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writes:I am a 15 year old male and circumcised, me and my friend want to have sex for fun but im scared she will tell everyone about my penis please help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010): hey,there is nothing wrong with being circumcised a lot of people actually believe it makes the penis look more attractive and makes it better for hygiene reasons,what is it about being circumcised that really bothers you? do you not have a male friend who you can talk man things with?
as for your dilema well she probably wont even realise if you are have fun.
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reader, gass +, writes (30 May 2009):
I am circumcised and only like to go with boys that circumcised
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 September 2008):
 You have received a lot of advice, but let me just add a bit. MILLIONS of men are circumsized all over the world, and many millions more have been circumsized since time immemorial. This is the first time I hear that someone makes fun of a circumsized penis. Maybe it happens, but, so what? I do want to help you with this one by saying that this should perhaps occupy the very least of your concerns. Don't waste a nanosecond on this one.
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reader, pushpa  +, writes (7 September 2008):
I think your girl friend will not be able to differencitate between circumcised and uncircumcised penis if she has not been with any other, don't tell her about any thing.
Best wishes
Pushpa
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Hey man, i know how you feel. im pretty much in the same boat as you are- just STAY in that corner and we'll get along fine k? Yeah ive been circumsized and truly after reading everyones comments, (which i thank most of you greatly for) i feel quite a bit more reasured, except, im 17 :D and legal! :D
All i can say is: Take it slow, and get to know your friend, if she does share gossip 90% of the time, id keep him tucked away till you find someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008):
people at school make jokes about circumcised people.
and i always deny i have a circumcised penis, i dont want to embarrase myself.
If your girl friend really loved you, i really wouldnt think she would tell everyone about you.
im possitive you will be ok having sex.(if you use a comdom)
all you need to decide is. are you ready for sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): Why are you concerned that you are circumcised? It's noth-ing to be ashamed of and not uncommon. I don't know what herprior experiences have been, but many girls prefer to havesex, and particularly oral sex, with a guy who is circum-cised. But, cut or not, are you old enough for this?
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 What's wrong with having a circumcised penis? I am a woman and to be honest I would prefer a circumcised one, but that's a personal preference.Honestly it makes no difference. Secondly, If you have to worry about this you're either too young or not with the right person. In your case both. I don't think you should be having sex with your friend. As many have said here you should have sex with someone who cares about you romantically. That way you dont really have to worry about someone talking about your genitals. You could actually end up ruining your friend's relationship with yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007): darling, surely more men ARE circumcised than not? here in Aust anyway? honestly, Don't be worried, just have fun and just know, she is probably freaking out more about her bum-thighs-boobs and you will find them amazingly gorgeous. Sex is a great thing, millions of people enjoy it every day, no experience is the same, so just enjoy it...xxx
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reader, love-him +, writes (20 August 2007):
 umm rite bbe, its no big deal.. honestly there isnt a problem with it.. if she is your friend, why will she go and tell someone? if u are unsure then dont have sex with her.. trust her!! i hope i helped, mail me if u would like to talk x
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reader, broken babe  +, writes (20 August 2007):
 um its a half and half deal alot are and arent circumsized that shouldnt be a big deal and if shes your friend why would she go and tell people
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reader, Charlie84 +, writes (20 August 2007):
Don't rush sex. Wait for the right girl and the right time. You're young and should be enjoying other things in life, trust me! I rushed into it too young and had it for the first time with the wrong girl and I still regret it to this day. Sex is something you should share with someone you care about deeply when its for the first time. You two should feel comfortable and understand one another before hitting the sack. There are more things to life than just sex so just push past this and go enjoy life in other means.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007): Conversely are there benefits to circumcision? I don't think your girlfriend will mind either way - however if she is the kiss and tell type, or you suspect she is, maybe she isn't quite the person to be having sex with in the first place. Wait until you're with someone who you trust implicitly with your body - all of it - because it is vital that sex does not become something you feel ashamed of.... for whatever reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007): Hey, anonymous... Girls don't think penises are unattractive! WTF? I love looking at them and I've talked to many other women and men about them.
She will tell people about your penis. Count on it. If you can't deal with people knowing you're cut or uncut, you aren't mature enough to have sex.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (20 August 2007):
A lot of people are circumsized and a lot aren't...and ya know what? No one cares!
But sex with a friend for fun? Forget about it, this isn't a James Brown song. You should have sex for the right reasons, like love or wanting a child.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007): girls dont wanna hear about what your penis looks like. to girls - penis's are pretty gross looking and we dont enjoy looking at them or get an in depth description about them. i'm sure she wouldnt wanna talk about it. if she's smart she'll understand that some things are private business and that no one has to know what some kid's penis looks like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2007): Do you mean UN-circumsized?? Well it is not your fault how your penis is or isn't. And furthermore, everybody has got a chip on their shoulder about SOMETHING. Don't ever apologize for who you are. If you are worried that this girl is going to kiss and tell, in a mean way, then hold off for someone who you trust a little more. Furthermore, you might discover something about her that you find unattractive. Maybe she is really hairy. And if you have been watching porn, don't take your sex cues from porn. Like girls in porn shave their privates completely and howl like freakin morons, and I for instance DON'T do either. And it has never stopped me from getting guys and keeping them. Be yourself. Accept yourself. That might win you more points than a circumsized penis.
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reader, Mr Trom +, writes (19 August 2007):
Mate your only fifteen and kids of your age can be very hurtful and the things they do or say can cause problems for you in latter life. I agree with birdynnumnums. What's this girl Like, Is she a blabber Mouth? Does she talk about other people to her mates. How long have you been going together? Does she make you feel insecure? You obviously know more about her than us guys and girls. Think of these things before making your decision. Me I'd wait until you're that little bit older and wiser.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (19 August 2007):
 Sex should be shared with a person that you love and trust. If you have to worry about what someone thinks about your body parts, then you are sleeping with the wrong person or doing it for the wrong reasons. Wait a few years until you are totally head-over-heels in love with someone. It will be a much better experience, and you won't have any regrets over who you were with or how you lost your virginity. It only happens once. I can look back and remember fondly my first kiss and the first time I made love, and they both still bring a smile (a BIG one!). Considering that it's your choice and YOUR sex life - how do YOU want to begin it?
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (19 August 2007):
 if you are that worried about her saying something then dont do anything. but no matter what everyone your age that has sex will talk to other ppl about other guys dicks how big they are what they look like and ect. are you ready to get a job and support a baby? because that is what happens when you have sex wheather or not you use a condom, or other methods there is always that chance of having a baby. are you ready for that? think about it b4 you go and have fun!
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reader, Ileana +, writes (19 August 2007):
 OKay i know we're here to console you about your circumised penis, which by the way is nothing to be ashamed off. But the sex for fun got me! If you both really want to do it then okay, but be careful otherwise fun will end up changing Nappies and im sure that you will hate fun for the rest of your life. Plus your underage so just be careful.Email me if you wanna chat,LoveIleanaxxxx
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