| Latest articles: For all women
This question has 6 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
Just some fun!
This question has 11 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
|
How do I give a really good hand job? I don't want to give oral.
Q. How do you give a fantastic mind blowing hand job? Or is it even possible? It use to take me like 2 minutes to get my bf finish now it takes upwards of 15 minutes...if it even happens. No oral involved in this....and there won't be so don't suggest ...
A. 29 July 2008: All right. I wasn't posting anything for you anyways. I'm responding to others who have thought they had to say things about me too. And, just as you don't care about me, well, I don't care about you either. Can you make this the end of it?... (read in full...)
How do I give a really good hand job? I don't want to give oral.
Q. How do you give a fantastic mind blowing hand job? Or is it even possible? It use to take me like 2 minutes to get my bf finish now it takes upwards of 15 minutes...if it even happens. No oral involved in this....and there won't be so don't suggest ...
A. 28 July 2008: That's exactly what I believe, porkchop. Advice from strangers about something you can ask your partner about? Have you ever tried communicating your sexual preferences with your sexual partner? And you're not exactly good at evading questions.... (read in full...)
How do I give a really good hand job? I don't want to give oral.
Q. How do you give a fantastic mind blowing hand job? Or is it even possible? It use to take me like 2 minutes to get my bf finish now it takes upwards of 15 minutes...if it even happens. No oral involved in this....and there won't be so don't suggest ...
A. 28 July 2008: Well, don't ask for opinions from anyone with internet access and knowledge of English if you don't want to hear and smell the farts coming out from assholes. By the way, imagine what life would be like if you didn't have an asshole.
I will spa... (read in full...)
How do I give a really good hand job? I don't want to give oral.
Q. How do you give a fantastic mind blowing hand job? Or is it even possible? It use to take me like 2 minutes to get my bf finish now it takes upwards of 15 minutes...if it even happens. No oral involved in this....and there won't be so don't suggest ...
A. 28 July 2008: Well, porkchop, you have a point, and then none. From this day on, when I have nothing to say about something, or think that this is not the place to say it, I will keep my mouth shut.
On the other hand, I have a question for you: if someone ... (read in full...)
My girl isn't keen on body contact, how can I deal with my sexual frustration?
Q. Hi everyone... I started going out with this girl around 2 months ago but before that we were really close and known each other for almost a year. Eventually we got together and we're both virgins. I really love her and I try my best to be a goo...
A. 28 July 2008: Novice, I hope you don't get my comment wrong, because I do not mean to be bad to you. But... it is very clear that you are INDEED hoping to have sex with your girl. And that is not wrong. Feeling like having sex with a woman is pretty natural.
... (read in full...)
How do I give a really good hand job? I don't want to give oral.
Q. How do you give a fantastic mind blowing hand job? Or is it even possible? It use to take me like 2 minutes to get my bf finish now it takes upwards of 15 minutes...if it even happens. No oral involved in this....and there won't be so don't suggest ...
A. 28 July 2008: I'm afraid that explanations in this regard should not be given here.... (read in full...)
How do men know we've decided on an open marriage when neither of us has said anything?
Q. my husband and i have started having an open marriage about 4 months ago. i haven't done anything with another man yet and my husband is eager for me to get started. i am too, but i am looking for the right man to be my first. i don't think i ...
A. 28 July 2008: I'm with the others who have said that women act in a way that lets you see they are available. That is the absolute truth. That is how other men have known you're available. They don't know about the open marriage; they know you're looking.
... (read in full...)
I've fallen for someone new. How can I let my current boyfriend down gently?
Q. been with my bf for nearli year and i really love him but ive got off with other lads behind his back and the latest lad ive met ive realli fallen for and we wanna be together,im going to tell my boyfriend bout us but hes just taken me on holiday ...
A. 27 July 2008: Poster, there is no way to do this "gently". It will always hurt, and a lot. However, breaking up with him, without giving him any hopes of ever going back, is the right thing to do. Do it. He will feel awful and so will you, but there's no ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy and sick for thinking my boyfriend is getting off with my kid's underwear?
Q. Hello I am very disturbed right now and need to get some feed back. Maybe I am crazy. I have been dating this guy for almost three years. Certain times I get the feeling that he has a sick sexual side. Besides the fact that we have major issues a...
A. 25 July 2008: Dear poster, it is true that sometimes you need hard evidence, but I don't think you need it in this case. The man is masturbating using your daughter's underwear. He might as well go on to molest her. There is indeed something very, very, very ... (read in full...)
She sees me through the week, someone else on the weekend. What do I do?
Q. I have been dating this woman off and on now for several weeks, things are great during the week, Now when the weekend comes she sees the guy that she use to like and doesnt know what to do, But yet she keeps telling me throughout the week she wants ...
A. 20 July 2008: Here is the help you need: forget about her. If she's not sure about you, who do treat her right, but is willing to see the other guy, who doesn't give her the time of day, then her priorities are very clear.
By the way, did you ever agree to... (read in full...)
I miss him and I'm lonely without him, but he has other women. Should I forget him or try to work it out?
Q. When I was 20 I moved away from my home town in Florida, started a professional career in Texas. About 6 years ago, when I was home visiting my father in Florida, a guy I grew up with told me he's always had a crush on me and wished I would move ...
A. 20 July 2008: I have the impression that I'm not getting all of the information.
In my opinion, if he complained about your interrogation, then
a) you TWO have kept things at a casual level so far, so he's right in not wanting to hear you complain,
or ... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong to make him only view me as a sexual partner?
Q. I have recently ended a long-term on again/off again relationship with a married man. It went on for 14 years. I finally broke it off with him -- for good. This all happened in the last month and I am still sad about the whole thing, though I ...
A. 20 July 2008: I think you should stop the contact with him. He seems to be interested in "virtual sex" only. Maybe not only "virtual", but he's not interested in a permanent relationship in which you will be his number one and his only one.... (read in full...)
I miss him and I'm lonely without him, but he has other women. Should I forget him or try to work it out?
Q. When I was 20 I moved away from my home town in Florida, started a professional career in Texas. About 6 years ago, when I was home visiting my father in Florida, a guy I grew up with told me he's always had a crush on me and wished I would move ...
A. 20 July 2008: From a man's perspective: just run for the hills. You can go to Florida if you need to take care of your father. Just don't move there for this guy, because, from his point of view, you're not in a relationship. You just have "good times" ... (read in full...)
I have strong urges to hurt him mentally, is this normal?
Q. I have a wondeful boyfiend and he loves me so much.I do love him and i know im extremly lucky to have him.I dont know why but for some reason i get irritated with him.Even when he hasnt said or done anything i just get this rage in me and i get ...
A. 20 July 2008: I don't think we can define this as "normal" or "abnormal". Those are slippery concepts.
There is always a reason for us to get this angry with someone. I think you need to dig deeper for it.
On the other hand, there is never a good reason to... (read in full...)
Is not bleeding after your first time normal?
Q. hi i am worried, if you do not bleed after having sex for the first time normal? so many of my friends said that after their first time they bled.. but i didnt and i havent used tampons either.. is this normal? ...
A. 20 July 2008: It's absolutely normal.... (read in full...)
Is getting seductive texts from an ex considered cheating?
Q. Does it mean a current boyfriend is cheating if he gets seductive text messages from an ex.... He claims he's not cheating.....this was just something stupid that happened.... I need help with this one....I trust him!!!!...
A. 19 July 2008: I think you need to consider the circumstances in which this is happening. Is she sending the texts, without his answering them, or responding to her provocations in any way? If this is the case, then it's not cheating. If she's sending him these ... (read in full...)
Is he holding back and being distant because of my race?
Q. Hey, Well I'm 15 and I'm dating this guy who is 16. We both really like each other. However, he is a bit distant with me. I know he's only 16 but he has slept with a few girls in the past, and it doesn't bother me because that's his past and I'...
A. 19 July 2008: Like you said, something might be holding him. But I'm not sure it's your race.
Also, I recommend that you never suppose what other person thinks. Ask. If you don't know what the problem is, really, you can never solve it, really.... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to have a threesome with a best friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 4 years now and I love him more than anything in the world. His very best friend lives in Canada and comes to visit every year at summer time. They are inseperable and are the best of friends. ...
A. 19 July 2008: I think I need to state my bias first: I wouldn't share my woman.
This, dear poster, is one of the cases when I read between the lines and take the post to mean more than just the words the poster wrote. Forgive me if I go too far in my trying t... (read in full...)
I worry that I am just something "to do" while he saves up the money to emigrate... help!
Q. Help!I have been seeing my boyfriend for about four and a half months before we met he spent a lot of time traveling around the world he keeps saying that in a couple of years he may go off for good as he does not want to settle down in England but ...
A. 18 July 2008: Your concerns do seem to have foundation. He may be sweet and nice, but he's saying something like "I'm happy now, but, if that were my wish later, I would just walk away. And you've been warned that I don't want to stay in England, so please ... (read in full...)
Can men just think of SEX without getting emotionally involved? Even knowing that person for a long time?
Q. Can any male reader tell me ,is it possible for a guy to get attracted to a friends wife and even u know her for almost 5 yrs ,and is this attraction is sheer physical or lil emotion is also there as he came close to me when I was low like hell and ...
A. 18 July 2008: It seems that what happened here is that a man took advantage of a moment when a married woman was feeling alone, slept with her, and now plays the "friend".
I think you're that person, poster. I'm sorry for you because it seems like he just use... (read in full...)
How do you know breaking up was the right thing to do?
Q. How do you know if you have done the right thing in breaking up with a long term partner? Ive been unhappy with our relationship for a while, (the things he does and doesnt do etc) but i have also been unhappy with myself for a while too. im no...
A. 18 July 2008: This is a very good question.
Sometimes, a relationship is very good and you end it, because you don't really appreciate what you had. Some other times, the relationship is very bad, but you stay in it because you fail to realize just how bad ... (read in full...)
I like this boy, he wants to have sex, he has genital warts, I am reluctant, can I get them by kissing him?
Q. Okay so I'm falling for this boy. We've been seeing each other for about 8/9 months, and I feel like this is a serious relationship.. however he's brought up doing sexual activities, because he's says he really loves me (wants to get married some...
A. 18 July 2008: You haven't been exposed to genital warts. However, you have done the right thing in NOT sleeping with him. Genital warts can be removed, but that doesn't necessarily kill the virus. You might not get it, but it's better not to try your (bad) ... (read in full...)
5 minutes and I'm gone...it's going to be a disaster with a woman
Q. HELP!, I ejaculate much to fast while masturbating! 5minutes in and I'm gone, I try resisting(like stopping altogether), This works only like two times. But then when iv stopped i can still feel the semen getting ready to come out, At this point...
A. 17 July 2008: It can be false, or true. Who cares?... (read in full...)
In a relationship for three years, broke up a month and a half ago, my ex has a new girlfriend, I wrongly thought that he would still love me, even after the breakup, I am sad, but I want to move on, need suggestions?
Q. So i found out last night that, my ex bf who i've dated for 3 years, has a new girlfriend now. We broke up around a month and half ago, and I am speechless. I am in a state of shock. I feel like, I'm not extremely sad, I am a little sad, i am hurt ...
A. 16 July 2008: Sometimes you still have feelings for someone, despite having broken up, and it hurts to know the person moved on. But you can't expect otherwise. What's the point of breaking up and living in loneliness forever? There's no difference, really, if ... (read in full...)
Divorced over my affair with a woman, decided to leave her, my ex-husband wants to remarry me, but he keeps throwing my past affair in my face, will a remarriage work, he works four weeks away and two weeks at home?
Q. should i remarry my exhusban? Divorced a year because of an affair i had with a female when we were married. Was with her for a year, she loves me, she bought a house for us, paid for all bills ect. i had a lot of family stop talking to me becuase ...
A. 16 July 2008: I think it won't work. You must be bisexual, and maybe you will want to have sex with another females in the future. He won't get over the embarrassment he felt when you left him for a woman. Maybe he does love you and wants you back, but, he ... (read in full...)
Was it wrong for him to do this?
Q. hi every body im 13 years old ... is this wrong? a boy held me down and kissed me asked for sex asked for pictures and then when my friend calls him he says he doesnt know me so i talked to him and hes like o i remember you and i was like duh and ...
A. 16 July 2008: Sure, dearest, that was awfully wrong.He forcibly got a kiss out of you, wanted sex from you (forcibly, again), wanted pictures, and then he denies knowing who you are and even calls you names.
He should be ashamed of what he did. You can walk... (read in full...)
We didn't use protection, but he pulled out. Could I be pregnant?
Q. umm, i had sex without protection and he pulled out of my vagina. after he pulled out i seen pre cum and real cum came out at the same time. but it didn't get inside of me. could i be pregnant if that happened ?...
A. 16 July 2008: Yes. Next time, use contraception.... (read in full...)
I'm trying to better myself for him, do you think he will come back to me?
Q. Hi everyone, Im in need of some advice... My boyfriend of about 6 months recently broke up with me... I think. We had been fighting, mostly on my behalf, and when we broke up he told me that he "didnt know" that he "just thought this wasnt worki...
A. 16 July 2008: Whether he comes back to you or not, don't give up on yourself, dear poster. You need help with these issues; get it, for your own benefit. If he comes back, that will be a plus. If he won't, you will have to move on, but your having a more ... (read in full...)
What are the principle characteristics, that women like in their choice of a dating partner, please be as honest as possible?
Q. I´m 23 years old. I`ve had my share of bad luck in love. I´m afraid I´ve been labled a boring 2nd choice when it comes to dating. I want the female readers to be very honest when they answer. What are the principal characteristics that would make a ...
A. 16 July 2008: Sorry Fade, I hadn't seen your post when I wrote this. Consider yourself included in my own post.... (read in full...)
What are the principle characteristics, that women like in their choice of a dating partner, please be as honest as possible?
Q. I´m 23 years old. I`ve had my share of bad luck in love. I´m afraid I´ve been labled a boring 2nd choice when it comes to dating. I want the female readers to be very honest when they answer. What are the principal characteristics that would make a ...
A. 16 July 2008: Birdy and Tisha are great aunts and you should always pay attention to what they say. I want to add my grain of sand.
Your question was open, and you were willing to receive any answer, but the points you wanted particular help with were body, ha... (read in full...)
Could he have lied to me about being a virgin?
Q. hi everyone, well my boyfriend and i already lost our virginity to eachother, i have heard from friends that girls arent the only ones who go thru the pain at that process... my boyfriend didnt go thru any pain but i did ALOT!!! i think the only ...
A. 16 July 2008: First time sex doesn't hurt for a man. You can't expect "pain" to be an indication of virginity.
Why is it important for you whether he was a virgin or not? Not that I'm criticizing you, and you don't have to say if you don't want to. I just w... (read in full...)
My fiancee had sex with another woman, I'm having a hard time dealing with this.
Q. This is crazy! My fiance' and I have been together for a number of years. We have kids together and life is just what it is, life. We have great sex and have had a threesome in the past and the topic has come up to have another and possibly ...
A. 16 July 2008: I have the feeling that what is troubling you is the logical progression: first she said she had sex with a woman, THEN she says the woman's husband and a male friend were watching, which is a whole different thing, THEN she tells you the husband ... (read in full...)
Could I be happy with two different girls?
Q. is it possible for me to happy with 2 different girls? without them knowing. i dont want to lose the girl im with now. and the girl in my past is someone close to me and i dont want to lose her either....
A. 16 July 2008: It is possible for you to be happy with two girls at the same time. That is also very wrong.... (read in full...)
5 minutes and I'm gone...it's going to be a disaster with a woman
Q. HELP!, I ejaculate much to fast while masturbating! 5minutes in and I'm gone, I try resisting(like stopping altogether), This works only like two times. But then when iv stopped i can still feel the semen getting ready to come out, At this point...
A. 16 July 2008: I wonder what "professional" means here, pal. Every man needs to learn to control his own ejaculation. Don't believe me, but evidence: if every girl dumped the clumsy guy, then no one would learn anything at all.
It can be fun!
I suggest you... (read in full...)
Can you catch genital warts if he wears a condom?
Q. Hello, just a quick one. Can you catch gentil warts from someone if they wear a condom? I am female and he is male. Its just that i have heard he has it but doesn't know... so obv. i want to be careful. t...
A. 15 July 2008: Unfortunately, yes. As of today, there's no way to protect yourself from human papilloma virus. I read that most people will get infected at some point in life. Usually the infection goes away without your noticing that anything happened at all. ... (read in full...)
5 minutes and I'm gone...it's going to be a disaster with a woman
Q. HELP!, I ejaculate much to fast while masturbating! 5minutes in and I'm gone, I try resisting(like stopping altogether), This works only like two times. But then when iv stopped i can still feel the semen getting ready to come out, At this point...
A. 15 July 2008: I forgot: Your masturbation won't ruin your sex life with a woman. But, believing that you just can't improve will.... (read in full...)
5 minutes and I'm gone...it's going to be a disaster with a woman
Q. HELP!, I ejaculate much to fast while masturbating! 5minutes in and I'm gone, I try resisting(like stopping altogether), This works only like two times. But then when iv stopped i can still feel the semen getting ready to come out, At this point...
A. 15 July 2008: You're doing it all wrong, pal.
The point of masturbating is having an orgasm, which in turn leads to ejaculation. I know you know this.
It seems you're trying to learn how to last longer, but, since a girl is unavailable (or whatever), you'r... (read in full...)
How do I fix my scruffy husband?
Q. My husband's choice of clothing has got scruffier and scruffier and I find it embarrassing being out and about with him. As well as that, he doesn't change with the seasons any more as he used to, but wears long sleeved shirt, trousers, thick socks, ...
A. 15 July 2008: I think some issues can't be solved if you drop hints. If his way to dress disturbs you, tell him directly.
I'm afraid, however, that he wil stick to his style. And maybe it wouldn't be a good idea for you to insist on this. He will say that... (read in full...)
Is she cheating? Where did she get that half-used box of condoms?
Q. Hi, I'm losing my mind, my relationship is strange now, we've been fighting a lot in the past 4months to 6months and mostly because of two things, 1time a month sex and she is always talking about hot guys who work with her and this weekend we add ...
A. 15 July 2008: Just finding the box of condoms would make me think a little, but it wouldn't be enough for me to think she's cheating.
However, if you add the fights and the fact that she's told you that she doesn't like sex, yet talks all the time about he... (read in full...)
Gut-wrenching attraction to another man - what do I do?
Q. I have been married for a year and have a 3 yr old son to my husband, I cant say that I have loved him since we have had our son, he is dificult, lazy and agressive and totally dependent on me, like a child. I work very hard in a very high pressured ...
A. 15 July 2008: You don't know what to do. You're not happy in your marriage, on the one hand, and you have found someone who feels just right, on the other. You need to go one direction or the other, and you don't have enough force to move in either direction.
... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my sister's relationship with an older man?
Q. Here's another question of does age really matter! My sister, whose almost 19, has recently started dating a 32 year old. I've never met him and neither has any of my family, but her good friend, whose 23 and also knows him and introduced them,...
A. 15 July 2008: I think your sister is old enough to mind her own business.... (read in full...)
Seriously - Would you cheat with a celebrity if it was safe?
Q. i need serious answers. Married or single women - if you could sleep with any hot celebrity you wanted to and there was no way in the world you could get caught would you cheat on your husband or boyfriend? Serious answers only please....
A. 14 July 2008: Seriously: whether another woman would cheat on her husband, or not, is no indication about what your wife would do.
You need to do the thinking about why your wife saying that touched that raw a nerve. Is there more to the story? That only you... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend's sexual history normal?
Q. Hi everyone, hoping someone could help me out a little here. This may seem odd, but I’m too shy to bring this up to any of my friends, for fear of sounding strange. I was never a guy who dated too much, and tended to keep to myself most of the t...
A. 14 July 2008: You're not silly, and you have to know that this is a question that keeps coming up every so often.
I could write a lot about this, but I guess all you need to do is look at your options:
1. You dump her because she did things before she met y... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: By the way, the girl who had a thing with Jean-Claude van Damme had real things with other guys. She was indeed testing the waters.... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: Diovan, you're going off-topic again, by making me the target of this post. All right, I can take it.
I will remember this post the next time someone comes up with the question of why her husband/fiancé/whatever looks at porn.... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: You know girls, you're not helping the man. Just mocking him.... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: Good point, Tisha-1. Why worry about the unattainable?
That said, good ol' Macchiavelli needs to give some help here. What if this is a testing of waters?... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: A girlfriend I had once used to say she had "a thing" with Jean-Claude van Damme. She used to praise his "manly virtues" in a very, er, descriptive way.
Now, I'm not match for Jean-Claude in the physical department. Working out would do no good.... (read in full...)
| *anielepew's friends
These are mutual friends, so *anielepew has
added them and they have added *anielepew!
|
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png){kind=small}
