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writes:This girl I met last year near the beginning of university found me on Facebook, we had a friend in common and she messaged me saying 'You appeared on people I might know and i'm sure I recognised you, no worries if i'm wrong'.I recognised her, we went back to hers one night and nothing happened which I was fine with. She was really rude and strangely off with me in the morning, I have no idea why I think she just felt hungover and ill. Her room was in the most shocking state i've seen any in my life! It was disgusting I don't know how she lived in that.Thing is she is a nice girl, beautiful, very good looking and even though we met on a night out we did get on really well and I was definitely attracted to her. I liked that she respects herself, because she told me nothing could happen and she didn't want a one night stand which was very hard for me to resist holding back and not doing anything but kiss her. I'll add she was a great kisser, but I was fine with that.That aside, I don't know if I should admit that I recognise her and accept her request because it was quite uncomfortable for me being in her room when is was that messy. And the fact was she was rude to me for no reason, basically I felt she didn't want me there. I don't know what happened between when we went to sleep to that morning for her to be like that? Also, she didn't look like the same girl in the morning either!What do you guys think? What would you do with this opinion... I know it's just a request, but do I really want to have her as a friend on there and admit that I remember her...
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (23 March 2012):
Messy living quarters is a reflection of a person's mental condition. Tidy people are generally saner ones and messy people are generally nutcases. But I don't think you really need me to point that out.
Unfriend her, forget her number, move on.
That girl you had your "night out" with was a total facade. The girl's room and the way she acted the next day is the real person beneath it.
Waste no time washing your hands of this. You may want to literally wash your hands after being over there.
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