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writes:I really like my sex buddy , we always drink and go out usual , he doesn't like me talking to anyone else like he gets jeleous of other guys when I'm around them , he always picks me up to go over or just hangout , we watch movies I help him with homework we get along so well , he opens up to me , the reason we can't be official is becus my brother is his friend and my brother is jeleous and gets mad if I talk to any of his friends , yet when he comes over to party's at my house he's with me :) and when he comes to see my brother he always stares at me and smiles and I cook for him and my brother he loves my food :) when I go over to his house witch is often , we cuddle and talk yeah we Fuck but not always he holds me threw the night and if I have to leave he grabs my waist and pulls me on to his bed he hugs me threw the night at his house we watch movies and spend time :) one day when we were laying next to each other I said "babe, cover up" and he smiled I accedently told him babe so I put the blanket over my face all emmberased and he slowly took the blanket off and said that's cute :) were always texting we hold hands sometimes :) and we talk about everything I know alot about himThat no one else does 3 he asks my brother stuff about me and makes me feel special the sex is bomb and so much chemistry involved he doesn't talk too other girls even my brother and his friends noticed he no longer try's with any girl makes me happy :) he has told me I'm the only one (: I've met his mom wen I went over , I know his older brother me and my sex buddy are so close, how do u get him to make it official ? Or to be mines :) and how do I get my brother to not care , if I date his friend ?.. I've met his older friends that shows a lot cause he never takes a girl around his friends ever , he's told me why do I worry about my brother, that if I want a bf .. He says he feels he wants a gf .. One day laying down he asked me what made me like him want him , and I didn't answer he kept asking for over 30 min and I told him why does it matter and he replied if it didn't matter would I keep asking you " so that touched my heart do you think he wants to be more than fuck buddies ? he's always listening to me , he calls and texts alot he's sweet and we get along so well , I think I caught feelings for him .. What do I do ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2012): Im sure your brother loves you and wants you to be happy. Talk to your guy, tell him you want to be with him and then be brave and tell your brother. He might be a bit angry at first but only coz he cares. X
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reader, JayBlushes +, writes (22 March 2012):
I sort of have told him when we were at a part he got jeleous of the guy I was talking to even though I told him he's just a friend , he told me do you , I'm with my girl we were both drunk but that hurt me that morning he texted and said he was kidding about the girl , and that what was I thinking not answering or replying in the last two weeks and I told him becus I'm not used to sex buddies he's the only one how I have feelings and he told me I'm dumb for believing the girl part , so is it more ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2012): My brother and his girl and his friend actually have gone out together , but my brother invited me , so his girl won't feel akward , we had a good day that day :) it was a day to remember but thanks :) means alot
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 March 2012):
 I would say so. Your brother is worried that once you are official he would feel neglected truth is you've been already doing a lot of couple stuff, just without the label. Tell your man what you like about him and not to worry about your brother. Talk to your brother and tell him you would be unhappy if you continue to be sex buddies. I assume your brother is still single maybe you should hook him up with a girl. Then it's easier for the 4 of you to all be friends without anyone feeling left out.
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reader, katiekate +, writes (22 March 2012):
 It sounds to me like you guys are more than just "sex buddies". The only thing you can really do is talk to him. Tell him how you feel and see if he reciprocates. However, since you're already giving it up (sex), he's pretty much having his cake and eating it too, so you have to be prepared that he might not want an actual relationship with you. You have to be careful letting a guy have all the benefits of a girlfriend without you having the "girlfriend" title.
And if he does want to be with you too, who cares what your brother thinks? He'll just have to get over it.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (22 March 2012):
 What do you do????? Sounds to me like you've already got it figured out. To wit: Kiss off your morals, lay back, spread your legs and enjoy the ride!!!!!!
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2012): The only person who can tell you if he wants to be more than "sex buddies" with you is him, so you're going to have to ask.
Be aware though that if you have read him wrong and he really does want only sex from you, he'll probably back off at the first mention of feelings.
Good luck
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