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writes:Hi, you can call me M I'm an 18 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend. I don't count myself as very good looking, I'm short and overweight, and this makes me very shy and nervous when talking to girls. One night I was in a club with my friends and met with a group of people who were friends with one of my friends. Of these people I instantly made friends with 2, a guy lets call him P, and a girl lets call her R. I noticed immediately that R was a little more than friendly holding hands and hugging a lot despite having only met just now. Initially I just put it down to her being drunk, but then it continued numerous times, and one time she even placed my hand on the inside of her leg.I grew attracted to her, and now find her very attractive, we've swapped numbers and dance together, often embracing each other. But then, I saw her doing similar stuff with P, they were very flirty with eachother, there was provocative dancing between the 2 and they just seemed like a couple.I was still new enough to them to just casually ask if they were going out to which the both denied.I can't work out if she was showing a genuine interest in me, or if she's actually more into P, or if she's maybe just flirty with all the guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): My advice is to let it go buddy. No use beating yourself up over it. She's clearly just a flirty girl. Maybe next time your out and you see her you can flirt again but don't expect anything from it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did invite her to an event, she said she'd go and never turned up, then I asked her friend, and he gave me some excuse about her being too drunk to go.
She doesn't reply to texts either, so anything that was there if at all is probably officially gone now. It's just so confusing as I didnt do anything, she gave me her number, wanted me to text her, but then never replied and doesnt talk anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2012): Sounds like she's like it with everyone but you did get her number so that must be a good sign, send her a text or something informing her of an upcoming event and invite her along.
The worst she can do is say no and at least then you will know where you stand.
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reader, ironman777  +, writes (22 March 2012):
Hi,
You have her number right? So why dont you call her and ask her for a coffee or some non threatening small thing... not a date but just a chat - or even just tell her you had a good time when you went out and what is she doing this weekend. You will be able to gauge her reaction to you from that. Its no big deal to call her - she may have been very flirty becuase of the drinks but you never know unless you try!! Or she might have friends who you can met etc.
Good luck
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