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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I just caught my husband of three years looking at she-male porn. When I walked into the room, he closed down the page quickly and deleted the cookies, but I still saw what he was doing. It's not the first time he has done it - he's done it several times years ago when we first started dating. He could still be doing it, but this is the first time I noticed him in a long time. Is this normal? When we were first dating, he would make me do things to him with a strap-on and would love things in that area. He used to tell me that he would fantasize about a guy have relations with him - but that was in the beginning. When we got more serious, I told him that I wouldn't allow that to happen if he were to stay with me and that I wanted to keep the sex between me and him - no one else. He said he was fine with that and that it was just a phase he was going through and that he really doesn't want another man. However, he still likes that area to be played with. What does this mean?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 March 2012):
 Many straight men like anal play. It does not make them bi or gay. And many of them like to look at gay porn or shemale porn and fantasize about it… does not make them gay or anything else other than open sexually and having a vivid imagination…
Let him know you are ok with his porn use (if you are) and that you would rather him NOT hide it from you….
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 March 2012):
 Well enjoying she-male porn and enjoying anal sex doesn't really mean anything. A lot of men like both those things without being gay. However, if the fantasies he comes up with on his own are with men, that is a little worrisome that he might be repressing some feelings. Is there a reason in his past he would want to hide something like that? For instance a very religious family, etc...?
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