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*doresdior
writes: so I was wondering, when do you say I love you? Me and my bf have been together for almost 5 months. I know it's not like super long but it's like since day 1 we have spent everysingle day together, like literally everyday all day. I practically live at his house. I feel like I love him, but idk if it really is. And I want to say it only when I mean it cuz I care about this relationship. The only thing that stopping me is I don't want it to complicate things, make expectations higher, use that as black mail, or bring things to the next level cuz Idk if I'm ready for that yet. But I really want to tell him cuz I also feel like we always just say " I like you alot" or " I like you so much" and it's getting kinda of old. Or is there any other words or things I can say to him that explains how much I like more than just I like you but without having to say I love you? Or should I just say I love you?!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (21 December 2011):
if you love him tell him you love you never no how long you have so theres no time like the present.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2011): Hello dearie,
You really need to just say it. Being in a commited relationship and only saying "i like you a lot" is quite juvenile.
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