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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My ex-girlfriend and I dated for nearly 18 months. After this time however, we found that we were fighting a lot (probably too much) and she had trouble opening up to me (telling me anything important actually). We ended up breaking up. She said that she needed her space. After 3.5 weeks we went to see each other, just to talk about things and what has happened. But when we saw each other, rather than talking, we started making out for a few hours. Afterwards, she is saying that she is confused about what happened and that she is in denial, saying that she shouldn't have done it. This is what confuses me, because she said she saw part of me that she fell in love with. However, after discussing it later, she says that it probably didn't mean anything and that its just something we missed about each other. I am really confused about what has happened and what it means about us. Previously, she has said that she does want to get back together with me, but it will take a long time.Can someone please help me out here? any help would be much appreciated.Thanks in advance
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 December 2011):
 I think she new that your relationship was not working out the way that it should be, you were both arguing a lot and it probably became stressful, for the both of you am sure. So I guess when you both met up to talk she felt all those romantic feelings flooding back but she now feels guilty about making out with you because she knows that the problems between you both are still there.
If you are both willing to work hard to make this relationship work then you need to meet up and talk about why the relationship went wrong. But you both need to resist making out and put your head in to trying to solve the problems that you had.
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