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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: i have a sex buddy , we text each other often. But lately it seems I've caught feelings for him. He gives me mixed feelings. One day he gives me hope the next day I'm upset thinking what it could of been. We act like were in a relationship when we have sex it's with passion , and amazing. We talk after sex too and we've gotten to know each other more. One day he invited me to hang out with his friend and him i took a friend we all drank. We walked for a bit he hold my hand that whole night kissed me in front of my friend and that night I spend the night with him. He's so sweet at other parties if he see's me drinking he'll drink the cup for me. He let's me wear his tank top and sweater, we watch movies and then fuck but either way if he just wanted me for sex he wouldnt do all this would he ? Last time we were laying down after sex I told him I'ma go and he pulled me by the waist and holded me threw the night and told me no spend it with me go to sleep and of course I did. So I stopped talking to him I figured I should be distant since I caught feelings for my sex buddy , he texted three days in a row would even call me but i ignored him. So after ignoring him for two weeks I saw him at a party and he saw me talking to a guy but he's just a friend and he told me "I wish you the best with your bf' I explained how he's not my bf . That night he told me do you I'll do me I'm with my girl right now and Woah it hurt so much I told him he could of kept it to himself and that I had feelings and he told me I'm dumb that he'd been calling me like crazy .. That morning he reminded me that this girl , he lied about her .. What does that mean ? Was he jeleous does he want more ??
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 March 2012):
 IF you are falling for your FWB you need to guard your heart and stop sleeping with him.
“if he just wanted me for sex he wouldn’t do all that would he?” YES he would.
IF you want more than FWB you need to stop playing games and waiting for him and ASK him what he wants… tell him that you want him to be your boyfriend… and risk him saying NO.
It’s human nature to want what we can’t have so when you were playing your little not talking to him game he wanted….. he may not really want but you have to risk talking about it to find out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2012): Sounds like the classic falling for your SB [sex buddy]. In any relationship one person likes the other more. In this case, I don't know if he's falling for you as well or he's the jealous type and wants ownership of you.
In any case it would be good to open up and see if he wants a relationship. If he's not looking for anything more than to continue to be SB's then its your call.
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