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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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I hit my boyfriend as a joke, but he took it serious and he hit me back. Please, I truly need help!
Q. Well last night my boyfriend and I went to a party and got drunk. After that I hit his lower side, basically his balls. I did it in a joke a stupid one. After that he slapped me in my face and i started bleeding. I was so shocked because he never ...
A. 29 October 2008: Well, things turned out good. Just don't beat him again, down there or anywhere else.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my best friend her boyfriend slept with a prostitute?
Q. I have a small problem, I just found out my best friends boyfriend slept with a hooker. What should I do. If I tell my best friend, She will think I am trying to split them up (as I was not happy with getting together in the first place). If I don't ...
A. 13 October 2008: I agree, she may have been saved from a disease. This is unquestionable.
Question: What if the two of them agree to give it another try?... (read in full...)
I have a female foot fetish and want to lose it.
Q. Hey, I'm very young and I'm worried about a lot of things. This is going to sound weird but I have a female foot fetish and want to lose it because I don't like my attraction to female feet. Secondly I am worried about future relatioships and sex ...
A. 13 October 2008: I have a woman fetish :-). I like to look at women :-).
Why are you worried about future relationships and sex? Can you explain?... (read in full...)
All my new husband wants to do is save save save!!!
Q. Hi all, I'm having serious concerns... I recently got married to my 2 year boyfriend .. and we love each other a lot but my main concern is MONEY! ... He is a pilot and pretty well loaded... I just found out he has a bunch of money saved up in the ...
A. 13 October 2008: It's difficult to know why this is happening. It might be that
1) he's a real tightwad. Pilots make very good money anywhere, and Kuwait is not exactly a place where his profession would pay little.
2) you spend way too much
3) Both ... (read in full...)
I hit my boyfriend as a joke, but he took it serious and he hit me back. Please, I truly need help!
Q. Well last night my boyfriend and I went to a party and got drunk. After that I hit his lower side, basically his balls. I did it in a joke a stupid one. After that he slapped me in my face and i started bleeding. I was so shocked because he never ...
A. 13 October 2008: To Pokerpgh: I agree, you must not hit any woman. Just for the sake of asking, has anyone kicked you down there? Say, for example, your friends, in a "playful" manner? If someone has indeed done that to you, did it hurt? We're not talking about ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to answer if he were to ask me to marry him.
Q. How do I know if he is Mr. Right? We already dated for four and a half years and I don't know what to answer if he would aske me to marry him. We are both 26 years old....
A. 13 October 2008: Say "no". If you're not sure about him after four years, then I'm afraid you aren't really in love of him.... (read in full...)
I hit my boyfriend as a joke, but he took it serious and he hit me back. Please, I truly need help!
Q. Well last night my boyfriend and I went to a party and got drunk. After that I hit his lower side, basically his balls. I did it in a joke a stupid one. After that he slapped me in my face and i started bleeding. I was so shocked because he never ...
A. 13 October 2008: I disagree with you, dear poster: You don't need reassurance. You need someone to shake you, metaphorically. You didn't hit him playfully, and he didn't hit you back as a game, either. Something is the big matter with you two. There is a lot ... (read in full...)
Mens opinions needed! I saw pictures of his ex who had a really hot body and I can't understand why he wants to be with me!
Q. Ok so this is all my own fault, but it's really messing with my head. I've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months now, we took it really slow from the start, he didn't push for sex at all and in fact we've only been sleeping together for a ...
A. 12 October 2008: The man you describe sounds very, very happy to be with you. The problem is, I believe, that you're insecure about yourself.
While it is true that we look much at a woman's body, it's not true that is all we take into consideration. You obviousl... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin in my late 20's and scared of having sex with my girlfriend
Q. Hi I am in my late twenties, vigin, and got my first gf about 6 months ago. I love the girl but everytime I am just too nervous about having sex with her. I had a fear of losing erection when it comes to sex. When I attempted to have sex with her ...
A. 12 October 2008: Since you have a partner who is patient and willing to help you with your nerves, just dive into it and try. Whatever problem you have, you will solve it with time and patience.
Oh, I also need to mention you have an eager partner as well. P... (read in full...)
Why does she keep picking my spots??
Q. I've been seeing this hot chick for a while and we love each other to bits. However, she keeps scratching my spots off and it really hurts. I keep asking her to stop but she won't. What's wrong with her?...
A. 12 October 2008: I don't know. Give her some sandpaper and ask her to scratch HER spots. Maybe you can do it playfully: "Hey, since you like scratching so much, there you have, something that will give you the scratch of your life".
I suppose you can't find pie... (read in full...)
Do I tell my best friend her boyfriend slept with a prostitute?
Q. I have a small problem, I just found out my best friends boyfriend slept with a hooker. What should I do. If I tell my best friend, She will think I am trying to split them up (as I was not happy with getting together in the first place). If I don't ...
A. 12 October 2008: Good question. Your friend can get upset whether you tell her or not, and you don't know what the best course of action can be. In these kind of situations, I have found that most of the time the people prefer NOT to be told. It's not that they ... (read in full...)
Two different words who are forced to meet but can't
Q. hey.i am a christian girl,who has everything she wishes for ...that is a lie ,i love a muslim guy(love him more than i ever loved anyone)he is my boyfreind but people just want me to leave him (i have 19 boys chasing after me sendin me cards they r ...
A. 12 October 2008: Dear poster, you're right in saying that moving on is never that simple. But it can be done, specially when the other person just doesn't want to be with you.
I understand your pain. I can only advise you to move on. I have been where you're n... (read in full...)
Do some women prefer to deal with men at arms length?
Q. Good morning. I appreciate that all men are different and that all women are different. Could someone explain to me (in a work related context) why a woman would turn down one guy's approach face-to-face by saying 'let's just be friends' whereas she ...
A. 4 October 2008: I don't think there is one single answer for this way to reject someone's advances. If the woman resorted to HR, she may have thought she needed a strong ally (strong as in "I can get you fired"). But that tells us nothing about why the woman ... (read in full...)
Begging for help: pregnant and very broken.
Q. I feel very desperate I need help before I completely break down. It was love at first sight. And for 2years we had never experienced such immense happiness while being with someone. We really fell in love. We had all those typical talks th...
A. 30 September 2008: Sometimes we wish we found an umistakable sign that would tell us exactly how to act in a given situation. In matters of the heart, sometimes the signs are there but we don't see them because we don't want to. If you, dear poster, were sure that ... (read in full...)
Begging for help: pregnant and very broken.
Q. I feel very desperate I need help before I completely break down. It was love at first sight. And for 2years we had never experienced such immense happiness while being with someone. We really fell in love. We had all those typical talks th...
A. 30 September 2008: What do you want him back for?... (read in full...)
Begging for help: pregnant and very broken.
Q. I feel very desperate I need help before I completely break down. It was love at first sight. And for 2years we had never experienced such immense happiness while being with someone. We really fell in love. We had all those typical talks th...
A. 30 September 2008: I fully agree with Lazy Guy. The sooner you realize you're alone in this, the better, since you will be able to act, instead of just react or just letting things happen.
That idea of taking pills was a very bad one, by the way. I don't think he... (read in full...)
Is my husband's overnight meeting anything to worry about?
Q. I have recently found an e.mail from a female colleague of my husband who asked him if he got back safely from a recent meeting where he stayed overnight. Do you think this is anything to worry about considering he said she wasn't even there?...
A. 30 September 2008: It is hard to tell, but it does seem odd that she would worry about his going back safely if she wasn't there. It doesn't sound like something most people would do.... (read in full...)
What does this girl want from me? Can anyone tell me?
Q. hello, i have a problem with some girl that i dont know: i went to new school and this girl in that school i just dont know her but she is always with a girlfrein of her in school. the story is when she sees me she laugh with her girlfrein...
A. 30 September 2008: It seems she likes you, but wouldn't want to go any further than that. Such things happen all the time. Don't worry about it, and go on with your own life.... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?
Q. Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...
A. 29 September 2008: We're talking about translation, and about taking mutual advantage of globalization.
You're in the US, which means your rate per word is higher than mine. That means you can send a job to me, I can do it into Spanish, and then send it back to ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?
Q. Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...
A. 27 September 2008: Are we doing business or what?... (read in full...)
Does anybody have any creative ideas on how I should word this email to her?
Q. Hello, I got a girl's email (it's all she gave me) a while ago, and would like to ask her out, but I'm not sure how I can word it. I'd ask her out in person but I don't see her anymore, and email is the only way I have of reaching her. Does a...
A. 27 September 2008: If you gave us information...... (read in full...)
Confused guy in California
Q. Hi, Me and my ex-fiance broke up over two years ago. She jumped into a relationship with a guy right after we broke up. We hadn't talked for almost a year when she called me on her birthday. Everytime we spoke it was a good conversation unt...
A. 27 September 2008: Now that I see your update, my view of this is very different from what I thought it was: it is you who wants her back, and, from what it looks, she doesn't want to go back to you. That was why she mentioned your problems in the past.
Even ... (read in full...)
Confused guy in California
Q. Hi, Me and my ex-fiance broke up over two years ago. She jumped into a relationship with a guy right after we broke up. We hadn't talked for almost a year when she called me on her birthday. Everytime we spoke it was a good conversation unt...
A. 26 September 2008: She's unhappy with the guy she found, and tested the waters with you. She found you're not interested in a relationship with her anymore, and, therefore, it's not worth talking to you anymore. You're not interested, and even if you were she would ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?
Q. Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...
A. 26 September 2008: We can do business, I guess?... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?
Q. Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...
A. 26 September 2008: Well, I'm a translator and interpreter, though not in as many languages as you do. 38, single, no children, never married. Mexican, half Nicaraguan. Blunt, because I can't be otherwise. Honest (if I'm lying, you won't know it anyways).... (read in full...)
Why do guys only like skinny, slutty girls and why don't they like overweight girls, who are great people on the inside? Any insights?
Q. i want to know why guys are so mean and picky that they only like skinny girls that are slutty and why they don't like overweight girls. It really hurts my feelings that they judge me based on the way that i look and not whats on the inside, I ...
A. 24 September 2008: Dear poster, you're not right. We fall for girls that are not skinny, too. Some people will make their choices on looks alone, but those are not the guys you want to be with anyways.
Just don't lose hope and your chance will come.... (read in full...)
I've been with a girl for five months, but I'm deploying to Iraq soon. Do we give the serious relationship a go, or do we break it off?
Q. Hey all. I’m in a dilemma. I have been dating my girlfriend for about five months now. I feel like our relationship is doing well—that we are making progress, etc. But, it has only been 5 months. Right now, I can’t bring myself to say ‘love’ y...
A. 23 September 2008: Yes, being gone for a year complicates thing drastically, but only because your relationship has not yet got to the state where one year away won't matter that much.
I think your prospects might be better than you believe. She was involved... (read in full...)
My baby's mother is moving away with our daughter to another state, what can I do to stop her? I want to see my baby grow up!
Q. my baby mother is moving away with daughter and she's going to be 2 years old in a week. what can i do to stop her? she is moving to another state and i want to see my daughter grow up! I have done every thing for my daughter from she was born and ...
A. 22 September 2008: Also, whatever your ex-wife does, make sure you keep the connection to your daughter. It will be harder from now on, because it will imply a greater effort. But, do it. It will pay off. I assume your daughter is still a small child. You will be ... (read in full...)
I'm embarrassed to wear braces. I need some honest opinions!
Q. i cant smile because i have teeth missing and out of place. Getting treatment but will take at least 2years. I feel so gutted because realistically how many girls want to date or even be seen with a guy who still wears braces when his aged 18! Come ...
A. 22 September 2008: The good thing about your braces is that they serve the purpose they are meant to and then the dentist will remove them. Voilá!... (read in full...)
I'm worried my stretchmarks will wreck my relationship with him.
Q. I have a problem, i have stretchmarks on the top of my legs. my boyfriend doesnt no about it, but i dont want to have sex with him incase he does see them. i am worried that it is going to wreck the relationship. Does anyone have any advice on what...
A. 22 September 2008: I think stretchmarks isn't all you got. I'm sure he will look at them, think about them the way the Uncle suggested in a previous question (maybe you posted it?), and focus on the rest of you.... (read in full...)
How can I make her feel comfortable having oral?
Q. this girl of mine is quite religious and she believes in sex after marriage and i respect that..however whenever we make out that includes sucking her nipples *she loves it..but when it comes to playing with her pussy i can see she like it loads but ...
A. 22 September 2008: I think she loves oral. She just knows that, if she lets you go on, she will give in to having sex, and this is what she wants to avoid.... (read in full...)
What are you thought's on stretchmarks?
Q. What do men think about strechmarks on a womens body?What does the female think about it too?...
A. 22 September 2008: The Uncle said it all.... (read in full...)
Should I wreck their relationship so I can have him?
Q. ok so there is this boy and we are both 13 he is my nextdoor nieghbor! I really like him and he flirts with me all the time. even my parents like him but he has a girfriend and i want to go out with him so bad it makes me feel so sad when i see them ...
A. 22 September 2008: You need to respect other people's relationships. You wouldn't want someone else to wreck yours if you were on that other girl's shoes.
Respecting relationships isn't just the right thing to do. It is also the way to spare you a lot of pain and... (read in full...)
Should I finish this relationship or hope that some day he'll propose to me?
Q. I'm 27 and my bf is 26. We know each other for a little more than 4 years an have been dating for a little less than that. My problem is that I have the feeling that I'm not good enough for him. I always thought that he is the one, but now I am not ...
A. 22 September 2008: Life is a series of decisions, some bad, some good. You're at a point when you need help making one. You don't think he will ever marry you, and don't know whether you should wait or not. This is a matter of personal choice. I will give you ... (read in full...)
I feel gross and trashy after my girlfriend told me how 'going down' on her is so disgusting!
Q. My girlfriend and I have oral sex. I know that she really enjoys it when I go down on her. This morning I wanted to arouse her so I started talking about eating her pussy. She went on and on about how disgusting eating pussy it. How it’s so gross...
A. 21 September 2008: This seems an easy one to me. If she doesn't want it, don't do it.
She seems to have some problems with her own genitalia, but I don't think your insistence on the subject would change anything. Let her be.... (read in full...)
When I was born, my belly button cord was cut too short. Will this affect my chances of conceiving?
Q. When I was born, I got my belly buttn cut too short so it kept coming undone and bleeding so they burnt it.. would that effect my chances in getting pregnant? ive been having unprotective sex for almost 3 months and still nothing, it maese curious.....
A. 21 September 2008: I agree with the other posts. Your belly button has nothing to do with your chances of conceiving.
If by "unprotected sex" you mean "sex without contraceptives", and what you really want is to become pregnant, then you're doing the right thing. ... (read in full...)
Am I sick and digusting to have feelings for my ex brother-in-law? My ex husband was abusive, his brother's the opposite.
Q. recently devorced from husband. have never cheated on him not once. what ended our marriage was I descovered he had and was cheating on me. for a few Years I had a secret crush on his brother. I never told anyone. My x husband and his brother ...
A. 21 September 2008: You're not sick or disgusting for having those feelings. End of the story. We all have eyes and hormones.
On the other hand, giving in to them would be the wrong thing to do. It would hurt a lot of people, particularly your children. I think ... (read in full...)
My sister betrayed me, and my brother couldn't care less about me. What should I do?
Q. Please help, Im a 23 yeard old woman currently living with my sister, her kids, husband and my brother. Due to financial issues, I ended up here. I lost my car during the holidays and my brother allowed me to use his car until last month. I didn...
A. 21 September 2008: I didn't really understand what was going on in your family, but I do understand this: all these problems seem to be the tip of the iceberg. Apparently they are all "not happy" that they had to help you while you were having financial problems.
... (read in full...)
Do males find red hair a turn-off?
Q. Just a quick question, because I'm beginning to get paranoid: Do males find red hair a turn-off? Will he reject a red-head if she asked him out, because of her hair colour? And if you have been asked out by one, did you oblige, and were, or cur...
A. 21 September 2008: I'm not attracted to any man, red-haired or not, so I will give you my answer regarding women. Yes, red-haired women are HOT.... (read in full...)
Do you think my husband had an affair with his work colleague?
Q. I wrote in earlier this year regarding my suspicions with my husband and some work colleague. He received a happy birthday text in full with a kiss and she sent an e-mail to him starting "Hello Darling", the past few months i have left things and ...
A. 21 September 2008: I can understand your anguish, and I'm with you in that. However, I can't really tell whether something has happened or not. I'm sorry I can't help you remove doubt, "the worst enemy", as a song goes.... (read in full...)
Help! She blocked me and changed her number!
Q. hi .. my name is manas ...a fashion design student from india...last two months back we had a workshop where we were working with students of turkey,izmir. we were made into groups and there was a girl name Begum who was my workshop partner .we ...
A. 21 September 2008: I'm so sorry, but all I can say is that she doesn't want you back. You can't be with a person if she doesn't want you to be with her.
Moving on is not only your best bet: it's all you can do.
Oh, and, before I forget, there is indeed someth... (read in full...)
Do you think he will want contact with his child in the future?
Q. i dont want anyone telling me how evil i am for having an affair as the other woman i am quite aware that the other woman always gets the blame. i had an affair with a married man ,we fell in love with each other, i also went out with him when i was ...
A. 20 September 2008: We don't know what is going to happen here. Some men go away and never go back. Some come back when they are old and do the accounting of their lives. Some come back long before that.
There is a possibility that he will be what I call a "lukew... (read in full...)
Do you think he will want contact with his child in the future?
Q. i dont want anyone telling me how evil i am for having an affair as the other woman i am quite aware that the other woman always gets the blame. i had an affair with a married man ,we fell in love with each other, i also went out with him when i was ...
A. 19 September 2008: It is very hard to tell whether he will want to have contact with your (his and yours) child. I have seen cases of men who never ever worry about the child again, and other cases of men who do. I don't know what the key factor would be, other ... (read in full...)
Two different words who are forced to meet but can't
Q. hey.i am a christian girl,who has everything she wishes for ...that is a lie ,i love a muslim guy(love him more than i ever loved anyone)he is my boyfreind but people just want me to leave him (i have 19 boys chasing after me sendin me cards they r ...
A. 14 November 2007: Well, dear, you did your best, while he didn't want to go his half of the way. At least you tried. Now, move on and always be happy.... (read in full...)
Two different words who are forced to meet but can't
Q. hey.i am a christian girl,who has everything she wishes for ...that is a lie ,i love a muslim guy(love him more than i ever loved anyone)he is my boyfreind but people just want me to leave him (i have 19 boys chasing after me sendin me cards they r ...
A. 24 October 2007: Perhaps a point that everyone is missing is that the poster lives in Lebanon, where religion is taken a lot more seriously than in the West, and where religious boundaries mean a hell of a lot more than here. Just remember what has been happening ... (read in full...)
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