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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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When a man is aroused by a sex scene in movies or porn, is it due to the beauty of the woman or the act of sex?
Q. When a man is aroused by a sex scene in a movie or a porno, is it because of the amazing beauty of the individual woman or the act of sex itself? Thanks....
A. 8 September 2008: Well, I respect Replacement's opinion, but seeing pretty women is not dull :-). Seeing women, pretty or not, isn't :-).... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend cums on my vagina, can I get pregnant ?
Q. I'm a virgin and want to know, if my boyfriend cums on my vagina can I get pregnant even though my hymen isn't broken? Thanks ...
A. 8 September 2008: For the sake of the person who asked: hymens are not tight seals. Most have a small opening and sometimes more than one. So, if you have heavy petting and semen falls on the vulva, I would suspect, Mother Nature being the way she is, that some ... (read in full...)
When a man is aroused by a sex scene in movies or porn, is it due to the beauty of the woman or the act of sex?
Q. When a man is aroused by a sex scene in a movie or a porno, is it because of the amazing beauty of the individual woman or the act of sex itself? Thanks....
A. 7 September 2008: When you watch a movie, or when you make love, you can be aroused by either the beauty or the act of sex itself, or, some great times, by both. I would say, however, that, if you had to choose one, the act itself would be more arousing. It's no ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is jealous for me looking at nudity in (not-porn) movies!
Q. I've been dating a girl for 6 months, and we have had a good relationship, however she gets extremely jealous and can't stand that I've seen movies or anything with nudity in them. I'm not talking about porn, I don't watch it because I only want to ...
A. 7 September 2008: I think the question you ask yourself is the one answer to your problem. Yes, she needs to find someone who doesn't watch TV, or the movies, or magazines, or ads along the road, et cetera. Whether we want it or not, sex, or the suggestion of it, ... (read in full...)
Why do women always want their men for themselves only, if it's known that men like "variety"?
Q. Hello, I've noticed a lot of porn related questions from females lately. The age-old question is "Why does he like to look at other women when he has me?". And the answer is difficult... Well, now I have a less common question. I'm a woman m...
A. 7 September 2008: I guess that all I can say is this: if you truly love someone, usually you want that someone to be committed to you, and you only. If it were not this way, cheating would not bring the pain it does.
I also want my woman to be for myself only. A... (read in full...)
I know it's wrong but I just can't resist this man. Please help me!
Q. hi I hope i am nt bothering u much with my promblem u anwered my question on 26th august which had a heading "what happen to my romantic life"....?I just wanted your valueable suggestion on my lastest situation, I tried to keep this man away fro...
A. 7 September 2008: This is a matter of personal choice and will. If you know this is not convenient to you, then you need to do as reason suggests. However, I know it's hard to do as your head says, and why.
There's not much anyone can do if you don't really w... (read in full...)
Should I worry that we have sex all the time?
Q. Me and my fiance have sex all the time. We love eachother and would die for one another, what we have is something special. We werent always like this. I was afraid to kiss her for the first 3 months we dated and after that i was terrified of sexual ...
A. 7 September 2008: Accept it as a blessing that came to you like manna from the Heavens. Cherish it while it lasts. ENJOY, MAN!!!! If you wish, we can trade problems, will you? Let me worry about sex all the time...... (read in full...)
How do shy girls like to be asked out?
Q. This may have been asked a million times but I still haven't found the proper advice, even after searching the web. I'm thinking of asking someone out but I have absolutely no idea how to (without her thinking it's going out just as friends). I know ...
A. 7 September 2008: Chippymunk, I guess that the shy one here is yourself. The right question is not how she would like to be asked out, which would be anybody's guess, but, instead, how you would ask her out.
I don't like the fact that you e-mailed her and she didn... (read in full...)
I slept with him hoping we'd get back together, does that work?
Q. I just dont know what to do anymore, i think that im over my ex then i see him with another girl and i fall apart. we broke up more than a year ago but we slept together a while ago and i thought this might mean that we could get back together..I ...
A. 7 September 2008: Sorry, I think that, if he wanted to be back with you, he'd already be doing something.... (read in full...)
I slept with him hoping we'd get back together, does that work?
Q. I just dont know what to do anymore, i think that im over my ex then i see him with another girl and i fall apart. we broke up more than a year ago but we slept together a while ago and i thought this might mean that we could get back together..I ...
A. 7 September 2008: A difficult part of breaking up and moving on is that we need to consciously say no to what we so desperately want. However, we need to do it, and that is in our best interest. This is what you have to do. You have to accept that he isn't coming ... (read in full...)
Am I Stupid or What. I really need all your opinions?
Q. Am I Stupid or What. I really need all your opinion? I've been seeing this guy for 7 months now and he lives in Sarasota and I'm in Ft.Lauderdale. I met him down here and when he was here he never wanted to leave my side. Eventually he told me he wa...
A. 7 September 2008: The F with this guy is that he's just using you and doesn't care about you. I am very sure of this comment I will make: run for the hills. Never, ever take a call from him, never ever give in to seeing him, and a long et cetera. Stay away from ... (read in full...)
Everytime I try to explain things to her she accuses me of calling her slutty.
Q. Hello everyone! Ok so my ex an i broke up like a month and a half ago due to long distance, (she decided she didnt love me anymore). Anyways she was the love of my life and always made me feel good with comments about wanting my children and ...
A. 7 September 2008: With all due respect, and out of my own personal experience here, sometimes the advice you don't want to hear is the right advice to give you. We wouldn't help anyone if we just whispered the sweet nothings they want to hear.
Since you have add... (read in full...)
Scared she'll tell people about my circumcised penis!
Q. I am a 15 year old male and circumcised, me and my friend want to have sex for fun but im scared she will tell everyone about my penis please help?...
A. 7 September 2008: You have received a lot of advice, but let me just add a bit. MILLIONS of men are circumsized all over the world, and many millions more have been circumsized since time immemorial. This is the first time I hear that someone makes fun of a ... (read in full...)
My fiance doesn't always cum -i need some advice
Q. my fiance and I are currently in a long distance relationship so we're just seeing each other every after 3 months and we spend one week together. Between that time we always do a lot of sex and he could cum at least 3x a day for a week. But ...
A. 7 September 2008: The heart of the problem here is that you think that he's sleeping around. I can't tell you if he is, but, please give him the benefit of the doubt.
You can't ejaculate huge amounts forever :-). Testicles produce a given amount of sperm a day, a... (read in full...)
Everytime I try to explain things to her she accuses me of calling her slutty.
Q. Hello everyone! Ok so my ex an i broke up like a month and a half ago due to long distance, (she decided she didnt love me anymore). Anyways she was the love of my life and always made me feel good with comments about wanting my children and ...
A. 7 September 2008: I think she's sleeping with other guys because she needs sex (quite naturally), isn't getting it from you (because of the distance) and the long-distance relationship is not for her. This kind of relationship takes a lot more than a traditional ... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend cums on my vagina, can I get pregnant ?
Q. I'm a virgin and want to know, if my boyfriend cums on my vagina can I get pregnant even though my hymen isn't broken? Thanks ...
A. 7 September 2008: I think we should need clarify a point :-). Your vagina is the opening that leads to your cervix. It seems to me that your real question is whether you can become pregnant if your boyfriend ejaculates on your vulva, which is the outer organs. ... (read in full...)
I still can't reach an orgasm with a partner, please help!
Q. Ok, so I'm 29 years old and I've only seriously been with 2 sexual partners, both of whom I've been pretty comfortable with in bed. My concern is that I can't have an orgasm. They both tried to give me one orally and through manual stimulation, ...
A. 7 September 2008: This is very good advice:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/advice-to-young-men-about-young-women.html... (read in full...)
She'd had enough of me being depressed, and during our doldrums she cheated. Now we want to save our marriage but she is too resigned, maybe remorseful, to take us seriously?
Q. Hi everyone. Forget the last dilemma - that's all sorted out. Things are worse now... About three months ago my wife and I talked about splitting, after 17 years together, eight of them married. She'd had enough of me being depressed, going...
A. 6 September 2008: This is your marriage and your life and you know best what to do. I sincerely wish you the best. Getting back the girl you adore is something we all want.
All the best.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a woman makes the motion to touch you but then stops?
Q. I have a question about this female friend that I am attracted to, although I am already in a relationship with another woman. When she is talking to me, she sometimes goes out to touch me but then stops just before. In one conversation, this ...
A. 6 September 2008: If this three or four attempts to touch you is all you have to think she's interested in you, then most likely she isn't. This seems like a good friend and nothing else.
Now, if you have more than this, please tell us, and perhaps we can help you... (read in full...)
She'd had enough of me being depressed, and during our doldrums she cheated. Now we want to save our marriage but she is too resigned, maybe remorseful, to take us seriously?
Q. Hi everyone. Forget the last dilemma - that's all sorted out. Things are worse now... About three months ago my wife and I talked about splitting, after 17 years together, eight of them married. She'd had enough of me being depressed, going...
A. 5 September 2008: I'm truly sorry to be of this opinion, but it seems to me that your wife doesn't want to stay married anymore, and I think you will end up splitting.
From your post, I see that you've been trying hard to save the marriage, but it hasn't worked o... (read in full...)
Do men who don't watch porn exist or should I give up and stay single?...
Q. when I commit to a special man I hope to be his only and for him to get his sexual arousal from my body alone...is this too much to ask.....I cant imagine ever needing to look at another mans body for arousal once commited....and I cant imagine ever ...
A. 5 September 2008: You brought several ideas to the table.
Expecting your man to be committed to you is fine. But, expecting that he might never ever get aroused by seeing another woman is unreal. All people have eyes and sexual desires and they are supposed... (read in full...)
Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. What should I do?
Q. I was talking to this guy and things got pretty hot and heavy for a while. Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. Said he'll call and take 4 days to call me back. I took it as a hint he wasn't interested so I moved on. Then he calls ...
A. 5 September 2008: One problem here is that you don't know whether to move on, since he doesn't seem to make up his mind, or to wait "just a little more", because he might. You don't know if time is on your side or not.
I'm not sure whether talking directly... (read in full...)
We had a little unprotected sexual activity, and I'm scared.
Q. Ok first off i'm 16 and my girlfriend spent the night i snuck into her room i fingered her a little bit then stuck my penis unprotected in going in and out only for a minute or so. She got sick one morning but thats it felt fine in the afternoon. im ...
A. 5 September 2008: You know that sex sometimes leads to pregnancy, and, some unfortunate times, to sexually transmitted diseases. If you want to have sex, use a condom. That way you won't be scared, you won't get the girl pregnant, and you will spare yourself most ... (read in full...)
Poll Question: Would you rather hear a lie that brought a smile or a truth that brought a tear?
Q. im curious.. which would you rather?.... poll question :) a lie that brings a smile? or the truth that brings a tear?...
A. 5 September 2008: Oldersister, would it be too much to ask for love, fame, money AND truth?... (read in full...)
Poll Question: Would you rather hear a lie that brought a smile or a truth that brought a tear?
Q. im curious.. which would you rather?.... poll question :) a lie that brings a smile? or the truth that brings a tear?...
A. 5 September 2008: The truth, always.... (read in full...)
Can you help me figure out my conception date?
Q. If my last period was on November 20-29th(not sure the exact day) and i gave birth on August 19th to twin girls both weighing 6pds, could i have conceived on December 15th? I know i need to get a DNA test between 2 men. I was with one guy for the ...
A. 5 September 2008: Mother Nature enjoys producing grey areas and timing, so I'm afraid that it's impossible to give you a definite answer. But, I understand you could be pregnant by any of the two men. I understand that pregnancy lasts approximately 270 days, which ... (read in full...)
Desperate for parenting advice when should one mom tell the other mom her dauighter is sleeping around
Q. my daughters best friend is 15 and she recently lost her virginity. after missing her period, my daughter asked me to buy a pregnacie test so I did. Well thank god she wasnt pregnant!! I did not tell her mom I gave her the mom lecture about what I ...
A. 4 September 2008: Oh, by the way. I don't think any of us should believe a teen-ager if s/he says s/he won't have sex again. Sex is too powerful a force.... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that my two best friends are dating each other?
Q. Hi....My best female friend is dating my best male friend...is there anything i should worrie about? She thinks im mad and He wont talk to me. thanks...
A. 4 September 2008: Why should you worry?
Are you not telling us something?... (read in full...)
Desperate for parenting advice when should one mom tell the other mom her dauighter is sleeping around
Q. my daughters best friend is 15 and she recently lost her virginity. after missing her period, my daughter asked me to buy a pregnacie test so I did. Well thank god she wasnt pregnant!! I did not tell her mom I gave her the mom lecture about what I ...
A. 4 September 2008: People who know me in this site also know I'm usually direct, perhaps blunt when speaking. So, I will spill the beans, but please, poster, believe me I mean no harm: Whether that girl has sex or not is none of your business. I know that you want ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to fantasize about other men when you're in a healthy relationship?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years and he treats me really well. Im 21 and he is 25. The only problem is that i sometimes dream and think about having sex with other men, i really dont know why this is. We have a healthy sex life so its not ...
A. 4 September 2008: "Normal" is a tricky word to define. Let's not use it. These kind of things come to all women's minds. You still have eyes and sex drive and you can find other men attractive as well. If you don't act on that, I think it's safe to say that ... (read in full...)
Could a sperm survive outside my penis even after I wipe it away?
Q. I have a problem and i need some answers..My girlfriend and I were messing around and she gave me a handjob and when i came, we whipped it away with a paper towel and started to have sex..I am just wondering if sperm can live after it is whipped ...
A. 4 September 2008: If she had her period, you got lucky. Just don't do this again.... (read in full...)
Do guys care how a vagina looks like?
Q. okay so ive just been watchin this documentry called the perfect vagina and baslicly its a woman makin a documenntry goin round and explorin vaginas lol, shes been askin men if the way a vagina looks puts them off sex and the amount that have said ...
A. 4 September 2008: I don't think people will find me odd if I say that the first reaction a vagina causes in a man is a desire to have sex :-). Whether it looks "good" or "bad" would be the second or third idea, maybe, and I agree with Double M that we men wouldn't ... (read in full...)
Could a sperm survive outside my penis even after I wipe it away?
Q. I have a problem and i need some answers..My girlfriend and I were messing around and she gave me a handjob and when i came, we whipped it away with a paper towel and started to have sex..I am just wondering if sperm can live after it is whipped ...
A. 4 September 2008: If you have sex after someone masturbates you, your body is still capable of ejaculating again. So she could be pregnant, yes. Next time, don't put semen anywhere near her vagina if you don't want to get her pregnant.... (read in full...)
Is Sarah Palin a suitable candidate for VP?
Q. [Part of a DearCupid series on the forthcoming Nov 08 presidential election] Sarah Palin, John McCain's choice for vice-president, is a strict anti-abortionist, pro-guns and against sex-education. Her 17 year old daughter is now pregnant. ...
A. 3 September 2008: I know about much worse people who are in power now, in several countries. I propose an exchange: you give me your Gordon Brown and Sarah Palin, and I will give you one or two of our guys. Or I might feel generous and will give you the whole ... (read in full...)
Should we end this relationship, because we are cousins, we are in love, but don't know what to do, please help?
Q. Hi, well here's the deal. I never had contact with my father's family until this summer, in other words i never met them before. After 3 weeks spending everyday with my aunt(my father's sister), his husband and my two cousins, my cousin and i found ...
A. 24 August 2008: Marrying your cousin is not illegal in Mexico. I know that, at least some time ago, some pre-nuptial analyses were necessary for any couple to marry, but I'm not sure if these were for sexually transmitted diseases only. All I know is my parents ... (read in full...)
I'm getting brown spots on my forehead. What could they be?
Q. I would appreciate it if any specialists or dermatologists can help with this one. I am really desperate. Please help. I am an attractive young girl aged 31, and up until 3 years ago I had perfect, flawless skin. Now, over the last year I developed ...
A. 24 August 2008: Many people blame stress for everything, and that sometimes obscures the truth that stress DOES have a terrible effect on a number of real diseases. This can be your case, indeed.
If Retin A removed the spots, why don't you just keep using it... (read in full...)
I'm getting brown spots on my forehead. What could they be?
Q. I would appreciate it if any specialists or dermatologists can help with this one. I am really desperate. Please help. I am an attractive young girl aged 31, and up until 3 years ago I had perfect, flawless skin. Now, over the last year I developed ...
A. 24 August 2008: They might indeed be liver spots, and, if they are, Irish 49's advice is as sound as always. I found this in Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liver_spot
In that article, they point out that, if the spots are too bad, they can be removed ... (read in full...)
Does my husband want to live like a real couple? He's in another country...
Q. we are together more than 6 years i met him somewhere in indonesia i am western. i bring him to my country 1 and a half year ago and we married but no job for him there because of the language. we started fighting until the day my mother told him to ...
A. 23 August 2008: A singer from Argentina once sung that "if you need to keep an eye on her all the time, she isn't YOUR wife". I suppose the same can be said of this case. If he won't come your way, willingly, then he doesn't feel any commitment. He is out living ... (read in full...)
He seems to have lost interest since he found out I wasn't pregnant.
Q. How after 2 yrs of dating can a guy just not love someone? Months before the break up we thought I was prego and he told his family and closest friend he was excited, then found I wasnt he seemed bummed. Now he wont talk to any of his close family ...
A. 23 August 2008: Something is the matter here, but I'm not sure what. I can only speculate.
I smell something here. Maybe he was fine with dating you but wasn't thrilled at the idea of being a father. Now that he knows you're not pregnant, he feels he's off... (read in full...)
Why are people so stressed and miserable?
Q. Why is everybody I see always so stressed and miserable? You only get one life,and its way too short to be anything but happy.why dont people realize this?...
A. 23 August 2008: Because living is something we learn by doing, and only too often we don't do things the right way, or we refuse to learn from our numerous mistakes.... (read in full...)
I'd really like to go to her forbidden place...any opinions??
Q. I am looking for opinions here. I have been with my wife for 10 years, total. I have always wanted to have anal sex with her, but she has said only on one condition: She wants to do me first with a strap on dildo. She thinks the idea of a guy ...
A. 23 August 2008: My opinion is that your wife wants you to give up on anal sex by "showing you" what it feels. She knows you won't accept what you're suggesting.
I guess it's time to throw the towel and give up anal, dude!... (read in full...)
What is a vagina suppose to look like?
Q. I just turned 18, and I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. Recently we have began to get really touchy and and intimate, but I haven't had sex im still a vigin and so is he. I've never seen his "penis" and he's never seen my "vagina" nor has he ...
A. 23 August 2008: My praise to Double M for his answer. No one could say it better.... (read in full...)
Should I stay with a good thing or would it be wise to move on because of the age difference?
Q. I could really use some good advice. I'm a 24 yr old college student. I've bounced around in a few relationships over the past few years, none of which lasted very long. About a year ago, I hooked up with an older woman (she's 43). I basically did ...
A. 22 August 2008: I'm not surprised you found this 43-year old a great woman (they are great), just as it doesn't surprise me you started it for the sex. Let me exaggerate a bit: maybe you thought that, well, what the hell, the granny was hot and willing, and then ... (read in full...)
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