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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so i have a problem. my boyfriend has been talking to his ex on facebook all the time. I told him when he first added her i didn't like it but yet he still talks to her. well now another one of his ex's added me on facebook. me and my boyfriend are having a couple problems lately and so my friend said talking to him ex could help cause she went threw the same thing. now i don't known cause I don't want my boyfriend to get upset. i just don't think its fair that he can talk to people i don't like but I can't do the same. please help me
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (11 April 2012):
What he is doing is rude and inconsiderate. Every woman has a right to ask their man to break ties with exes,and vice versa.
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reader, Wisdom  +, writes (11 April 2012):
 Rather than talking to his ex girlfriend about your issues maybe you should be talking to him? Let me ask you something,If he added your ex boyfriend on FB and started talking about your relationship how would you feel? The relationship you have with your BF is different to the one he had with his ex so its not a good idea to do that. Your BF will see this as a massive breach of trust.
As for him talking to his ex, is it not better that they are friends rather than enimies? Remember that they broke up for a reason, he is with you now. Be strong and secure in your own relationship. Guys don't like needy and insecure women. As long as it is just talking and nothing sexual or anything like that its fine. If you really hate it try talking to him about it. Tell him that you are feeling inseucre.
Good luck
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