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*regNorman
writes:I've started talking to this girl a lot over the last week and we've hung out quite a bit. We have made plans to go for dinner, she also asked if I'd like to go away to Madrid for a couple of days next week. Today when we were together for a quick chat (as I pass her work) as we were talking she saw some guys passing by and she was looking at them. She said to me he was nice and the other one she looked aright. OK but what about me? So I said that to her and she just replied and said I had a good heart. I am just a little confused as to whether she is into me or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 July 2017):
 I think that was her way off saying to you she is not romantically interested in you but sees you as a friend.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 July 2017):
 Just going by that little "snippet" fo a conversation I'd say she isn't INTO you romantically. I think she regards you more as a friendly face.
I'd NEVER "critique" good looking guys in front of someone I was interested in romantically. It seems a little "uncouth".
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (3 July 2017):
 She's asking someone she doesn't know to spend a couple thousand dollars for a few days in a foreign country. Even if you live in the east coast it's a 6 or 7 hour flight. That's not into you. That's wanting a travel companion with whomever. In Madrid you can imagine her staring at other people. Likely tan skinned, dark haired guys and you would stare at girls who would reveal a lot of skin because of the heat. Is that how you want to spend your two days and is a thousand dollars worth that? I don't think you would be sharing a hotel room.
When she said you have a good heart she either felt too shy to say you look good or she couldn't bring herself to say you look good. She sounds like someone who just wants fun time in her life and too free spirited to focus on one person.
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