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anonymous
writes:after i picked out my dress, and we found a venue, my fiance broke up wit me. it was 2 days ago when it happened. he said we can live together n have kids together but he doesnt wanna get married. when i told him im not willing to shack up wit him, he broke up wit me and said he will ask me to b his gf sometime next yr. im so confused. i need advice on how not to b so angry to the point i wanna go across country jus to kill him(hes a marine). please help.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 August 2010):
 Sell the dress. Cancel the venue and move on. DO NOT fall for his crap again. Find someone who has the same values and beliefs as yourself.
And I'm sorry he's a douche.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): Just dump the moron and move on? You would be her sex cow and nothing else. Is this what you want? The guy is not serious in the least and why should you suffer for a guy who does not deserve you and never will?
Do not settle for ANYTHING other than a good marriage. Find yourself a worthier man who'll commit for a lifetime, there are a few out there so start searching!
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reader, rcn +, writes (20 August 2010):
 no going off and killing anyone. it's his loss. wants to just shack up, and wants to ask you to be his girlfriend next year, as if you are there to wait for him, for when he's ready to accept you. That's wrong. You need to find someone who will respect you for you. Okay? Even a year down the road, I can't say that he'd be the one who's going to do that. It's time to move on.
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