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writes:my fiance and I are currently in a long distance relationship so we're just seeing each other every after 3 months and we spend one week together. Between that time we always do a lot of sex and he could cum at least 3x a day for a week. But recently, while we are spending our week together after a months of separation.. he didn't cum for two days but was always hard. He arrived here Sunday and hes been cumming nonstop til wed, but he stops cumming from thursday to saturday.. then sunday he came through jerking and he was surprised that he did because he was feeling drained. Though he told me that it's not me but it's him.. still i feel bad when i cant make him cum when we do sex. Should we not do sex everyday?I feel bad when i don't make him cum because I think that I'm not enough for him and I'm not doing it good... plus he always cums on first few days. I can't help but to think.. would he cum for other girls? what if he was fucking other girls... would he cum? it is really making me feel bad about myself. I need a good advice! thank you!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 September 2008):
 The heart of the problem here is that you think that he's sleeping around. I can't tell you if he is, but, please give him the benefit of the doubt.
You can't ejaculate huge amounts forever :-). Testicles produce a given amount of sperm a day, and that's it. You ejaculate more when you've not had sex in some time, but the second time the amount of semen needs to be smaller, and so on, to the point where there is just a little of it (it is never absolutely dry).
But this is not the real problem. What you really mean is that he's not having an orgasm after some days of lovemaking. I can't speculate why he's not, but, it takes longer to have an orgasm if you've already have several "the first few days". If he arrives on Sundays, and he has problems until Thursdays, we're talking that he's beginning to have some problems with his orgasms after twelve orgasms in a row. I don't think this is the definition of "problems having orgasms". Maybe he's just tired?
Long distance relationships are hard, because you need to trust "blindly". You also need to have a grip on yourself. Please check that you're not exaggerating, or that you're not simply worried about whether he will stay committed to you. By the looks of it, he is.
Hope this helps.
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