My husband keeps 'liking' a pretty ex-coworker's pictures and statuses on Facebook, should I be worried?

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Question - (10 April 2012)

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A female age 41-50, *sur writes:

My husband is fasebook friends with an ex-coworker, a long time ago he told me he thought she was pretty. I've noticed lately he keeps liking her status and My husband is fasebook friends with an ex-coworker, he told me he thought she was pretty. I've noticed lately he keeps liking her status and pictures.Should I be concerned? . Should I be concerned?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2012):

Yea you should be worried, he's trying to get her attention, its like saying 'hey your still looking good'. Facebook is a relationship disaster, I don't know why people invest so much time on the site. Have a quiet word in his ear about both of you coming off there.Your married so why cant you just talk to each other, have friends round for dinner or drinks instead of 'adding' them online

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 April 2012):

I doubt it means much..

I like things all the time on facebook including my ex husband's picture of the ring he bought his fiance...

big deal

have you ASKED him what he means by it?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2012):

I had the same problem...we endend up fighting about facebook account over and over again..best thing to do.. quit whit that. I dont really thing is a healthy toll at all. Facebbok brings more problems than benefits. Is my personal opinion.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2012):

Grrrr, another Facebook problem affecting a relationship!

Either you should not be connected via facebook so you don't have to view these "likes". In the past, your husband may have smiled at that co-worker and you would have never known. What the eyes don't see, the heart does not grieve.

Disconnect your facebook from his, and have your own friends and enjoy it, instead of having to view him having his fun.

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