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female
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anonymous
writes: hi everybody, im a 16 years old girl..and ive developed feelings for this guy who is 21 years old, with me in volunteer working..ive always had something for him but always neglected it, because this would be just stupid..but my feeling are getting stronger, i know stuff about the guy but not a lot too, we share 'a lot'of common interests, he always tells me you're older than your age a lot! andyou just fit to my head perfectly, and i see that too..so ive having the struggle with this thing.until i confessed to him everything..apparently he has someone his life, he told. and he told if this someone wasnt in my life i would have given us a chance..but he has someone so i should not think about the if part! and after me speaking up we really got tighter in someway, he opened a lot of stuff to me, and that just made me love him more and seek to knowing him more..and im trying so hard to do that..although not expecting anything in return, but friends would do am i right? i mean even if this someone wasnt in his life, why would he go for someone my age, when he can have a real woman and have sex with! and see when ever he wants..since we only see each other during weekends, since hes in a place and so am i..so please help me you guys,and tell me if what im doing is wrong or pyschic. or i dont know. just help me through. and would you think i might stand a chance with him later if things dont work with the someone in his life(though i wish him nothing but the best!) Reply to this Question Share |
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