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writes:Okay so this is my first relationship and the same goes for my bf. We started seeing each other late may (we hadn't known each other at all before then), but became official a month later--- though when people ask i just say we've been going out for 2 months.Anyway, we don't see each other as often as other couples I know of do, maybe once, sometimes twice a week? We shared our first kissed at the beginning of july, and it's quickly err escalated since then. Last night we got really into it and I straddled him and we began kissing each others' necks, and he was sorta /half-way/ feeling me updoes it sound like we're going too fast for two months? should we slow down?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): I'm an ex drug user, and have lived a life of irresponsible. I started getting my things together for the last three years but haven't made it fully to where I want to be. I've been in a serious relationship with someone six years younger than me for the last six months and it seems to be only getting more serious. I want that but also I'm realizing that I haven't accomplished some goals that I need to be more independently stronger and stable and it feels like I can't give both sides my full attention. Should I be less worried about the relationship and just focus on goals, or should I weigh them both out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): Hmm only you know if your going too fast really...
Do you feel uncomfortable around him at all? When your in a relationship time doesnt really matter to be honest, its all about how you feel towards the other person. If you feel comfortable doing these things and are happy, carry on. Don't let other people influence your decisions at all :).
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reader, CGL0527  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 I'm not really an expert on this, but maybe you guys should slow down, you don't wanna get into something you might regret.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): hey,
Im the same age as you however me and boyfriend started to see each other last year. I met him at a party he was so shy that we barely knew each other when we got together. We had a struggle to make it work, because we didnt know each other.
I think that you should take it as slow/fast as you would like to depending how comfortable you are around him, also knowing that you will be together for a long time. Otherwise it is heartbreaking feeling you love this guy and he doesnt want the commitment.
I dont see my boyfriend only at the weekend because we go to different schools. I feel that this made our relationship stronger, because the compassion for each other was there. This will also work with your relationship as it grows stronger.
Good luck & Keep posted
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