What is missing in you that makes you keep re-entering ... (read in full...)
Could I have gotten an STD?
Q. Last Saturday night I met a cute guy at a club. We danced and drank until closing and I got pretty buzzed. He offered me a ride home and when we got in his car, I went down on him. I never did that to a strange guy before and when he finished I ...
A. 14 June 2010: a majority of STD are contacted by intercourse and not oral sex. I don't think you have much to worry about, but if you do notice changes, such as discolored discharge, etc. get checked. I have heard of rare occasions where someone contracts from ... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis?
Q. I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...
A. 6 May 2010: You didn't waste 30 years, just have a chance at beginning the next 30 years new. Reminds me of a county song, by Tim McGraw, "In the Next 30 Years." I know from 30 on, my life is different, and more exciting. I was drunk a majority of the time from ... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis?
Q. I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...
A. 5 May 2010: What I see is that you're childhood was somewhat trying to hold everyone together. When did you have time to be a kid yourself and grow up as a child with others who took care of you, instead of you taking care of their needs?
The things you witn... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis?
Q. I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...
A. 5 May 2010: Anytime you can open up and say, "I have something wrong" is a plus, and is facing it. Before going further, I have a few questions for you to answer.
1) With the girl you broke it off with: What was your reason for ending it? How was the relation... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 12 August 2009: These feelings are not perverted. Whoever you begin a relationship with is about you. Not about hurting family. ... (read in full...)
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