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writes:I have been friends with this girl since 2009 and I have feelings for her ,how do I tell her I love her with out ruining our friendship if she has no feelings for me Reply to this Question
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (10 April 2012):
 Perhaps, instead of just blurting out how much you love her, you could let her know that you like her a lot. Give her some flowers. Tell her straight out. I would be surprised if she hasn't worked you out already.
How would you feel if she found someone else? Just do it!
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (10 April 2012):
There is no safe way to do this at all. But if you don't, you will go insane hiding it.
My advice? Don't TELL her, just invite her out to dinner, your place or something like that, stroke her hair a bit and if she smiles, kiss her and see how far it goes.
You're going to go nuts if you don't, and at this point, the friendship is either going to grow into romance or end over bitter feelings that you are in love with her and she's not in love with you, whether you tell her or not.
Just man up and do it. And do it BEFORE she finds a real boyfriend who has the guts to tell her how he feels. Contemplate THAT the next time you hesitate to make your move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2012): Rather to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.
Take the risk! Do it...
If she is old fashioned like me, she won't make the first move, and you will lose the opportunity.
Hopefully she feels the same, and even if not, it will be an ego boost to know how you feel. You will feel lighter and more free.
You can then remain friends, or take it to the next level. Be the man, JUST DO IT.
You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
Good Luck!
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