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30-35,
anonymous
writes:right now I don't know if I'm doing the right thing. I like this girl, I have a huge crush on her, we talked on tumblr (a social networking site) and I told her how I feel about her but she just politely told me that she only wanted to be friends as we live far away from each other. people tell me to move on, I want to but a part of me is still holding on because all I know is that I feel something different/special about her. I know that I still have a chance to be with her if I lived nearer. other people say that if you don't go after what you want you will never get it. so I'm stuck. please tell me how you feel about this situation.
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reader, sunandstars +, writes (12 April 2012):
There is a quote in Coldplay's song 'Fix You'; 'If you never try you'll never know.' It's completely true, if you feel something different about this girl just go for it, distance doesn't really matter if love is there (obviously it isn't now but it could be!). There's nothing really bad that could happen, but if you don't do it you'll just spend the rest of your life wondering. I say go for it, good luck!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 April 2012):
 sorry she's right at your age if you live far away you should just be friends... she's being wise and adult about this....
it's a question of location location location.....
it's much easier to have a relationship when you can see each other... there are too many pitfalls when you are in and LDR....
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (10 April 2012):
 You should follow your heart. You have been honest and straightforward with her and told her how you feel. I am sure she would appreciate that. If you can't do more than that and all she wants is friendship, there is nothing more you can do.
All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2012): It sounds like she does not want a long distance relationship, hence the choice to only be friends.
You can either respect that, or if you really feel in your heart this is worth chasing and pursuing to the ends of the earth, then remain friends with her, and use the time to get to know everything about her, and who knows what the future holds?
You are young, time will find a way?
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