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I'm attracted to my uncle who was adopted by my grandparents

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Question - (22 March 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, *exicana writes:

I'm 18 years old. My mother was American (well of irish heritage) and she married my father in 1990. He was born in Mexico. He is full blood Mexican. My grandparents, my uncles, aunts, and all that also live in Mexico. I've lived in the U.S. my whole life and didn't even know some of them existed, until faebook came along. I've noticed my uncle Jesus (hey-sue-s)is alot younger than my other aunt's and unles. He is 24. Thats how old some of my cousins down there are. My grandparents adopted him in 1988, 4 years after my dad came to the united states. We are going to Mexico in May (my father, my brother and i. My mother died years ago) I am very excited to go because i've only met some of them once or twice when i was very little. But a few nights ago. I had a dream that he was trying to have sex with me. i was naked and he was kissing me on my neck, collar bone, chest, sucking my breasts/nipples, all while fingering me. I'm not going to lie i think he is cute. But is it bad that i kind of liked it? I think its bad because he is part of my family, but at the same time i felt like if we did have sex, he's adopted so were not blood related. Please help me.

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A female reader, Mexicana United States +, writes (24 March 2012):

Mexicana is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Muchos Gracias everyone! :) Yes he is married (haha this is very confusing) My father told me that Jesus is married to his cousin from his previous family. I was shocked to hear that. Yes i talk to him on facebook sometimes. I'll be seeing him in May as well, when i go to Mexico. && Lol i wouldn't make a move on him. I just think he's pretty cute. I wouldn't accept a move from him either. It was just a dream i had, && really couldn't understand it. But once again Muchos Gracias! :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2012):

Dont do it hun, adopted or not he is your uncle by law if not blood it would cause u much more pain than its worth

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A male reader, Kyle007 United States +, writes (22 March 2012):

I would advise against doing anything at all as far as making a move on him or accepting a move from him.

If you end up marrying him, this is a confusing family tree.

If it does not work out (as the vast majority of relationships DON'T) then its going to be an extremely awkward family reunion.

As far as your dreams go, enjoy them (I have to admit I did reading this). But dreams are just dreams, and dream interpretation is often overrated and misunderstood.

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