She strung me along to cancel three times ...
Q. Hello everyone, so about 2 years ago I was in a short film with an actress and we hit it off really well, great chemistry. There was a kissing scene but it wasn't awkward at all. She even suggested "practice kissing" during rehearsal. However, ...
A. 14 September 2017: Thanks for the update OP it is always appreciated when someone updates us how they got on. All the best in the future. ... (read in full...)
He lied to my face, only admitted it after I told him I had seen proof
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. We broke up for about a month or so in between, in which he admitted to kissing a girl. That's it he says.I don't care about any of that, we were broken up. However, I found a condom in his backpack. We ...
A. 25 July 2017: I have heard off men going down on one knee and proposing, having a child together, buying a house together and still out cheating! Yes it does happen and you should be extremely careful.... (read in full...)
She strung me along to cancel three times ...
Q. Hello everyone, so about 2 years ago I was in a short film with an actress and we hit it off really well, great chemistry. There was a kissing scene but it wasn't awkward at all. She even suggested "practice kissing" during rehearsal. However, ...
A. 7 July 2017: She seems like she is the flaky type off girl. Maybe she done it to get the attention, or maybe she just puts everything else first. Who knows? But for me I would stop with the contact and leave it there. ... (read in full...)
Her comments have me wondering if she's into me or not?
Q. I've started talking to this girl a lot over the last week and we've hung out quite a bit. We have made plans to go for dinner, she also asked if I'd like to go away to Madrid for a couple of days next week. Today when we were together for a quick ...
A. 7 July 2017: I think that was her way off saying to you she is not romantically interested in you but sees you as a friend. ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am a mistake and that everybody knows it!
Q. Am i stupid, or just living in the past. I am gay and i don't think i have ever said that before. i have always been scared and think of other peoples feelings rather then my own. I avoid social situations and even family stuff because everybody is ...
A. 7 July 2017: What are you afraid off, do you think society will judge you? Your family will turn against you? I honestly think that after all these years the best thing you should do is seek professional help, it will help you bring down those barriers that you ... (read in full...)
What is the correct protocol for children that don't live at home and being invited out with us?
Q. I have a question for other blended families, I have two kids ages 12 and 7 and my fiance has two kids 22 and 18. The 22 and 18 year old live with their boyfriends and my children live with me and my fiance. Here is the question. When planning...
A. 6 July 2017: you should tell them they are more than welcome on the trip, but you cannot afford to pay for them. Look they are both adults now and they need to stand on their own two feet, it is not up to you to look after them or pay for there holidays, neither ... (read in full...)
He lied to my face, only admitted it after I told him I had seen proof
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. We broke up for about a month or so in between, in which he admitted to kissing a girl. That's it he says.I don't care about any of that, we were broken up. However, I found a condom in his backpack. We ...
A. 6 July 2017: Stop making excuses for his lying. He lied to your face that is fact, and for me that is someone I would not be able to trust, also its cool to have a condom? What age is he 12?... (read in full...)
Do you think my ex-roommate will want to date me again if I put zero pressure on him?
Q. So I dated my roommate for a year. It never progressed very far because every time I put pressure on him (which I have a habit of doing) he freaked out and pulled away. We really liked each other though so I always assumed the problem was living ...
A. 6 July 2017: No he doesn't want to date you, yes he likes you as a friend but you are to much for him. You move out and before he knows it you want to stay over again. He wants to be friends nothing more, its up to you now if you can handle only being friends or ... (read in full...)
Is a man without a big wallet a deal breaker for you?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have recently met a great man. We've been dating for a few months but we have met each other's parents because we are serious about each other. Recently though, my worries have been our financial status. He is a hard working chef a...
A. 6 July 2017: It only matters if you are a judgmental person really, which makes me laugh because you are unemployed. It is not his job to look after you financially, am sure you should be well capable off looking after yourself, how would you feel if he judged ... (read in full...)
He always manages to bring up sex in a conversation. Is he just horny? Or does he want something from me?
Q. There is this guy I know. We are friends, but fairly new friends for the past 3 or so months. He is a really nice guy, very easy to talk to. Whenever we talk, he always tells me personal things about himself. I'm talking really personal things that ...
A. 6 July 2017: He wants to have sex with you and he is testing the waters.... (read in full...)
How do I react to my boyfriends passive aggressive comments about fitness?
Q. I weigh 42kg. I used to be a previous model however always been naturally petite. My boyfriend has naturally a slow metabolism and he can gain weight quickly. While he does talk quite a bit about him getting fit as he's definitely on the ...
A. 6 July 2017: He is insecure beside you, its as simple as that. Don't try and make something out off nothing. Try exercising with him and raising his confidence.... (read in full...)
Things changed when my BFF got a girlfriend.
Q. I'm really hurt. My best friend C and I have been bffs for 5 years. We've had our share of ups and downs, but always managed to get through it and remain close as we were before. He'd been into me, like, majorly into me for 2 years. He said he was ...
A. 6 July 2017: No he will never just be a friend again you both crossed that barrier. Also he does not love you, maybe he thought he did in the past, but the communication died down because he was growing a relationship with his current girlfriend. I think its ... (read in full...)
We both have partners but workmate is flirting
Q. Hi everyone. I'm writing about an issue I have at work with regards to a co-worker. I work in a pub so it is a very relaxed atmosphere. I get on with all my co-workers, both male and female. However, there is one particular co-worker who...
A. 6 July 2017: From what you wrote it sounds like banter from his side off things anyway. I would take no notice. ... (read in full...)
We had sex nothing came of it but how do I act around him now?
Q. About six months ago, I had sex with one of my close friends. It was pretty obvious that we both liked each other but nothing ever came from it. A couple weeks ago, we started talking again and we spent the night with each other a few times but ...
A. 6 July 2017: It sounds to me like he enjoys having sex with you, but if he was interested in more then am sure he would have came after you when he had the chance, if it was me I wouldn't waste my time.... (read in full...)
He wants to record us having oral sex and then send it to a friend?
Q. Been seeing a guy right, everything was great.. Until he asked me a few days ago to let him record himself giving me "oral" in the not so usual place..to send to his guy friend! Is this relationship between them normal? Do guys do this with their ...
A. 5 July 2017: No Honey that is not normal, in fact it is very disturbing and it sounds like you need to be very very careful.... (read in full...)
Am I being irrational for wanting my parents to be involved in my daughters life?
Q. I have a daughter and am expecting another child. And since she was born, my parents have not been very active in her life. The first three or 4 months, they'd come over almost every weekend and after that, it'd be every several months. They...
A. 5 July 2017: Do you make the effort to visit them with your daughter so that they can get to know her, it sounds from your post that you want them to do all the running. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend did nothing for me on my 21st birthday and says I'm stupid if I expect things to be romantic
Q. so i dont want to sound like a nag or like im being selfish but here it is. 25th june was my 21st birthday i had a meal and a night out planned. on the 24th my boyfriend didnt want to spend it with me but i told him if he doesnt try its over bec...
A. 5 July 2017: Honestly you are never going to be happy with this man. He does not deserve you. He does nothing to show you that he loves you, and blames everything on you and uses his depression as an excuse to somehow make you think that it is okay. You say you ... (read in full...)
My army guy only contacts me when he's down
Q. Hello, I met this guy online and started to talk for almost 2 months. He is in military active but he is a national guard. We went on several dates. Most of the times he texted me when he is depressed cause of his family issue or he is lost his...
A. 5 July 2017: Sleeping with him well not make him want you, it will only see that he is able to use you. If he was interested enough he would show it. ... (read in full...)
How can I break this impass on marital strife?
Q. I've been with my wife for 12 years. We've been going through a bit of a tough patch lately, but I don't think it's something that we can't work our way through. Now, please don't think that I am claiming to be perfect - I have problems that I need ...
A. 30 June 2017: From what you have wrote I don't blame her for feeling like this. If my partner was chatting to his friends about our relationship, I would also like to know. I am also a private person. If he felt he needed someone to talk to then yes he should, ... (read in full...)
He's a slob but I'm afaid to let go
Q. I don't know what to do any more. My relationship seems like it's going nowhere quickly. I use to be really happy with my boyfriend, but now he constantly blames me for everything. He's never happy with anything. The other night I called him o...
A. 30 June 2017: Your poor child, he is the victim here not you. How on earth can you allow your son to be around a drunk who smokes in your house with your child!?!? Do you realize the damage that is doing to your son's lungs. You shout at your child because off ... (read in full...)
My partner will not admit that she uses a vibrator and its making me feel inadquate
Q. I've recently discovered that my partner if 6 years is secretly using a vibrator when she thinks I'm asleep. This has been ongoing now for 5 months and every time I ask her she becomes very angry and denial sets in. We have a very open relationship ...
A. 30 June 2017: Do you not masturbate?... (read in full...)
I'm worried that once my LDR boyfriend gets his own place, his female friend might try to make a move. I know she likes him!
Q. I am in a long distance relationship with an amazing guy. We have know each other for 3 years and are planning to soon meet and start a future/family together. He is the kind of person that I call my best friend and soulmates. He is my person and I ...
A. 30 June 2017: How often do you and him spend time together face to face?... (read in full...)
My friend doesn't treat guys very well and I don't like it. Should I just stay out of it?
Q. Hi how do I tell my friend she's a little conceited? Or am I overreacting? She's one of my best friend's. We're both 18 and have both had our fair share with guys. I just mean like being at the texting stage and dating, that kind of stuff. I'm no...
A. 30 June 2017: It appears that she needs the attention, maybe she isn't as confident as you think she is, and maybe she is nervous about actually dating someone and it leading to her loosing her virginity so she is hiding behind her phone. Either way it is not ... (read in full...)
He cheated, we broke up. He's never apologized and its weird being in the same group of friends
Q. The guy I was seeing exclusively for the past few months recently cheated on me when he was drunk and I found out about it from my friend. At the time I was obviously very angry and upset when I spoke to him and so even though he apologised it ...
A. 30 June 2017: No he doesn't need to be doing anything, he apologized and said he did not want to be with you. Yes off course it is hurtful, but what more can he do now? Do you want him contacting you? Hurting you more? Leading you on? The best thing he can do now ... (read in full...)
Invitation is too close for comfort
Q. Hi! A guy I have a crush on has extended a general invitation to hang out sometime. He doesn't know I like him and our relationship right now is just friends. However, he has a girlfriend. Just to clarify I am not allowing my personal feelings for ...
A. 29 June 2017: I still think that even though you have a great attitude it would be not cool to hang out just the two off you. Simply because you have feelings for him and also because his girlfriend might find it strange. Why not organize a group activity. ... (read in full...)
Am I foolish to forgive my girlfriend for cheating?
Q. In January I found out that I'd been offered a promotion at work. A fantastic opportunity to change my life, but it involved 6 months living abroad. My girlfriend of 4 years didn't want me to go initially, but after talking things through she agreed ...
A. 29 June 2017: I cannot tell you what to do, but from personal experience it didn't work for me. I could never trust my ex again no matter how much I wanted to or how much I loved him. I was always paranoid he was talking to other girls and it simply made me ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to wait but I'm frustrated
Q. My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex until she is married. She is a virgin. I am frustrated telling her how important sex is in relationship and how deeply emotionally we can be connected. She even used to give her ex bf liberty to have sex with...
A. 29 June 2017: Stop putting pressure on her, stop asking for other things. If you love her then what is stopping you marrying her?... (read in full...)
Should I make the first move second time around?
Q. Hey everyone. I joined a dating site back in Jan. and had just got chatting with a nice guy but he did inform me he was leaving the site because he was going to see how it would go with someone. I’m still on the site and recently he's come back on. ...
A. 29 June 2017: Send him a message there is no harm. If he turns you down at least you know you tried and you are not left wondering.... (read in full...)
His history has me worried
Q. If you hear a guy beat up his ex' and you're kind of seeing him what would you do? I talked to him about it of course, yet it keeps bothering me... At first, though he admited it and said he took two years alone to fix himself i was okay. Yet i ke...
A. 29 June 2017: If it was me I would have ended things the moment I found this out. I simply would not trust someone who could beat a woman up! Especially one he was in a relationship with.... (read in full...)
I want to be strong for him at this time of terrible grief, but how?
Q. My boyfriends brother died suddenly last week and it has hit the whole family hard. I am trying so hard to be strong for my boyfriend but every time I'm on my own I beak down in tears myself because I feel so sorry for him. He hasn't spoke much ...
A. 29 June 2017: If you don't cry around him he will think you are made off stone. Yes it was his brother, but it is hard for you as well, you are grieving as well so be their for each other. You don't need to be the strong one, just as long as you are there by his ... (read in full...)
Why is he still looking for me? He's married now.
Q. 9 years ago (15-16yrs old)I dated a guy in H.S. But we only dated for about a month before he broke up with me over the phone. In that month we were together we had sex and seems like all the guys were talking about it..Well next school year he ...
A. 29 June 2017: What kinda girl cheats on her boyfriend? Then cheats with a married man? Personally karma seems to have caught you good for the bad you have done. Yes it is obvious he wanted sex from you, he has never respected you, always saw you has a sex object. ... (read in full...)
Is my pedicure cause for concern?
Q. I am not sure if I should be offended or not? But I AM!! I just got a pedicure and I love it. I like the colour. It is bright and summery. My boyfriend did not share my enthusiasm. He said pedicures with any colour draw attention to feet, and he ...
A. 29 June 2017: I hate feet, so if he doesn't like them at least he is being honest, why would you want him to lie to you just to make you feel better? ... (read in full...)
My man has lost his libido
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been together with my partner for 6 years now. The problem is my man has gone off sex and I don’t know what to do about it. I have talked this through with him and he just says that it’s not important and he doesn’t feel like...
A. 29 June 2017: I think he needs to go and get checked by his doctor to make sure everything is okay. It doesn't mean he is cheating but their could be other reasons for lack off sex drive.... (read in full...)
I have huge mental blocks regarding finding a partner but I really want one
Q. Hello all, I turned 18 last year and I'm still a virgin. I crave to be with someone, preferably another girl. I'm just scared. I've tried posting ads and online "dating" sites but I never go through with anything. My main issues are 1. I'd get cau...
A. 29 June 2017: Let's go through your five points shall we?
1. Why would your parents end you? What is your fears, please explain more so we can help.
2. Catching an STI is a fear for everyone hence why safe sex is important. So if you are unsure off anything... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend my crush gave me his number, when he's her crush too?
Q. The guy I've been trying to talk to all year - and had a major crush on for two years - has just told me that he's wanted to be friends for a long time, but didn't know how to do it. In fact, he even gave me his phone number and email addresses. As ...
A. 29 June 2017: You need to decide what is more important to you, your friend or your crush? NEVER give out someone else's personal details. ... (read in full...)
I met him online, lied about everything and now 4 years later I know I need to tell him the truth but I don't know how
Q. I met someone online 4years back when I was 17 - 18, so I joined in just for fun..members were not really serious about relationships but everyone was there after a breakup or divorce. And I decided to hide my identity and just to have chat with ...
A. 29 June 2017: Poor guy, and yes you should feel guilty! But you where young and you wanted to chat on line so its time to put a line through it and STOP LYING! Tell him the truth and then no more lies to anybody else, it is not okay to mess with peoples lives ... (read in full...)
Are we playing the "he loves me..he loves me not" game?
Q. I had been dating a guy for a year and everything was going fine. And suddenly he stopped receiving my calls or replying to my texts. After continuously texting he replied and said he didnt want to hurt me but he needed space and time.The next day ...
A. 29 June 2017: Sounds to me like he is playing mind games, he probably wants to be with other girls over the summer but wants to keep you on a string in case none off them want to be with him after the holidays. You deserve better, if he loved you he would have ... (read in full...)
The man I'm dating lied he said he was 30, he's almost 44
Q. Aunts and uncles! Please help.. So I've been seeing a guy for 5 months, I'm 25 and he's 30.. Things are a bit rocky here and there, but today iced the cake. I seen a comment on Facebook and decided to Snoop... I see him address his 38 year old brot...
A. 29 June 2017: I would be furious and I would end it, all trust would be gone for me. You obviously didn't guess his age and he ran along with it, that is just another lie. I would run for the hills!... (read in full...)
I don't get his on-off attitude
Q. I have been dating a guy for 1 and a half years. He asked for space. He asked for space and then said sorry the next day, and again stopped contact with me for a week. Suddenly he texted me again when he needed me and now again has cut off contact ...
A. 29 June 2017: He doesn't know what he wants and he is playing games with you. You deserve to be treated better than this, next time you guys are 'on' tell him YOU want a break and don't contact him again.... (read in full...)
How can I get hime to be more romantic?
Q. I'm dating a guy for almost a year and he isn't the romantic type. He's said he's not a mushy type about 6 months in so I pulled back a lot and decided to move on. After two weeks apart he texted me and called wanted to try again. Still the same no ...
A. 29 June 2017: You accept that is not who he is and you block him from calling you.... (read in full...)
Family puts too much stress on me. Should I end it?
Q. Hi, I’m sorry if this going to be a lengthy question, I just want to give you all the facts to better explain the situation. I met my current live-in boyfriend almost 5 years ago while I was on the rebound from another relationship. I...
A. 29 June 2017: How can they be intruding it is their home? Their basement? and their condo? Plus they have been nice to welcome you in to all off them and all you have been is ungrateful. Yes you should end this relationship and be with someone who isn't a family ... (read in full...)
Is getting back with him a vain hope?
Q. Hi everyone, I have a question regarding an ex that I am still in love with. We broke up in March. He said he "wasn't in the right mindset to have a girlfriend, I have to sort some stuff out" and "this doesn't mean we can't get back together." ...
A. 29 June 2017: You have had your first true heart break, and believe me if you don't block his calls and texts over the summer holidays you are going to prolong this heart ache. He does not want to be with you. Just because he sends a message doesn't mean he is ... (read in full...)
Told my boyfriend I got a new job at a hotel. He was concerned men would look up my skirt.
Q. I told my boyfriend I just got a new job! It will help me pay my bills and I really needed a job right now. It's in housekeeping at an upscale hotel. The first question he asked is what will I be wearing? He was concerned it would be a skimp...
A. 29 June 2017: It sounds like the beginning off controlling behavior, if he acts like this normally then you should get out off that relationship as quick as you can.... (read in full...)
My army guy only contacts me when he's down
Q. Hello, I met this guy online and started to talk for almost 2 months. He is in military active but he is a national guard. We went on several dates. Most of the times he texted me when he is depressed cause of his family issue or he is lost his...
A. 21 June 2017: You didn't do anything wrong, he wants someone who is there for him when he needs them but he is not willing to put in any effort. I think you need to see that you and him are on different levels.... (read in full...)
My army guy only contacts me when he's down
Q. Hello, I met this guy online and started to talk for almost 2 months. He is in military active but he is a national guard. We went on several dates. Most of the times he texted me when he is depressed cause of his family issue or he is lost his...
A. 19 June 2017: It seems that you are only their to pick him up when he is down. For me it doesn't look like he is interested in anything serious, so if you are then I would suggest chatting with him about where you stand.... (read in full...)
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