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writes:hi I hope i am nt bothering u much with my promblem u anwered my question on 26th august which had a heading "what happen to my romantic life"....?I just wanted your valueable suggestion on my lastest situation, I tried to keep this man away from me the more kept him away from myself the more I wanted him.I know i am wrong in loving a married man bt my heart is nt understanding the difference between right and wrong . And last time when i met him after so long he demanded for sex again n I could nt refuse him bt I could nt really do it and he ended up fingering and i am really worried that how I'l say no n if i do nt i'll land up in more trouble.. pls help pls
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reader, angel81 +, writes (10 September 2008):
angel81 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I try my level best i feel helpless here u r talking abt year or six mths i find it tough for day to stay without him. It is nt only physical activties that has brought me close to him. As over a period of two yrs i am nt really left with much of frnds so he is the first person who clicks my mind. I don't deny from this point tht in intials mths of my relationship wid him was much better as he was loving , caring and so on.Bt with time it has become more demanding n some wat related to his and me getting hurt because he wants some thing which i can't gve and what i want he can not give. From few months he has hurt me alot as some time i am nt even really for any thing and he forcefully make me do such things which really break me. Bt i don't really know wat bond i am sharing with hime that i am nt able to leave him.pls pls suggest how can i really handle the situation
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reader, angel81 +, writes (9 September 2008):
angel81 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI try my level best i feel helpless here u r talking abt year or six mths i find it tough for days to stay without him. It is nt only physical activties that i bring me close to him... As over a period of two yrs i really do nt ve much of frnd so he is the first person who clicks my mind. I do nt deny from this point tht in intials mths of my relationship wid him was much better as he was loving , care and so on Bt with time it has always been some thing or the other realated to sex and so on........pls pls suggest how can i really handle the situation
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008): "And last time when i met him after so long he demanded for sex again"
Well, that certainly tells you all you need to know about what role you have in his eyes, doesn't it? He's married, he's got a nice, submissive bit on the side, and he sees you as a good sex outlet, not much more than that.
Seriously, it's time to have a good, unpleasantly frank look inside yourself and find out *Why* you're willing to say you love a man who behaves this way about you. Make CERTAIN you're not confusing the massive rush of new-man sexual energy with love; that's a SERIOUS mistake.
You're sexually addicted to this guy, and you need to do *whatever* is necessary to stay away from him for 6 months - one year. No contact of *any* kind. You need to wean yourself off this dependency, and *any* contact will just restart it. Sorry, this is going to be VERY HARD TO DO, but it's really the only way.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 September 2008):
 This is a matter of personal choice and will. If you know this is not convenient to you, then you need to do as reason suggests. However, I know it's hard to do as your head says, and why.
There's not much anyone can do if you don't really want to pay the price of not giving in to this man. Sorry, I wish I could say otherwise.
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