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female
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30-35,
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writes:I was with my friend 'A' shopping in town after a catch-up over lunch. I had to go to the fancy dress shop as I needed to get a whistle for my costume for a night out at the weekend. When we came out, I saw this gorgeous guy and A admitted she knew him and that he went to her uni (A and I both go to different universities but they're both in the same town. A's is amazing and is one of the best in the country whereas mine is pretty much average if not slightly below average. A and I knew each other from the age of 5 hence why we met for lunch and a shop as we're good friends!)She saw him out in a nightclub a few days after I said he was gorgeous and hot. They were both drunk, she went up to him and said "my friend L finds you so hot" she then set his alarm on his phone as my name "L" and when he was drunk he said he would stalk me on Facebook. Who knows if he actually stalked me, he probably woke up and was confused at a girls name being there!! Anyway, nothing happened from that incident.About 2 weeks later a few of my friends from uni and myself went to A's uni as the nights out there on a Saturday are much better than going into town. This time, this gorgeous guy wasn't there or A. I got really drunk for once in my life and when I'm drunk I can be over-friendly and generally make so much rubbish up. I started talking to this guy (J) who happened to be the gorgeous guys flatmate (this was literally by chance, I had no idea they were flatmates!) I asked if he would set us up and he said he would. I swapped numbers and Facebook names with J (while I was really drunk) and obviously at the time I was very happy.The next day I had a massive hangover (understandably) and remembered my incident with the gorgeous guys flatmate. I was hoping he would forget as I was so embarrassed and would have preferred A introducing us in a club. J seemingly didnt forget and he added me as a friend on Facebook the next morning and I accepted. He's probably shown gorgeous guy myself, but nothing has happened and I feel so embarrassed now especially after both these incidences.What shall I do? Add him as a friend on Facebook and appologise for these drunken antics?! Leave it and wait until I see him out (if ever?!!!!) please help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2012): I'd seriously stop stalking the gorgeous guy...he isn't interested in you. You'll look obsessed if you add him on fb after all this. However, J seems to like you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2012): OP why are getting all your friends and his friends to do your dirty work? Drunk is an excuse but this guy has known for a while now you like him and yet you're not doing anything about it, you're getting everyone to do this for you.
Add him, say hi but don't apologize. You like him, what's to be sorry about? Now you just have woman up and pursue him directly and stop being a pussy about it.
Or you could keep doing it the cowards way and get your friends to add him, then get them to chat him up too, then get them go on dates with him for you and sleep with him too in your name hehe.
Just add him, he knows you like him. So send him a couple of messages and ask if he'd like to meet up for lunch sometime. It's not rocket science OP and you'll definitely stand a better chance of being taken seriously if you do this yourself and while sober. Drunkenly getting your and his friends to ask him out etc. is cute but if you never do anything about it, it just gets plain creepy.
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