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36-40,
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writes:How after 2 yrs of dating can a guy just not love someone? Months before the break up we thought I was prego and he told his family and closest friend he was excited, then found I wasnt he seemed bummed. Now he wont talk to any of his close family but his parents who dont like me cause I "stole" their only child. He came to get the rest of his things and wouldnt even look at me, came back for more and talked to my mother who he told everything was gonna be fine and he'd see her around. He wont even talk to me or tell me whats going on just keeps telling me he doesnt know. He went from basically living with me and my parents to now living with his 2 single friends and partying all the time. I just dont understand... what happened we seemed so happy and in love. He was constantly telling me he wanted to be with me forever and had never felt this way before. Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 August 2008):
 Something is the matter here, but I'm not sure what. I can only speculate.
I smell something here. Maybe he was fine with dating you but wasn't thrilled at the idea of being a father. Now that he knows you're not pregnant, he feels he's off the hook, and is out partying and living the life of a single man. An alternative, which might be just your case, is that maybe he did love you but didn't like the idea of being a father. I assume he's about your same age.
Many families feel that a woman "steals" the young man. I've seen it happening when the young man is "the family jewel" (pun intended).
I know you're in pain because he left, but you're better off without him, believe me. Either he didn't like the idea of being a father, and ran away the minute he got the chance to do it, or is whimsical and wanted a child NOW, as you would want a pizza or something. You need someone better.
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